It'll be fine. Once you've been you will wonder what you were nervous about. Just like any other club you've been to except some people are wearing less, talking about stuff you wouldn't hear normally, and occasionally having sex.
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Assuming it's The Attic you're going to you'll have a great time as its very friendly but they are also one of the clubs who give you a tour round which is a great way to find your feet and have any questions answered to put your mind at rest 
You may also get the tour with others which means you have instant people to chat to afterwards as well, easy to chat in the bar queue too. Just think of it as a bar with better people in it!   |
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"It'll be fine. Once you've been you will wonder what you were nervous about. Just like any other club you've been to except some people are wearing less, talking about stuff you wouldn't hear normally, and occasionally having sex.
Have fun "
Not been to a regular club since 2003… and that was in Prague the walls were moving… and I mean actually moving… |
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"Assuming it's The Attic you're going to you'll have a great time as its very friendly but they are also one of the clubs who give you a tour round which is a great way to find your feet and have any questions answered to put your mind at rest
You may also get the tour with others which means you have instant people to chat to afterwards as well, easy to chat in the bar queue too. Just think of it as a bar with better people in it! "
It is - that would be perfect |
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"It'll be fine. Once you've been you will wonder what you were nervous about. Just like any other club you've been to except some people are wearing less, talking about stuff you wouldn't hear normally, and occasionally having sex.
Have fun
Not been to a regular club since 2003… and that was in Prague the walls were moving… and I mean actually moving…"
Well hopefully it won't be the walls moving tonight |
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"We’d like to but scared we bump onto someone we know. Due to jobs that wouldn’t be good. "
We actually did bump into someone we knew...
Someone we've known for a long time (but not seen for 10 years) However they know all of our family and some of our friends. We also have sensitive jobs.
So what happened: Well they called out to us and came up to us and we had a hug. The reassured us on the night discretion is everything and throughout the night we said hello and had a few chats.
We also messaged afterwards.
Having been through that worry now we realise its really not an issue. Everyone we met whether they were interested in us or not was really friendly and were all there for the same thing because we all share common interests outlooks and goals
I think if you did meet someone you know it they would be be cool
Even if it's someone you don't get along with there is not much they can say... and you can simply deny it and avoid that particular club.
We had a great time. I hope you get to enjoy a club one day |
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"We’d like to but scared we bump onto someone we know. Due to jobs that wouldn’t be good.
We actually did bump into someone we knew...
Someone we've known for a long time (but not seen for 10 years) However they know all of our family and some of our friends. We also have sensitive jobs.
So what happened: Well they called out to us and came up to us and we had a hug. The reassured us on the night discretion is everything and throughout the night we said hello and had a few chats.
We also messaged afterwards.
Having been through that worry now we realise its really not an issue. Everyone we met whether they were interested in us or not was really friendly and were all there for the same thing because we all share common interests outlooks and goals
I think if you did meet someone you know it they would be be cool
Even if it's someone you don't get along with there is not much they can say... and you can simply deny it and avoid that particular club.
We had a great time. I hope you get to enjoy a club one day "
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"We’d like to but scared we bump onto someone we know. Due to jobs that wouldn’t be good.
We actually did bump into someone we knew...
Someone we've known for a long time (but not seen for 10 years) However they know all of our family and some of our friends. We also have sensitive jobs.
So what happened: Well they called out to us and came up to us and we had a hug. The reassured us on the night discretion is everything and throughout the night we said hello and had a few chats.
We also messaged afterwards.
Having been through that worry now we realise its really not an issue. Everyone we met whether they were interested in us or not was really friendly and were all there for the same thing because we all share common interests outlooks and goals
I think if you did meet someone you know it they would be be cool
Even if it's someone you don't get along with there is not much they can say... and you can simply deny it and avoid that particular club.
We had a great time. I hope you get to enjoy a club one day "
Everyone is there for the same reason and everyone should offer the same discretion |
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Wish I had the day off and could go for a walk