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Advice on no-shows

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Need a little bit of advice here.

Is there a behaviour code for no-shows who are verified?

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By *els_BellsWoman over a year ago

with the moon n stars somewhere in gtr manc

If you have arranged a meet and they didnt show, report the profile to admin.

Doesnt matter if they're veri'd or not.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Or do what we did and take photos of yourselves having a great time with each other and put them on your profile to show what they missed.

You gain nothing but it is fun .

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Or do what we did and take photos of yourselves having a great time with each other and put them on your profile to show what they missed.

You gain nothing but it is fun ."

We always insist on a drink & chat and make sure they have to travel as far as we do to meet. If they don't show up, we have a nice drink then go home, and ignore them therafter.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Or do what we did and take photos of yourselves having a great time with each other and put them on your profile to show what they missed.

You gain nothing but it is fun .

We always insist on a drink & chat and make sure they have to travel as far as we do to meet. If they don't show up, we have a nice drink then go home, and ignore them therafter."

PS I give them my mobile (not Rio's of course) so there's no excuse for not politely letting us know there is an issue.

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By *B9 QueenWoman over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

Report and block.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Or do what we did and take photos of yourselves having a great time with each other and put them on your profile to show what they missed.

You gain nothing but it is fun .

We always insist on a drink & chat and make sure they have to travel as far as we do to meet. If they don't show up, we have a nice drink then go home, and ignore them therafter.

PS I give them my mobile (not Rio's of course) so there's no excuse for not politely letting us know there is an issue."

Yes, we also do that , didn't help though on the few no shows .

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By *uriousBristolCplCouple over a year ago

Bristol

"Need a little bit of advice here.

Is there a behaviour code for no-shows who are verified? "

No contact. phone call or text?

Report & Block

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By *orkscrew CurlsWoman over a year ago

Loughborough Leics

Have only had a few no-shows but when I have I have sent them a message explaining that due to their actions I had no choice but to report them to site admin because these things are frowned upon.

Usually the disappear, I assume they delete their accounts.

Same usually works for people with fake pics.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

There are those who do not show up and you find they have blocked you before you get home!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Have only had a few no-shows but when I have I have sent them a message explaining that due to their actions I had no choice but to report them to site admin because these things are frowned upon.

Usually the disappear, I assume they delete their accounts.

Same usually works for people with fake pics."

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By *evilwolfCouple over a year ago

Leicestershire

"There are those who do not show up and you find they have blocked you before you get home!!"

Nowt as funny as folk is there

Wolf

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By *radleyandRavenCouple over a year ago

Herts

Not particularly, you can take all the precautions in the world and still experience no-shows.

If you have arranged a meet and they don't turn up with no contact and no excuse/response, just report to admin and move on.

I know that's why a lot of people prefer club meets - if they don't show, there are still plenty of others to play with and your night isn't wasted.

- Amy. x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"There are those who do not show up and you find they have blocked you before you get home!!

Nowt as funny as folk is there

Wolf

This happened to me once and I rather wondered if they had been lurking in the bar behind a potplant and just thought I was a minger!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

well i had a no show been camming and chatting for months. His words after i put something on status about timewasters was to text and say OOps sorry i forgot. So if someone can forget a FIRST MEET they dont get the chance of a second one. just ignore and carry on having fun

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Thank you so much for your advice and tips guys. I had several women cancel last minute (and I mean last minute before I got a train to visit them!) befor I joined this site.

I'm only a student but my time is valuable too! If I agree a meet I do not cancel, simple as. It annoys me, because I could have been somewhere far better with someone else!

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