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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is it normal to get endless messages from straight men who want there cock wanked and sucked. "
I feel that pain. But yes it seems to be normal unfortunately. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"They are not straight if they messaging you to do those things. Men like that need to come out the closet and admit who they really are and not pretend to be someone they're not"
This ^ |
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By *ickD80Man
over a year ago
Wolverhampton |
"I do actually believe most men would like try wanking and sucking but just haven't the bottle. "
Do you mean that you think most men would like to try wanking and sucking another man’s cock or would like to try having their cock wanked and sucked by another man? |
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"Is it normal to get endless messages from straight men who want there cock wanked and sucked. "
Very much a rarity for me? I get pretty much daily offers from guys to suck my cock though? I also was offered cash one time if I let a guy wank me off…. |
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Yep some men and some women aren't always honest on fab.
Men tend to say they're straight so it doesn't put women/couples off meeting them (many say no bi men).
I'm not sure why women put straight when they play with other women regularly,but they do.
Take everything people say with a pinch of salt on here op,in an ideal world people would just be upfront,there's nothing to be ashamed of in being bi.
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By *renzMan
over a year ago
Between Chichester and Havant |
I , when on here previously had a guy message me "because straight mens cock tastes better"! When I declined he then offered me money. I did point out that if I allowed him to suck my cock I wouldn't be straight so it invalidated his argument.
As someone else pointed out more men need to admit to themselves they are at least bi curious. There shouldn't be any stigma associated with that in this day and age. I should say that there are many more couples with the male saying they are bi or bi curious, since I first entered the lifestyle which I think is a positive. Can't comment on single male profiles as I don't look at them. |
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"It annoys the crap out of me too. It seems that the majority of men don't understand the definition of 'Straight'"
You see, some people understand the definition of straight to mean only being attracted to people of the opposite sex, so some men see that to mean that they can suck 20 cocks a day and still be completely straight as long as they don't find men actually attractive. It's a funny old world, there are worse thing in the world than being bi sexual, like being Tory for instance |
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"They are not straight if they messaging you to do those things. Men like that need to come out the closet and admit who they really are and not pretend to be someone they're not"
Agreed, it's men like these who when msging bi couples get the block button because their profile state they are straight, then come to your inbox telling us they are bi and then get arsy when we don't believe them! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We get many messages from couples where the male is listed as straight.
When questioned the answer is always the same. The male is really bi and really into TV’s but they don’t want to put it on their profile. |
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Straight is, as straight identifies. Straight men can have sex with whoever and it doesn't mean that they have attraction to the people having sexual contact with them. Porn and sex industry staff have sex every day with those who they can have zero sexual attraction to. This is aside from heterosexual identification, it's just a basic fact of life.
Notwithstanding all of that, if a person sees another as someone of a different gender, then it's understandable why they'd not consider it bi/gay attraction.
In Fab, the regular assumptions that most would make can be put aside. Ultimately, if you are happy that you know and respect your own preferences, them you can allow others the freedom as adults to be able to do that for themselves. If you're not happy, don't do something. |
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Yes, multi faceted question is?
If a Guy goes to a Gloryhole he doesn’t know who is on the other side, maybe a woman or a Guy. He Cums all the same to stimulation. Does that make him Bi?
A guy has a massage off another Guy. He closes his eyes during Genital stimulation. Again he Cums does that make him Bi?
I a 3 Sum the Guy goes down on a woman the other Guy stimulates him again he Cums does that make him Bi?
There are loads of Guys who crave touch and stimulation. Yet they have no interest in Cock, Balls or Ass.
A difficult answer to this one. I would say they are straight.
I enjoy touch, from whom ever. I have no interest in Cock though.
If that makes me Bi. Then the interaction would be all one way not fair at all on the other person. As I would have no interest in returning the favour.
My opinion only though. |
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"There is a difference between being sexually bi / gay and romantically bi / gay
They don’t automatically go hand in hand…excuse the pun
Is one of the differences kissing? "
There are no uniform permutations of romantic/physical attraction between genders, including physical behaviours that are liked. We humans just exist with interests and preferences along multiple continuous, keeping us all perplexed  |
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"Yes, multi faceted question is?
If a Guy goes to a Gloryhole he doesn’t know who is on the other side, maybe a woman or a Guy. He Cums all the same to stimulation. Does that make him Bi?
A guy has a massage off another Guy. He closes his eyes during Genital stimulation. Again he Cums does that make him Bi?
I a 3 Sum the Guy goes down on a woman the other Guy stimulates him again he Cums does that make him Bi?
There are loads of Guys who crave touch and stimulation. Yet they have no interest in Cock, Balls or Ass.
A difficult answer to this one. I would say they are straight.
I enjoy touch, from whom ever. I have no interest in Cock though.
If that makes me Bi. Then the interaction would be all one way not fair at all on the other person. As I would have no interest in returning the favour.
My opinion only though. "
Guy at the glory hole would be furious.
Guy getting the massage would get the fuck off the table.
And no,he wouldn't let another guy wank him off while he eats pussy.
Just a fantasy. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is it normal to get endless messages from straight men who want there cock wanked and sucked. "
Either they're not straight or they are straight and desperate (I mean no offence by this btw) so happy to just see a hand as a hand and a mouth as a mouth
(I mean desperate as willing to bend their sexuality in order to get some attention, nothing personal towards you) |
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"Is it normal to get endless messages from straight men who want there cock wanked and sucked. "
You should be flattered and grateful dear, if this is the case.. tho i see you don't have a single verification, so maybe its just wishful thinking  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is it normal to get endless messages from straight men who want there cock wanked and sucked.
You should be flattered and grateful dear, if this is the case.. tho i see you don't have a single verification, so maybe its just wishful thinking "
Or maybe they're just not interested in straight men? |
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By *antasycouple31Couple
over a year ago
Between Pontarddulias and Gorseinon |
It’s an interesting topic, is it about the way someone looks or their sexual organ?
Does being interested in a convincing male to female TV make you gay (you are attracted to them looking like a woman), but a female to male (so looks totally like a dude but with a pussy) means you are straight? |
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The thing is I don't care if men like other men, thats fine by me nuff respect for the gay men. I just dont have any respect for the Down Low men who say they straight but love doing sexual things with other men because to me not only is it dishonest but they need to realize they being selfish when they probably have female partners and putting their health at risk by not knowing what they could be passing on to them. I dont care if my comments rubs people the wrong way just stating the facts |
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It is very odd how stating your orientation from four options here changes peoples views.
To me straight means no interest in any sexual involvement with the same sex. Which I feel,is a very small,group indeed.
How many men think of watching another guy or being watched, touching or more? Lots I would imagine.
In the bi directing room there are always dozens of "straight" guys wanking on cam to a room with about a 95 M or TV/TS audience.
Just be honest with yourselves. |
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"The thing is I don't care if men like other men, thats fine by me nuff respect for the gay men. I just dont have any respect for the Down Low men who say they straight but love doing sexual things with other men because to me not only is it dishonest but they need to realize they being selfish when they probably have female partners and putting their health at risk by not knowing what they could be passing on to them. I dont care if my comments rubs people the wrong way just stating the facts"
I kind of get part of what you are saying here.
More important perhaps is people who cheat in an unsafe way with any partner of any sexual orientation.
Straight bareback sex with "Claggy fanny Annie" and protected sex with a fully tested and hygenic gay man are very different risks.
Its the action not the partner. |
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"The thing is I don't care if men like other men, thats fine by me nuff respect for the gay men. I just dont have any respect for the Down Low men who say they straight but love doing sexual things with other men because to me not only is it dishonest but they need to realize they being selfish when they probably have female partners and putting their health at risk by not knowing what they could be passing on to them. I dont care if my comments rubs people the wrong way just stating the facts
I kind of get part of what you are saying here.
More important perhaps is people who cheat in an unsafe way with any partner of any sexual orientation.
Straight bareback sex with "Claggy fanny Annie" and protected sex with a fully tested and hygenic gay man are very different risks.
Its the action not the partner."
You are both correct. The subject of the thread though is about supposedly straight men who lie about their real sexuality because they are a) ashamed of what they are, or b) hiding it because they don’t have the self respect to not sleep with people who don’t want to sleep with who they really are.
Why would you want to sleep with someone who doesn’t want to sleep with you? |
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As a cuckold couple, over the years we have met numerous guys who are ‘straight’ that have enjoyed me ‘fluffing’ their cocks, all I can say is they didn’t seem to mind it was a man’s mouth around their cock lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It’s like the old joke…
“I’m not gay, I just fuck men who are”
 
I've seen a T-Shirt in a Soho (London) store that said...
"I'm not gay but my boyfriend is!""
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"They are not straight if they messaging you to do those things. Men like that need to come out the closet and admit who they really are and not pretend to be someone they're not"
Does it really matter?
How does it affect you at all?
They can do what they like and what is good for them without a label.
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"It’s like the old joke…
“I’m not gay, I just fuck men who are”
I've seen a T-Shirt in a Soho (London) store that said...
I'm not gay, I just help them out when they're busy.
"I'm not gay but my boyfriend is!""
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"The thing is I don't care if men like other men, thats fine by me nuff respect for the gay men. I just dont have any respect for the Down Low men who say they straight but love doing sexual things with other men because to me not only is it dishonest but they need to realize they being selfish when they probably have female partners and putting their health at risk by not knowing what they could be passing on to them. I dont care if my comments rubs people the wrong way just stating the facts"
You have decided that they are 'putting their health at risk ' and their female partners , yet, you know nothing about these people.
Are you tested regularly or only if you get symptoms?
Do you check if the wonen you meet are regularly tested?
What a load of bull.
Thinly veiled hatred and homophobia is what that is.
Grow up. |
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