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By *rJ88888 OP Man
over a year ago
London/Cardiff |
Been on here a while and never seem to find anyone interested, just wanna have fun with someone see how things go  I’m open to new experiences and sick and tired of messaging people here and never getting a response  |
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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago
Newcastle |
"Been on here a while and never seem to find anyone interested, just wanna have fun with someone see how things go I’m open to new experiences and sick and tired of messaging people here and never getting a response "
Hi op
What do you do before you write a message |
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"Like I said in the last message, I haven’t really paid attention to the bio so I’m gonna work on that, any need for the block?
What block?"
I'm assuming he thinks your hidden profile means he's blocked! |
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By *ickD80Man
over a year ago
Wolverhampton |
"Like I said in the last message, I haven’t really paid attention to the bio so I’m gonna work on that, any need for the block?
What block?
I'm assuming he thinks your hidden profile means he's blocked!"
Would be useful if a page appeared when you try a look at a hidden profile and said something like ‘this member has hidden their profile’ to make it absolutely clear that the profile is hidden rather than blocked you to save any confusion like what happened with OP.
Can any mods reading this look into getting this done please? |
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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago
Newcastle |
"Like I said in the last message, I haven’t really paid attention to the bio so I’m gonna work on that, any need for the block?
What block?
I'm assuming he thinks your hidden profile means he's blocked!
Would be useful if a page appeared when you try a look at a hidden profile and said something like ‘this member has hidden their profile’ to make it absolutely clear that the profile is hidden rather than blocked you to save any confusion like what happened with OP.
Can any mods reading this look into getting this done please? "
It already does when a profile is hidden says |
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By *ickD80Man
over a year ago
Wolverhampton |
"Like I said in the last message, I haven’t really paid attention to the bio so I’m gonna work on that, any need for the block?
What block?
I'm assuming he thinks your hidden profile means he's blocked!
Would be useful if a page appeared when you try a look at a hidden profile and said something like ‘this member has hidden their profile’ to make it absolutely clear that the profile is hidden rather than blocked you to save any confusion like what happened with OP.
Can any mods reading this look into getting this done please?
It already does when a profile is hidden says "
Really? Why did OP think that he’d been blocked then rather than it just being a hidden profile of it clearly states that it’s a hidden profile? |
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"Like I said in the last message, I haven’t really paid attention to the bio so I’m gonna work on that, any need for the block?
What block?
I'm assuming he thinks your hidden profile means he's blocked!
Would be useful if a page appeared when you try a look at a hidden profile and said something like ‘this member has hidden their profile’ to make it absolutely clear that the profile is hidden rather than blocked you to save any confusion like what happened with OP.
Can any mods reading this look into getting this done please? "
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By *an1978Woman
over a year ago
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There is a good guide on the forum here
https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/support/51490
The easiest way to meet people is always an organised social. So people
See who you are and not just text on a screen.
Good luck! |
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I think you also need to understand that Fab is mainly frequented by men - by a significant margin. I know that ladies in here are literally swamped by contacts, emails etc … so what makes you think that fabbing a pic and winking is going to make you stand out from the likely hundreds of other winks and fans they get.
Good luck, and enjoy the wait! 
R x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Simple answer = you aren't what they are looking for.
If you are then that isn't showing = couples and women get a lot of messages as stated above. Stand out |
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I fab a whole load of pics on here. They’re literally a dime a dozen due to sheer volume that are received. Reading bios before messaging and revamping your profile would be a good place to start.
Honestly… your best bet for success is to get away from your phone screen, get out to club nights/socials OP….
I see you’re from Cardiff so I know there’s a whole heap of organised socials that take place in and around your region |
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"Like I said in the last message, I haven’t really paid attention to the bio so I’m gonna work on that, any need for the block?
What block?
I'm assuming he thinks your hidden profile means he's blocked!
Would be useful if a page appeared when you try a look at a hidden profile and said something like ‘this member has hidden their profile’ to make it absolutely clear that the profile is hidden rather than blocked you to save any confusion like what happened with OP.
Can any mods reading this look into getting this done please?
It already does when a profile is hidden says
Really? Why did OP think that he’d been blocked then rather than it just being a hidden profile of it clearly states that it’s a hidden profile? "
He may not have come across a hidden profile before. Given the fact that everyone who is on here for a certain length of time is bound to come across at least one hidden profile (and possibly another banned/blocked) I can’t see admin amending this feature to prevent several minutes of confusion for the occasional soul |
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Good luck pal