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Does my profile make me look like a cunt ?
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By *pouts OP Man
over a year ago
Tain |
Had some harsh words lately and wondering if I've worded my set up wrong tbf it's seems its males that find it most offencive and I didn't realise that how it came across I do have ADD and maybe that's why I don't realise? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Had some harsh words lately and wondering if I've worded my set up wrong tbf it's seems its males that find it most offencive and I didn't realise that how it came across I do have ADD and maybe that's why I don't realise? "
Try reading it again and I think your answer is staring you in the face not very classy and certainly wouldn't attract me |
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By *AYENCouple
over a year ago
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"Had some harsh words lately and wondering if I've worded my set up wrong tbf it's seems its males that find it most offencive and I didn't realise that how it came across I do have ADD and maybe that's why I don't realise? "
It's a true reflection of yourself, so ignore the criticism, there's no point in trying to be someone you're not. |
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"Had some harsh words lately and wondering if I've worded my set up wrong tbf it's seems its males that find it most offencive and I didn't realise that how it came across I do have ADD and maybe that's why I don't realise? "
Yes. |
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"Had some harsh words lately and wondering if I've worded my set up wrong tbf it's seems its males that find it most offencive and I didn't realise that how it came across I do have ADD and maybe that's why I don't realise? "
Nice click-bait. You already know how you come across. |
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"Had some harsh words lately and wondering if I've worded my set up wrong tbf it's seems its males that find it most offencive and I didn't realise that how it came across I do have ADD and maybe that's why I don't realise? "
All I can say to that is I feel sorry for your wife! |
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Yes it does, your wife should join I'm sure she'd love the missing attention.
On the profile note you have written YUP several times answering yourself.
The "make you feel like god interfered with you" is just pure cringe, if the cheating didn't put me off enough or the Yup's that certainly would.
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I mean, you've called yourself a cunt in the text so you already know.
Profile itself though reads so disjointed, desperate and as if you're deliberately trying to make people find you unappealing, perhaps that's on purpose, like you're not actually committed to really meeting people and actually just here for quick wank bank material. |
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That was certainly an interesting read I think your first line kinda tells us that yes you do sound like a cunt being honest here you shouldn't be on here you should be with your wife you need to talk not cheat |
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"Had some harsh words lately and wondering if I've worded my set up wrong tbf it's seems its males that find it most offencive and I didn't realise that how it came across I do have ADD and maybe that's why I don't realise? "
If you are cheating, well yes. |
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"Had some harsh words lately and wondering if I've worded my set up wrong tbf it's seems its males that find it most offencive and I didn't realise that how it came across I do have ADD and maybe that's why I don't realise?
Nice click-bait. You already know how you come across. "
Agree and just using that word is a massive turn-off for life |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’ve got inattentive ADHD. Makes me intuitive and sensitive or a cunt. You’ve deleted your profile text but even the joke you’ve replaced it with gives off a passive aggressive vibe given this thread.
Yes people with ADHD including myself struggle with monogamy but you’ll never overcome the public perception that doing so is wrong to the majority. ADHDers are constantly seeking excitement/dopamine and when relationships stop being exciting, it’s easy to get tempted by the excitement of someone new.
Now my marriage is over, that’s why I’m here. It’s a double edged sword though because I’m not a fuck machine and need connection with someone before I can be intimate with them. I’ve been on here browsing for a long time and never met anyone from the site (although was introduced to the site by someone on here) and only chatted with a few.
For me sex with other neurodivergent people is the best. We tend to be kinky and empathetic so we will be able to relate to each other. We’re often people pleasers by the nature of the condition and the way we’re treated. So tend to be very focussed on others pleasure.
Please don’t give people with ADHD a bad name and if your profile was a real reflection of you before you changed it… then it’s not the profile that needs amendment, you need to look at yourself. I think you probably think that coming across as cocky and arrogant will be attractive. In my experience rarely does anyone worth meeting feel that way. |
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e woud definitely avoid 
You know how you come across,you even say so.
