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over a year ago
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Thinking of having our own house party. It will be our first attempt and was wondering if anyone with experience cud offer some advice.
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Invite people you have already met or know socially that you’d like to play with.
Set out the rules beforehand. So arrive 8pm, naked by 9pm etc etc.
will you have separate rooms available or all in same room
Have some refreshments and food at half time.
Don’t let people engage in chit chat after 9pm. If they don’t want to play then leave.
Make sure somewhere comfy to fuck |
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We have had lots of party's over the years, only invite people you want to play with or already know, ie don't let others talk you into letting someone they know come, chances are they don't really know them just fancy them.let people go with the flow (there is always someone who dosnt want to play)and why should they, but the most important thing is that you have fun  x |
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"We have had lots of party's over the years, only invite people you want to play with or already know, ie don't let others talk you into letting someone they know come, chances are they don't really know them just fancy them.let people go with the flow (there is always someone who dosnt want to play)and why should they, but the most important thing is that you have fun x"
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"Invite people you have already met or know socially that you’d like to play with.
Set out the rules beforehand. So arrive 8pm, naked by 9pm etc etc.
will you have separate rooms available or all in same room
Have some refreshments and food at half time.
Don’t let people engage in chit chat after 9pm. If they don’t want to play then leave.
Make sure somewhere comfy to fuck"
Sounds like great advice  |
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"Thinking of having our own house party. It will be our first attempt and was wondering if anyone with experience cud offer some advice.
All suggestions gladly accepted. "
We based what we did with ours on the ones we'd been too previously...learned so much about what to do and what not to do from those... |
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"Thinking of having our own house party. It will be our first attempt and was wondering if anyone with experience cud offer some advice.
All suggestions gladly accepted.
We based what we did with ours on the ones we'd been too previously...learned so much about what to do and what not to do from those..."
hi unfortunately we haven't attended one yet x |
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"We have had lots of party's over the years, only invite people you want to play with or already know, ie don't let others talk you into letting someone they know come, chances are they don't really know them just fancy them.let people go with the flow (there is always someone who dosnt want to play)and why should they, but the most important thing is that you have fun x"
We have never held a house party ourselves but can talk from the experience as guests. Our freinds held a house party. It was their first. Not everyone there knew each other but everyone knew the hosts. Our freinds were a very good judge of character and made an excellent choice of guests. Everyone they invited gelled together so well. It all flowed so easy. It's people who make a good party and the skill of a good host is putting the right people together. |
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"Thinking of having our own house party. It will be our first attempt and was wondering if anyone with experience cud offer some advice.
All suggestions gladly accepted.
We based what we did with ours on the ones we'd been too previously...learned so much about what to do and what not to do from those...hi unfortunately we haven't attended one yet x"
Them I'd strongly recommend getting along to a few...it'll make holding your own so much easier...and get you some contacts to invite to yours too... |
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By *rpeggioCouple
over a year ago
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Don’t let people engage in chit chat after 9pm. If they don’t want to play then leave..."
Agree with the rest of your response, but not with this. We have been to many parties, and 4 times at a party of the same host, played only two out of four, the other two times we were talking to interesting couples, to the host, not having found any playing partners we were attracted to, etc etc. Never been at a party where you must play or leave. That's a peer pressure environment that does not sound inclusive of people who choose not to play that day. And what's the problem if some people choose not to play that day and prefer to hang around with each other? |
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Don’t let people engage in chit chat after 9pm. If they don’t want to play then leave...
Agree with the rest of your response, but not with this. We have been to many parties, and 4 times at a party of the same host, played only two out of four, the other two times we were talking to interesting couples, to the host, not having found any playing partners we were attracted to, etc etc. Never been at a party where you must play or leave. That's a peer pressure environment that does not sound inclusive of people who choose not to play that day. And what's the problem if some people choose not to play that day and prefer to hang around with each other? "
Yes I thought that odd too but guess different kinds of parties and up to host to set the rules. If you say before then it is clear. You don't have to play but please leave if don't. I wouldn't do that and think would put many off from attending.
House party gets thrown around as a term but covers so many different types of event. Some are large numbers and very social with a bit of play for a few people. Others are smaller number and full orgy and if you don't play you'd feel uncomfortable. Some are paid events and some unpaid more for the hosts pleasure. I've hosted and make clear it is more a play party and what tends to happen is that once play gets going and say almost everybody is playing is that the few who aren't make polite excuses and just leave. Also been at parties where they don't it can be quite awkward. |
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By *rpeggioCouple
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...Also been at parties where they don't it can be quite awkward. "
True, many kinds of parties, it can vary with the party place and host rules. Most parties we have been to are homes where rooms are usually upstairs. At playing time people get upstairs and get naked, people who choose to stay downstairs makes it not awkward. What we do not like is people coming upstairs just to watch without removing their clothes, some of them even talking, that's very off-putting. |
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...Also been at parties where they don't it can be quite awkward.
True, many kinds of parties, it can vary with the party place and host rules. Most parties we have been to are homes where rooms are usually upstairs. At playing time people get upstairs and get naked, people who choose to stay downstairs makes it not awkward. What we do not like is people coming upstairs just to watch without removing their clothes, some of them even talking, that's very off-putting."
Yes that kind of thing of set-up is quite common. Also been to and hosted where play is downstairs as well, well pretty much anything goes anywhere which can get awkward and some people just feel uncomfortable and leave. Agree coming upstairs to watch and chat for extended periods really not good. |
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