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Looking for a regular person
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It’s the dream situation for a lot of men but few get the opportunity and fewer are capable of maintaining a long term relationship. Probably why lots of single guys are on here. I have two long term couples. One of 15 + years and exclusive to me and another that I share with a friend for around 7 years. The right guy is out there don’t loose heart. Have lots of fun finding him.  |
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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago
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very hard and thats how it should be if im honest i have 2 regulars one for 30 years one for 25 .... ive had alot who say they want regular but of couse they lie or just dont realise what regular means...
its finding that right mix that suits you both and if your selective as we should all be then it will be hard my regulars were from clubs originally ... ive never found a regular via fab or anyother site before fab was created i met a few who were regular for a few months for it to go tits up fast..
biggest problem with being regular for another guy (not all) is that they will alway have you as back up ie if nothing else is happening they wanna meet so easy to spot tho... |
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"How hard is it looking for a regular fun with a male and being long term "
I’ve been looking for a regular for 6 years a lot if guys say they want regular when actually either they don’t or they do but their idea of regular doesn’t match mine |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"OP your profile narrative will put a lot of guys off.
It's not warm and welcoming. It gives off a negative vibe imo.
Women and couples can get away with that. "
Only if men accept it  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"OP your profile narrative will put a lot of guys off.
It's not warm and welcoming. It gives off a negative vibe imo.
Women and couples can get away with that.
Only if men accept it "
I totally agree. I won’t accept anything that goes against what I believe in from anyone
What I have learnt is that the forums are the greatest way to add to people I don’t want to talk to over than those I do |
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By *omCoyoteMan
over a year ago
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Prior to meeting my ex girlfriend I was indeed fortunate to enjoy a long term (5 years) friendship with my couple.
I met them through my work - of all places!
The wonderful thing about a regular friendship is that any inhibitions soon disappear, and the three of us explored some avenues that we otherwise wouldn't have dreamed of.
I really miss the eroticism, horniness, and sheer debauchery of it all - which is what brought me here in the first place.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How hard is it looking for a regular fun with a male and being long term
I’ve been looking for a regular for 6 years a lot if guys say they want regular when actually either they don’t or they do but their idea of regular doesn’t match mine "
You are excluding most people! |
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After having a regular for 15 years who has now emigrated, we have found it very difficult to find another guy of his quality.
Vixen would prefer to find a vanilla guy the same as her old regular but it's not easy for a married woman to tell a guy that she meets that her husband is OK with her having a lover.
She could easily pick up any guy on Fab but 99% of the guys on here are unsuitable for various reasons and Fab doesn't really cater for those of us couples who are looking for a long term arrangement with a single.
We are sure that there will be some in the 1% that would be of interest to her but finding them is time consuming and also lacks the chemistry that meeting someone in person provides.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's definitely difficult finding fun with a couple, I'm finding it extremely difficult tbh
I'm very polite and easy going, definitely not not pushy at all
But just don't seem to be any couples cup of tea if you know what I mean |
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"It's definitely difficult finding fun with a couple"
As you live in the North West you are lucky to be close to a number of clubs.
My advice would be to go to Cupids in Swinton, sit at the bar and you will soon get chatting to people. It's far easier meeting people socially in a club as you will know if you click straight away which is really difficult online. |
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"How hard is it looking for a regular fun with a male and being long term "
. It is hard, or can be hard, but in an odd way possibly easier than it should when you really think about what it could mean when you say “regular”. Do you mean meeting weekly? Monthly? As and when? Or even exclusively? And no matter what you agree people change and life gets in the way. I like to think it is a stroke of luck to be able to see anyone you like more thank once!
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