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By *inkyK88 OP   Woman  over a year ago

near you ;)

Hi all , might just be over cautious here but I seem to be seeing a trend of males messaging me from miles away , Ireland and London etc. When I point out the distance a few are saying they have just moved to Skipton or they are working here etc. They never show up on who's near though and seem very sketchy on details of their location.

Is this a scam I should be aware of, what are they trying to achieve?

Thanks in advance K xx

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By *ugby 123Couple  over a year ago
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O o O oo

I don't think it is a scam , more a person who is willing to travel so pretends they are in the area or are in the area for work etc

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By *inkyK88 OP   Woman  over a year ago

near you ;)

Ah fair enough, I suppose Scam is a bit of a harsh description of it.

Still just feels a bit creepy being lied too.

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By *orny-DJMan  over a year ago

Leigh-on-Sea

People will only show up on who's near if they are using the mobile site and they have enabled the 'who's nearby' function

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By *inkyK88 OP   Woman  over a year ago

near you ;)

Yeah true, but I was suspicious as one guy told me he was moving up here to renevate a house for a year, the street he told me he was renivating his old house on was finished being constructed 3 months ago haha

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By *heekyDemandCouple  over a year ago

Leicester

Also fantasists just looking for wank chat, distance means they are guaranteed not to meet

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman  over a year ago

Wherever

I get these all the times but never assumed it to be a scam. Rather taking their chances, the best to ignore or block if it’s what your gut feeling tells you.

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By *ittyandtheboyCouple  over a year ago

Back of the bins.


"Also fantasists just looking for wank chat, distance means they are guaranteed not to meet"

Exactly this!

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By *inkyK88 OP   Woman  over a year ago

near you ;)

Thanks guys, typical me thinking to much into it then. I'll just take it as a compliment from now on and nor worry as much xxx

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By *ickD80Man  over a year ago

Wolverhampton

You say that it feels creepy being lied to but why do you assume that they’re lying? If they’re sketchy on the details of their location then it’s probably because they don’t want to reveal their exact location to someone they’ve only just started talking to on the internet. If someone you’d only just started talking to on the internet asked you to give them precise details of your location would you give them or would you be a bit sketchy until you knew the person better?

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By *cnugatugMan  over a year ago

Chatham

Tread carefully may not be a scam but something sounds fishy op

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By *ove to watch in suffolkMan  over a year ago

stowmarket

probobly after your private pics thats all

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By *aizyWoman  over a year ago

west midlands


"Also fantasists just looking for wank chat, distance means they are guaranteed not to meet"

Yep pretty much this just trying it on telling you what they think you want to hear OP.

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By *ickD80Man  over a year ago

Wolverhampton

No where in your profile does it say that you don’t want messages from people who aren’t local to you, what it does say in your profile is that you’re interested in exchanging sexy messages and pictures which you can do with someone no matter where they live, so why are you so concerned with people’s location?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

As said it maybe them sending messages after reading your profile about exchanging pics

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By *litterbabeWoman  over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.


"Also fantasists just looking for wank chat, distance means they are guaranteed not to meet

Exactly this! "

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By *ickD80Man  over a year ago

Wolverhampton


"Also fantasists just looking for wank chat, distance means they are guaranteed not to meet"

Her profile literally says she’s interested in exchanging sexy texts and pictures so I don’t think that someone messaging her looking to exchange sexy texts and pictures (or wank chat) is a fantasist.

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By *inkyK88 OP   Woman  over a year ago

near you ;)

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By *inkyK88 OP   Woman  over a year ago

near you ;)

NickD. I'm not fussed about where they are from, and have never said I was!!!. What I asked was is it a scam that they initiated a chat with me stating they are moving or have moved to my exact location despite the fact they clearly haven't !!!. I'm very sorry this has clearly upset you for some reason.

Have a lovely day ??

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By *melie LALWoman  over a year ago

Peterborough


"Also fantasists just looking for wank chat, distance means they are guaranteed not to meet

Her profile literally says she’s interested in exchanging sexy texts and pictures so I don’t think that someone messaging her looking to exchange sexy texts and pictures (or wank chat) is a fantasist. "

She didn't ask for her profile to be discussed!

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