We have asked this before and the feedback was that there wasn't many photos of us together we have taken this on board and added a few but still very little interest any ideas what else we can do? |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
Seeing both parties is good.
Your profile text seems decent enough, covers who you are, what you want and what you offer.
The problem probably comes down more to communication via messages and just finding that mutual attraction thing. Not everyone is into everyone, and the more people involved the harder it is for everyone to be on board. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"We have asked this before and the feedback was that there wasn't many photos of us together we have taken this on board and added a few but still very little interest any ideas what else we can do?"
Are you proactively looking for people and messaging them and suggesting meeting? Checking meet requests of others? It can be hard for couples if you just wait for others to message. Of course getting out to groups socials or clubs would help if you can. One thing I've noticed wearing my couples hat is that if a couple with no veris for over a year people start assuming you don't want to actually meet and it puts them off especially given your comment about wanting to chat. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
It's v hard to find couples and get that four way spark and attraction op.
We have kept our single profiles due to this,we're not currently meeting ,but when we are if we want to meet together ,we'll go to a club.
Have you thought about trying a club op ?
Miss |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
Your profile text is good I would say although at one point I felt I wasn't quite sure what you was looking for.
So same room soft swap
Some FF exploration. Is what I took from it.
I hope that's right.
As poster above has said. Do you actively message other couples?
I (Ms) actually would like at least one pic of your male halves cock but that's just me and I understand not everyone is the same about that.
But in amongst so many pics of you. Which you are lovely by the way. My OH would go nuts for you.
Are clubs an option ? You can pick the night, get your childcare and a hotel nearby booked.
You get to go. You don't have to play. Can just socialise, enjoy each other. Or watch the open play.
Personally I really like the club option. Actually I need to make an effort to get some veris from it as it's made us look really inactive when we have been out lol.
People always think that couples are having mental amounts of sex with each other but getting that 4 way attraction or connection isn't as easy you'd think. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
 |
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"We have asked this before and the feedback was that there wasn't many photos of us together we have taken this on board and added a few but still very little interest any ideas what else we can do?
Are you proactively looking for people and messaging them and suggesting meeting? Checking meet requests of others? It can be hard for couples if you just wait for others to message. Of course getting out to groups socials or clubs would help if you can. One thing I've noticed wearing my couples hat is that if a couple with no veris for over a year people start assuming you don't want to actually meet and it puts them off especially given your comment about wanting to chat. "
Or that the woman left.... |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *rpeggioCouple
over a year ago
Baughurst |
As a couple, we would see your profile as not for us: likely genuine but a shy couple, still unsure of full swap and offering to take things slowly, female wanting to explore FF so her mind most likely on the female not the male. Nothing wrong with any of this, on the contrary you need to pursue what you like without pressures, but may not suit all couples, just be aware.
We had to reach out a lot when we started, many messages in a bottle, but in the end they landed on the right shores and we started to build our network of friends and clubs and private parties. The advice from others to start with clubs or organised socials is a good option so you can socialise without feeling pressure to play. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
» Add a new message to this topic
