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Any tips to being new on FAB would be greatly appreciated.
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Hey all would be appreciated if you would give js some advice.
Main tips are how to stand out
What sort of things are people looking for
How to sift out the time wasters since the people I’ve been talking to sort a meet out or is
interested then drops of the edge of the planet.
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Hello, welcome to the forum
It can be difficult to stand out but I'd say decent pictures and a concise but informative profile.
People are looking for varying things, read their profiles and it'll give you a good idea |
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Profile looks ok bio reads well, maybe better pics and explain why you can't accommodate (most will assume you have a gf/wife)
Your age range would put me off.
There's lots of local socials maybe go along to one and meet people get verified & join in the forums it's a great way to get to know people.
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Overall ok.
However, a better range of photos, explanation of why you cannot meet and removal of your job role might help.
I'm find those who think their job will get them laid, especially in such a role as yours, rather ick  but that's just me, others will like the idea.
Just be you...
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Like me you are obviously married or in a relationship, it will be tough but you look fit enough, maybe being a (Bobby) will tingle some girls (women's fantasies) "
Why is he obviously married or in a relationship ?
He's 23. More likely in student digs or family home is why he can't accom. |
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Get involved on the forums, maybe few more pics, bio is fine though, be polite in messages, know your audience and above all don't expect too much...and best of luck |
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"Hey all would be appreciated if you would give js some advice.
Main tips are how to stand out
What sort of things are people looking for
How to sift out the time wasters since the people I’ve been talking to sort a meet out or is
interested then drops of the edge of the planet.
Thanks for your time "
You're much better off with photos which don't need to blur your face, ie just don't have your fave in the photo. Also some decent lighting.
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Same advice as always go to clubs, don't be an aggressive dick bag, put time and effort in to your profile, be original when it comes to messages and just don't expect anything to be handed to you fab takes a lot of work effort and time |
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Tip 1: Have zero expectations. For a single male here, expectations are the mother of disappointment. Unless you expect nothing, then your expectations will be met.
Tip 2: Be kind. You won’t get it back, and the majority here treat people as a commodity and feel justified in doing so. But by being kind, polite and honest you can hold your head and standards high, while others are losing theirs.
Tip 3: Don’t be a dick, ever. Be the bigger, better person. |
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Just remember that it's hard for single guys on here. They outnumber the women and then many just are rude or shitty.
Sadly.... if you rely on fab for meets you may have trouble. But a good msg / profile and pics can help- as well as targeting your efforts. Check that a woman or couple are actually looking for someone like you or what you're also into.
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It can be difficult to sort out the people who will genuinely meet from the ones who like to talk the talk. Maybe suggest an early coffee meet.
Good luck 
