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By *hazkiand OP Couple
over a year ago
crawley |
i really dont know how i feel abot this, we had a couple arrange a meet for last Saturday and said they would give us the details friday, well friday sat sun and monday came and went with no message even though we kept missing them online, my parter sent a txt to the number they gave on sat no reply anyway we were both on last night and up they popped so he asked what happened anyway after 1 message online saying they had had an emergency she starts txtin my partner dirty txts now we dont live together but all our conversation with people are done on here so we can both see , i trust my partner implicitly so cant understand why iv been fuming all night mainly with her am i wrong? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes and no.
Your partner should have told couple to stop texting and inbox so you could both see the messages, but couple who had an emergency are ones in wrong surely, if they had been online and you guys kept missing them, they could still send a message to say they had to cancel |
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By *hazkiand OP Couple
over a year ago
crawley |
Oh he knows that now lol but at least he told me, no the upsetting thing for me is that they had received the text on Saturday but didn't use the number until after givin a halfassed excuse online who is she hideing the conversation from me or her partner it just dont feel right lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i really dont know how i feel abot this, we had a couple arrange a meet for last Saturday and said they would give us the details friday, well friday sat sun and monday came and went with no message even though we kept missing them online, my parter sent a txt to the number they gave on sat no reply anyway we were both on last night and up they popped so he asked what happened anyway after 1 message online saying they had had an emergency she starts txtin my partner dirty txts now we dont live together but all our conversation with people are done on here so we can both see , i trust my partner implicitly so cant understand why iv been fuming all night mainly with her am i wrong?"
Did your partner respond to the texts? If not really failing to see the issue |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I feel the female of the other couple is not being honest..and appears to be sneaky, I can understand your outrage...but at the end of the day, you trust your partner and that is all that counts...
It makes me angry sometimes when single fems contact my bf and expect him to court them...lol, its not a dating site or a sex site for that matter!  |
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By *hazkiand OP Couple
over a year ago
crawley |
Thanks i feel u get what i mean, it makes me mad that she thinks that sending him dirty texts to his phone therefore excluding myself and her husband from the conversation is going to entice me to want to meet them especially when she failed to answer a txt on Saturday to let us know they would not b turning up, it really does begger belief |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Thanks i feel u get what i mean, it makes me mad that she thinks that sending him dirty texts to his phone therefore excluding myself and her husband from the conversation is going to entice me to want to meet them especially when she failed to answer a txt on Saturday to let us know they would not b turning up, it really does begger belief "
This can happen a lot.. With couples new to the site or new to the scene, then again not all couples are swingers...mearly couples using the site for sex...
If any situation makes you or you partner uncomfortable or bicker in anyway...then its time to say...is THIS couple worth the agro to your relationship...
I did also have to teach myself to overcome my jealousy of other women overstepping bounderies in my relationship...and talked at length with my bf on the subject...I believe he may have assumed all contact was from "swinging" women but their messages seeked constant compliments and ego stroking...lol my bf don't do any of that, don't come to us looking for what you're missing...that's my two bobs worth! Lol!  |
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By *hazkiand OP Couple
over a year ago
crawley |
Lol i get what u mean, and yes there is an element of jelousy there but he's showing me the txt but as i said he was honest and told me she was txtin but it still feels like she's trying to get what shes missing from my fella x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Lol i get what u mean, and yes there is an element of jelousy there but he's showing me the txt but as i said he was honest and told me she was txtin but it still feels like she's trying to get what shes missing from my fella x"
The truth is a lot of them are sweetheart, and our guys sometimes can't see it even though its really obvious to us women....trust your instincts they will be spot on for you!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Thank you so much, he can't see it lol as u say, but i trust and luv him, i can see what she's tryin to do and it wont work with this gal lol x  "
I find it funny guys can spot a knobhead from space but can't see that women are just as bad if not worse...
Flattery by way of interest from a woman is sometimes enough to cloud a guys judgement...all we can do is talk to our guys about our fears and worries and hope they can understand and see things from our perspective!
Yes... guys used to txt me all the time but bf knew the guys were only after a shag and i would keep all messages
Until he'd read them..
But a lot of women tend to be looking for affection and intimacy...and because bf is a guy looking for a shag he sometimes fails to notice this....I am lucky that my guy does not just assume that i'm jealous, but that the person/persons we are in contact with may appear to be lacking in the truth and honesty department...
As I can't stand liars and don't trust anyone I don't know, we would probs ditch them anyways lol...but it still would be useful info as maybe your partner will notice more of the games women play now..
We don't give out numbers unless the person is leaving to meet us! Cuts down on wasting my own time!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"...iv been fuming all night mainly with her am i wrong?"
Nope, you're not wrong! I'm glad you have a solid relationship with your guy - agree between you that this isn't a couple you want to know, block them on here, and delete all texts unread. |
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By *hazkiand OP Couple
over a year ago
crawley |
To be fair to my fella he didn't know it was her number he just assumed that they like we do had given the guys number and he only txt Saturday to try and find out if we were still meeting so she didnt reply Saturday but kept the number, lol he just couldn't see what she was doing, but i'd luv to be able to put her straight lol . Thanks again hun x |
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