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By *onny Bones OP Man
over a year ago
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Just read and commented on a thread discussing the term BBC. It was interesting and had me question my own stereotypes, the terms I use to describe some of my fantasies.
I like big butts, I can not lie! What is the consensus on using therm PAWG to describe the white girls with ‘phat’ ass that I enjoy playing with?
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Guess you can use what you want but then apart from offending some people (whether you care about that is up to you - personally I try not you) there is also the possibility you end up excluding some people you might quite like.
I see MILF as one term mentioned - that is another one that many don't like especially those ladies who for various reasons haven't/couldn't have children. I know somebody who really detests seeing that and the various MILF club events. |
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"Guess you can use what you want but then apart from offending some people (whether you care about that is up to you - personally I try not you) there is also the possibility you end up excluding some people you might quite like.
I see MILF as one term mentioned - that is another one that many don't like especially those ladies who for various reasons haven't/couldn't have children. I know somebody who really detests seeing that and the various MILF club events. "
I feel like that about MILF; not a fan, but then again it’s so widely used I wouldn’t expect someone not to use it off the bat…but I would tell them not to, and neither would I go to events that advertise as such. Also not a fan of PAWG either, as I’d like to think I’m more than just a fat ass, colour immaterial. |
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"Guess you can use what you want but then apart from offending some people (whether you care about that is up to you - personally I try not you) there is also the possibility you end up excluding some people you might quite like.
I see MILF as one term mentioned - that is another one that many don't like especially those ladies who for various reasons haven't/couldn't have children. I know somebody who really detests seeing that and the various MILF club events. "
I think the word is largely used just about nature and attractive these days rather than specifically motherhood. But I can see how it could be very hurtful. |
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"I think the word is largely used just about nature and attractive these days rather than specifically motherhood. But I can see how it could be very hurtful. "
With my age and my curves it's one I see too often. It's rare it gets any response other than a block on here. I'm not a breeder and I dislike the associations, personally. |
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I've never heard that one before but as with most of these things the connotations when used about racialised minorities is very different when used about white people. White women aren't fetishised for having big butts or being hypersexualised (and therefore considered more 'animalistic') the way black women have been/are so it couldn't possibly be offensive in the same way as if you were saying PABG or whatever. |
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"I've never heard that one before but as with most of these things the connotations when used about racialised minorities is very different when used about white people. White women aren't fetishised for having big butts or being hypersexualised (and therefore considered more 'animalistic') the way black women have been/are so it couldn't possibly be offensive in the same way as if you were saying PABG or whatever. "
It’s offensive because it reduces someone to a single body part. I don’t agree that it’s any less offensive just because it refers to a white person. |
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By *laleeWoman
over a year ago
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"I've never heard that one before but as with most of these things the connotations when used about racialised minorities is very different when used about white people. White women aren't fetishised for having big butts or being hypersexualised (and therefore considered more 'animalistic') the way black women have been/are so it couldn't possibly be offensive in the same way as if you were saying PABG or whatever.
It’s offensive because it reduces someone to a single body part. I don’t agree that it’s any less offensive just because it refers to a white person. "
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By *laleeWoman
over a year ago
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"I've never heard that one before but as with most of these things the connotations when used about racialised minorities is very different when used about white people. White women aren't fetishised for having big butts or being hypersexualised (and therefore considered more 'animalistic') the way black women have been/are so it couldn't possibly be offensive in the same way as if you were saying PABG or whatever.
It’s offensive because it reduces someone to a single body part. I don’t agree that it’s any less offensive just because it refers to a white person. "
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I just don't understand the need for the labels. I mean if someone is looking for PAWG/MILF/Cougar I just don't see how that is endearing or attractive  I am white and have a big Ass and I'm a mother/old but when people use those terms it gives me the ick.
I'm not offended or a "karen" or a "snowflake "
It's just Meh and a turn off |
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"I just don't understand the need for the labels. I mean if someone is looking for PAWG/MILF/Cougar I just don't see how that is endearing or attractive I am white and have a big Ass and I'm a mother/old but when people use those terms it gives me the ick.
I'm not offended or a "karen" or a "snowflake "
It's just Meh and a turn off "
Completely with you on all of that. Just, no! |
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"I just don't understand the need for the labels. I mean if someone is looking for PAWG/MILF/Cougar I just don't see how that is endearing or attractive I am white and have a big Ass and I'm a mother/old but when people use those terms it gives me the ick.
I'm not offended or a "karen" or a "snowflake "
It's just Meh and a turn off "
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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago
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some labels are important but some are just pointless i hate milf / mature and if i had a fat ass id not want to be called pawg or bbw or skinny or what ever im a woman who if i fancy someone ill have fun with them i like to think im being thought about in the same way ...
its men who watch to much crappy american porn i had some guy saying i was a ittie bittie tittie the other day block .... |
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"I just don't understand the need for the labels. I mean if someone is looking for PAWG/MILF/Cougar I just don't see how that is endearing or attractive I am white and have a big Ass and I'm a mother/old but when people use those terms it gives me the ick.
I'm not offended or a "karen" or a "snowflake "
It's just Meh and a turn off "
Exactly this |
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It’s just a quick search porn niche that has spilled over into mainstream use
I think it’s just a case of personal views on porn / fetishisation and slang.
Loads of my younger mates use the pawg term on themselves for messing around / tik tok / of etc
We all get fetishised to some degree at some point . |
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Agreed, porn is a turn - off. I'm often puzzled why women complain about Dick-pics but publish pics of their ***** or perhaps I should say vaginas - even here in Weymouth, where ageism rules out a direct reply! |
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"Agreed, porn is a turn - off. I'm often puzzled why women complain about Dick-pics but publish pics of their ***** or perhaps I should say vaginas - even here in Weymouth, where ageism rules out a direct reply! "
I'm assuming this is aimed at me!  |
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"Agreed, porn is a turn - off. I'm often puzzled why women complain about Dick-pics but publish pics of their ***** or perhaps I should say vaginas - even here in Weymouth, where ageism rules out a direct reply!
I'm assuming this is aimed at me! "
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By *onny Bones OP Man
over a year ago
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I wonder if the terminology used makes it easier to accept? The term ‘Phat’ hasn’t ever been used to refer to anything in a negative way. Much in the same way some would describe something impressive as being sick or bad. |
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"Agreed, porn is a turn - off. I'm often puzzled why women complain about Dick-pics but publish pics of their ***** or perhaps I should say vaginas - even here in Weymouth, where ageism rules out a direct reply! "
The day where my inbox is overflowing with women sending me photos of themselves, maybe I’ll be able to give you an accurate answer.
(Don’t know if that was subtle enough  ) |
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"I wonder if the terminology used makes it easier to accept? The term ‘Phat’ hasn’t ever been used to refer to anything in a negative way. Much in the same way some would describe something impressive as being sick or bad."
That’s very true, and I guess it isn’t a stereotype as with what the original post you’ve referred to, is. |
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"Agreed, porn is a turn - off. I'm often puzzled why women complain about Dick-pics but publish pics of their ***** or perhaps I should say vaginas - even here in Weymouth, where ageism rules out a direct reply!
The day where my inbox is overflowing with women sending me photos of themselves, maybe I’ll be able to give you an accurate answer.
(Don’t know if that was subtle enough )"
I'm stil waiting for my direct reply lol |
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"Agreed, porn is a turn - off. I'm often puzzled why women complain about Dick-pics but publish pics of their ***** or perhaps I should say vaginas - even here in Weymouth, where ageism rules out a direct reply!
The day where my inbox is overflowing with women sending me photos of themselves, maybe I’ll be able to give you an accurate answer.
(Don’t know if that was subtle enough )
I'm stil waiting for my direct reply lol"
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"Agreed, porn is a turn - off. I'm often puzzled why women complain about Dick-pics but publish pics of their ***** or perhaps I should say vaginas - even here in Weymouth, where ageism rules out a direct reply!
The day where my inbox is overflowing with women sending me photos of themselves, maybe I’ll be able to give you an accurate answer.
(Don’t know if that was subtle enough )
I'm stil waiting for my direct reply lol
You and me both "
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