Messy bedroom is a massive turn off, it shows a lack of general self pride, but more importantly a lack of effort for making a good impression on here.
Literally nothing on your profile, unless you send a lot of detail in your messages, no one knows anything about you. |
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Socials socials and more socials! That's the way forward on this site if you want to meet people my friend. It's a great way of networking and getting that all important meet verification that most people require before meeting one to one. There's always social events posted up on here. Keep an eye out and actually go to one  |
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"Messy bedroom is a massive turn off, it shows a lack of general self pride, but more importantly a lack of effort for making a good impression on here.
Literally nothing on your profile, unless you send a lot of detail in your messages, no one knows anything about you. "
I agree. That room is rather messy lol |
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"Messy bedroom is a massive turn off, it shows a lack of general self pride, but more importantly a lack of effort for making a good impression on here.
Literally nothing on your profile, unless you send a lot of detail in your messages, no one knows anything about you. "
^^^^^^
What they said |
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"Isn’t my bedroom ??"
Fact you think that's a valid explanation explains exactly why you're having no success.
The fact you thought that was a worth while picture in the first place says a lot.
With a decent profile and photos, you are the type of guy we meet but we'd instantly delete your message based on your profile. |
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By *orny-DJMan
over a year ago
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"Messy bedroom is a massive turn off, it shows a lack of general self pride, but more importantly a lack of effort for making a good impression on here.
Literally nothing on your profile, unless you send a lot of detail in your messages, no one knows anything about you. "
Though most people will check out the ptofile before even considering opening a message. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Isn’t my bedroom ??
Fact you think that's a valid explanation explains exactly why you're having no success.
The fact you thought that was a worth while picture in the first place says a lot.
With a decent profile and photos, you are the type of guy we meet but we'd instantly delete your message based on your profile. "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Why is it so hard to meet people?
Is it though?"
A decent written first message and first impressions of physical attraction. Conversation and connection are key. Nothinh hard in this at all. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The odds on here are stacked against you, nothing you can do about that.
As you haven’t asked for profile critique I can’t tell you the other reasons  "
As poster above says op has not asked for his profile to be inspected.
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All these years on here we've never met anyone on a meet arranged on Fab.
(not that we've really tried hard to be fair)
However we've met loads of great people through organised socials, clubs and parties. As well as people we've picked up in bars and camps in the vanilla world. Some of these people have become close freinds of ours.
So for us success lies out there in the physical world, not behind a screen. |
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Sadly you hid your profile before I got here but judging from the comments it wasn't good news. Dude it takes time, effort and patience to get on well here. It really is that simple a good bio + good photos + some patience = results that's the magic formula it doesn't guarantee actual nookie that's on you when you do meet but that really is all it takes
As Brian fontana said in anchorman
"60 percent of the time it works every time" |
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"The odds on here are stacked against you, nothing you can do about that.
As you haven’t asked for profile critique I can’t tell you the other reasons "
Yes you can if its relevant, it's in the rules |
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"The odds on here are stacked against you, nothing you can do about that.
As you haven’t asked for profile critique I can’t tell you the other reasons
As poster above says op has not asked for his profile to be inspected.
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Read the rules, if it's relevant you can mention it.
This old chestnut keeps cropping up. |
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From the rules:
No nit-picking please
Unless someone specifically asks for their profile to be critiqued or if it's relevant to the thread e.g. someone is wondering why they're not having success, please don't critique their profile or be mean about it. We want the forum to be open and friendly to newbies and everyone starts somewhere. |
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