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"Both do it, it's their choice and no body else's business
I agree. It's just that sometimes they make it other people's business by publicising it and asking for opinions. "
 Very true ,Of course women do it also but You never see a woman making a woe is me post or talking shit about their husband .They tend to just go about their business quietly.. |
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"Both do it, it's their choice and no body else's business
I agree. It's just that sometimes they make it other people's business by publicising it and asking for opinions. Very true ,Of course women do it also but You never see a woman making a woe is me post or talking shit about their husband .They tend to just go about their business quietly.."
Agree and whilst it is a generalisation I think the women tend to be more upfront about it.
Some people are ok with seeing married/attached some aren't. Just be open about your situation. |
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"Both do it, it's their choice and no body else's business
I agree. It's just that sometimes they make it other people's business by publicising it and asking for opinions. Very true ,Of course women do it also but You never see a woman making a woe is me post or talking shit about their husband .They tend to just go about their business quietly.."
If women do publicise it they're judged far less harshly than the men. Men and women try to understand why they're doing it, attribute blame to circumstances or their partner, if they say their marriage is sexless they'll get men saying they can't understand why because she's so beautiful etc. Men tend to be told to masturbate and do more washing up. The eternal double standard |
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"Both do it, it's their choice and no body else's business
I agree. It's just that sometimes they make it other people's business by publicising it and asking for opinions. Very true ,Of course women do it also but You never see a woman making a woe is me post or talking shit about their husband .They tend to just go about their business quietly..
If women do publicise it they're judged far less harshly than the men. Men and women try to understand why they're doing it, attribute blame to circumstances or their partner, if they say their marriage is sexless they'll get men saying they can't understand why because she's so beautiful etc. Men tend to be told to masturbate and do more washing up. The eternal double standard"
Most of the time if a woman posts a woe is me post them it's followed up with "poor you" or "he's mad" or "leave the loser". A guy posts the same and it's followed up with "think about her needs" or "she probably shagging someone else". Sometimes the double standards on fab are crazy. |
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"Given men vastly outnumber women on site then accurately judging the proportion of those engaged in illicit meets by gender is going to be quite difficult.
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Based on real life experience over the years clear that lot of ladies are married - some say upfront but would say most don't and it becomes clear later. You are right that who knows on proportion men vs ladies but it is certainly a significant proportion of the ladies. And as commented above I do think they are judged less harshly on Forum although Forum is tiny bit of Fab so guess it doesn't matter really. |
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over a year ago
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Yes you will get women doing the same but they don’t advertise as much like men do or not what we have seen anyway.
It’s up to them what they do on here but personally we would avoid anyone doing this. |
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I had a girlfriend using fab to cheat on me that's actually how I found out about fab we broke up and after a few weeks drowning myself in pity I joined the site and have been on and off since always came back though fab draws you in lol |
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"Meeting married women seems so much more exciting knowing there husband is not performing very well and the women are more discreet about it."
100% agree.
They also have a tendency to let their hair down even more. |
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"Meeting married women seems so much more exciting knowing there husband is not performing very well and the women are more discreet about it.
100% agree.
They also have a tendency to let their hair down even more."
How do you know they're letting their hair down more and their husbands aren't performing very well?
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From my bio
‘Married but it’s complicated. Very,very complicated. If my status & the complications that come with me bother you then please pass me by.’
I’m honest in saying I’m married & also it’s not for everyone. If people want to know my situation I will tell them. I’m not hiding the fact I’m married. |
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"From my bio
‘Married but it’s complicated. Very,very complicated. If my status & the complications that come with me bother you then please pass me by.’
I’m honest in saying I’m married & also it’s not for everyone. If people want to know my situation I will tell them. I’m not hiding the fact I’m married."
fair play for being so honest. |
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"From my bio
‘Married but it’s complicated. Very,very complicated. If my status & the complications that come with me bother you then please pass me by.’
I’m honest in saying I’m married & also it’s not for everyone. If people want to know my situation I will tell them. I’m not hiding the fact I’m married.fair play for being so honest. "
I won’t hide the fact that I’m married. I leave it up the individual if they choose to meet me after the fact. There’s no sob story either in my situation & whilst I don’t broadcast it I will divulge if asked. |
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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago
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"Both do it, it's their choice and no body else's business
I agree. It's just that sometimes they make it other people's business by publicising it and asking for opinions. "
People should be more focused on whatever they intend on doing and not what others are because it doesn't effect them... People who do this have far too much time on their hands  |
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"Yes you will get women doing the same but they don’t advertise as much like men do or not what we have seen anyway.
It’s up to them what they do on here but personally we would avoid anyone doing this. "
There are shedloads of videos online with women talking about their body count, cheating on their men etc. |
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Plenty of women have the opportunity to do so, more than most men so yes. Plenty do.
Personally I'd say it's a bad look no matter who it is, especially those who have gotten married to not be honest about what they wanted from life before getting into that position.
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"Meeting married women seems so much more exciting knowing there husband is not performing very well and the women are more discreet about it.
100% agree.
They also have a tendency to let their hair down even more."
And this is why married women are more accepted than married men!
Guys are more likely to go for it due to lack of choice (judging by the hundreds of we don't get any messages posts) women are inundated with offers so don't need to choose the married guys. Plenty of truly single guys to choose from. |
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It’s a real tough one to be honest because the judgement people make on other people without knowing their circumstances can be quite harsh.
As a cuckold couple we found our level and honesty with each other quite early on in our marriage, perhaps if we hadn’t we wouldn’t be together now !
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