"Who pays for the hotel. My past experience was 50/50 but one woman I was talking to told me she has loads of offers and never pays for the hotel. Is that normal? Thanks "
No best to go 50/50 and put all names on booking |
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By *elkieWoman
over a year ago
Durham |
"If its someone your not too familiar with then surely it should all be discussed before the meet to avoid any confusion and embarrassment.
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This. If you can’t talk about paying for the hotel, how you going to talk about sex? |
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Guy usually pays for 1:1 meets.
With male friends I club with, I’ll pay hotel and they’ll get the club entry, taxis, dinner and bar bill so split that. But that’s with actual guys I’m friend with.
I don’t really recall ever paying for a hotel for a 1:1 meet. Offered but never been taken up on it. |
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"Who pays for the hotel. My past experience was 50/50 but one woman I was talking to told me she has loads of offers and never pays for the hotel. Is that normal? Thanks "
If they’re insisting on a hotel and she was happy with accom or club then I’d expect the guy to pay for it. |
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By *rpeggioCouple
over a year ago
Baughurst |
We go 50/50 always and we never stay (we have children so can't stay until late or overnight). Can't see why it matters who stays in the room, we use it for 4some fun so it seems fair a 50/50 split. |
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"Who pays for the hotel. My past experience was 50/50 but one woman I was talking to told me she has loads of offers and never pays for the hotel. Is that normal? Thanks "
I’d leave her with all of the amazing offers!
50/50 all the way, unless the guy offers to pay once a hotel meet is discussed.
Personally, I’d always book the hotel, place both names on the booking, it’s then drama free and not even a discussion point; but that’s me!
I’m not meeting anybody who’s debating the financial specifics before we’ve even met! |
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over a year ago
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I always pay for the hotel as I like to stay the night and usually order to
Service and breakfast to my room in the morning.
I just feel more comfortable |
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By *9alMan
over a year ago
Bridgend |
"Who pays for the hotel. My past experience was 50/50 but one woman I was talking to told me she has loads of offers and never pays for the hotel. Is that normal? Thanks "
its usual for the man to pay |
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It depends on the person. I always offer half but a lot of the men I know like to pick up the tab. If i know they have a lot more money than me I will pay for say a meal . Then again if I know they are struggling I have paid the whole thing. So it just depends on the relative financial position. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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With mu fwb he always paid (we used day rooms) if I checked in first and paid he paid me back. I offered to pay towards it but he insisted he pay all. True gent  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As a gentleman I’ve always accepted it has a social norm that I pay for the hotel.
My friend with benefits always says let me pay but I let her take me for dinner and lunches instead.
We’ve stayed all over the UK and if there is a mutual
Understanding, it’s a great deal of fun.
You can make as much mess as you want and order snacks at 3am…..perfect! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"As a gentleman I’ve always accepted it has a social norm that I pay for the hotel.
My friend with benefits always says let me pay but I let her take me for dinner and lunches instead.
We’ve stayed all over the UK and if there is a mutual
Understanding, it’s a great deal of fun.
You can make as much mess as you want and order snacks at 3am…..perfect!"
You want another fwb?? 
Asking for a friend lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"As a gentleman I’ve always accepted it has a social norm that I pay for the hotel.
My friend with benefits always says let me pay but I let her take me for dinner and lunches instead.
We’ve stayed all over the UK and if there is a mutual
Understanding, it’s a great deal of fun.
You can make as much mess as you want and order snacks at 3am…..perfect!
You want another fwb??
Asking for a friend lol "
My my, tell me about this friend of yours,
You can whisper it to me if your shy  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"She's imaginary, but I'm happy to take her place "
Stepping in for her are you, such a selfless soul, only a true friend would do such a thing
Tell me about these benefits haha x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"She's imaginary, but I'm happy to take her place
Stepping in for her are you, such a selfless soul, only a true friend would do such a thing
Tell me about these benefits haha x"
You get to pay for the hotel, and help me make a mess in it  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"She's imaginary, but I'm happy to take her place
Stepping in for her are you, such a selfless soul, only a true friend would do such a thing
Tell me about these benefits haha x
You get to pay for the hotel, and help me make a mess in it "
Talk about an offer you can’t refuse! |
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We’ve been invited to a hotel and the guy was paying, and we have invited a guy to a hotel and we paid.
Seems easier this way, as you then get to decide if you are with a cheapskate and just drive by, or you choose a place you want to stay in without making someone else pay for you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We’ve been invited to a hotel and the guy was paying, and we have invited a guy to a hotel and we paid.
Seems easier this way, as you then get to decide if you are with a cheapskate and just drive by, or you choose a place you want to stay in without making someone else pay for you."
This is a common theme, I just find it you really want to spend time and chill with someone and have that connection then you do what you need to do, plus it’s just good manners |
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