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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago
Paisley |
It happens when you least expect it. I’ve started seeing a guy from Fab and we met when a Fab friend brought him to a regular coffee social meet up that I organise.
I hadn’t even looked at his profile when he asked me to lunch. Two months later we’re still meeting each other and seeing how it goes. |
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I met my partner through here, and I actually messaged him first. We very nearly did not meet as life got in the way (I broke my knee, badly, about 2 days after I started chatting with him, ended up in hospital for nearly a month). We will be celebrating our 5th anniversary of first meet on Halloween this year. So yes, OP, relationships through here do happen. |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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They can be and they can work brilliantly.
But like anywhere else, they can also be kind of crap. I think you can't really look for one on here - they sort of happen.
If you're both open with each other, honest and place importance on the relationship, then yes they can work. Beautifully. |
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"If you're both open with each other, honest and place importance on the relationship, then yes they can work. Beautifully."
This, very much! Communication is an absolute key, particularly in swinging or in open relationship. |
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By *uto564Man
over a year ago
Widnes |
Yes it can happen…. Me and my now fiancee have been together 6 years…. We met through here and another app our first meet was a group meet at a swingers club… and we just hit it off from there…. Been Swinging as a couple ever since…..  |
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we met in a club then started messaging on here, we are now 2 years into our relationship, engaged and the wedding is booked. None of us were looking for a relationship but it just happened and we have the best of both worlds now. |
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I met my soul mate through this site, admittedly she was married at the time and was swinging with him, it was one of those dangerous situations where you both have so much in common. Anyway after they split she confessed to me that she really liked me I was the same so we started seeing each other. That was 10 years ago we have been married 6 1/2 years now and have two amazing children. Love is certainly possible through here. |
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Yep, almost 3 years ago. Despite what many say, as long as you're going to swing as a couple etc, then this is the ideal place to meet as you already know you can be fully open about what you want.
We covered off 99% of what we wanted out of a relationship before we even met, many things which wouldn't come up in a normal relationship until months down the line once you'd already fallen in love and then realised you weren't fully compatible.
Her profile made it very clear she was looking for a relationship though. |
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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago
Bristol |
"I met my soul mate through this site, admittedly she was married at the time and was swinging with him, it was one of those dangerous situations where you both have so much in common. Anyway after they split she confessed to me that she really liked me I was the same so we started seeing each other. That was 10 years ago we have been married 6 1/2 years now and have two amazing children. Love is certainly possible through here. "
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"I have been on here as a couple before.
Now single..mostly looking for a relationship. On here in the meantime, but wondering if relationships are ever possible on here"
Yes most definitely. I've even been to a Fab wedding and know of many others who have married after meeting here. However, best to see it as unlikely and a possible occurrence if you get lucky rather go searching. Enjoy all the things that swinging has to offer and perhaps meet somebody special along the way. |
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As Falcon43 said sometimes it happens when you least expect it. We met on here. Both single parents looking for uncomplicated sexual fun, nothing more, definitely not a relationship.
Our first social meet didn't get off to a good start. It was awkward, we didn't hit it off, she didn't like how I was dressed, it was hardly fireworks. It was going to be the end and we were about to part our seperate ways but then I kissed her and that kiss changed everything (I a bit of a dark horse). Bang, the fireworks kicked off. The meet ended up lasting all day, being a lot of fun and not so purely social. It really was as if Cupid visited us (we think in the guise of a lovely random guy giving out free homemade baked goods in the pub at the end). We ended the day holding hand and a with feeling there was something big going on. From that first social meet to now 5 years later and engaged.
It worked out wonderful meeting on here. The one you love should be the one you share your all sexual desires and kinks with. So if you're sexually non monogamous and naturally you want to be someone who wants to share in that with you or at the very least support you in your desires. In a good relationship everone need to be able to be truly themselves and completely loved for who they are in all aspects including their desires and kinks. So what better place to meet someone who does/will than in the lifestyle? Far easier than meeting someone vanilla, getting to know them and then dropping the swinger thing on them.
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"As Falcon43 said sometimes it happens when you least expect it. We met on here. Both single parents looking for uncomplicated sexual fun, nothing more, definitely not a relationship.
Our first social meet didn't get off to a good start. It was awkward, we didn't hit it off, she didn't like how I was dressed, it was hardly fireworks. It was going to be the end and we were about to part our seperate ways but then I kissed her and that kiss changed everything (I a bit of a dark horse). Bang, the fireworks kicked off. The meet ended up lasting all day, being a lot of fun and not so purely social. It really was as if Cupid visited us (we think in the guise of a lovely random guy giving out free homemade baked goods in the pub at the end). We ended the day holding hand and a with feeling there was something big going on. From that first social meet to now 5 years later and engaged.
It worked out wonderful meeting on here. The one you love should be the one you share your all sexual desires and kinks with. So if you're sexually non monogamous and naturally you want to be someone who wants to share in that with you or at the very least support you in your desires. In a good relationship everone need to be able to be truly themselves and completely loved for who they are in all aspects including their desires and kinks. So what better place to meet someone who does/will than in the lifestyle? Far easier than meeting someone vanilla, getting to know them and then dropping the swinger thing on them.
Mr"
Totally agree with this. Meeting on here means you know the other person is much more likely already of a certain mindset. |
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"I have been on here as a couple before.
Now single..mostly looking for a relationship. On here in the meantime, but wondering if relationships are ever possible on here
Yes most definitely. I've even been to a Fab wedding and know of many others who have married after meeting here. However, best to see it as unlikely and a possible occurrence if you get lucky rather go searching. Enjoy all the things that swinging has to offer and perhaps meet somebody special along the way. "
Our wedding wasn't exactly a fab wedding, but there was a who's who of people we'd both had fun with at one point or another. |
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Yes it's possible.
My first ever meet on here is the guy I'm currently with, we clicked and fell pretty much straight into a full blown relationship!
Certainly nothing either of us expected or was looking for.
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"Met my husband on here. Recently married and on honeymoon. Started out as a fwb but quickly turned into dating wasn't really looking at the time either ."
Absolutely love this. There is hope yet then |
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