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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago
somerset |
just because you decided to join a lifestyle site does not mean you will get anything ... nobody owes anybody anything
far to many join thinking that sex will be plentyfull and everybody shags everybody |
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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago
Newcastle |
"It's just my profile I've put on. Just like everyone got own names if I make sense. Yeah I do like interactive with people who don't fake and see me. "
Adding few pictures helps you never know where it can lead even without you sending the first message |
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"Your profile is non existent. People with check out your profile before they even read a message. Most will delete with no profile pic and no public pics. Might as well talk to a wall."
^^
Why should people make an effort to engage with you when you don't appear to have made any effort at all? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Very few people will interact with a blk silhouette.
If you only do one thing change it for a decent picture otherwise forget it.
Harsh but true.
I honestly don’t even know why anyone needs to be told this. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Very few people will interact with a blk silhouette.
If you only do one thing change it for a decent picture otherwise forget it.
Harsh but true.
I honestly don’t even know why anyone needs to be told this."
sometimes people need to hear some harsh truths and completely agree with what you said |
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Your profile text isn't the worst on here, but status updates like 'As always it's so hard much fun here' won't help; negativity and moaning never go down well.
And the bit about not having profile pics because of your job commitments? That's just a cop out for not having a public pic.
I'm sure you can find a photo that isn't a face shot and doesn't have your name, address, phone number and mother's maiden name in it. |
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"Very few people will interact with a blk silhouette.
If you only do one thing change it for a decent picture otherwise forget it.
Harsh but true.
I honestly don’t even know why anyone needs to be told this."
This every time  |
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"I've been here for a while and seems like no further action with my profile. "
As others have said, you definitely need photos.
I also reccomend rewriting your profile. I'm not sure if English isn't your first language or you're simply not good with the written word, but it's not well written.
I reccomend using word, which will help with spelling and punctuation. You can then copy the text into Fab. Paragraphs also make it easier to read.
Nita |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As most have already advised, your profile could benifit with having 2 or 3 pics uploaded, you do not have to show your face to give people an idea of you, also as Nita stated your bio text could do with being re-written with the aid of better structure and flow |
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But you not guaranteed to get anything just because your on here
I’ve turned off single male emails as all it was come fuck me here come do this there
There’s not a lot of respect towards single females and that then makes us just ignore male’s especially ones with no pics or feedback |
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You alone can manage your own expectations and how you promote yourself to others, alongside how much effort you invest in doing this.
Read some the many forum posts from single men who struggle. There are typically common themes as well as actions that can be taken by each of them, including you. |
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"I'll looking for your advice. What kind of pictures you think I should use? Thanks "
Op, by your own admission, youv been here a while, surely by now you would know what kind of pics you should post, sound like a notice me comment! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Your profile is non existent. People with check out your profile before they even read a message. Most will delete with no profile pic and no public pics. Might as well talk to a wall."
Exactly this, we'd immediately delete |
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