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Public hair... does swinging change what you go for? Or like?
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So, I like to change up quite often... sometimes I'm shaved, sometime I leave a little fuzz, always carefully trimmed.
However, Saturday we went off to Xtasia. I actually opted to have a little heart shaped fuzz. Just to have something a little different.
I was actually amazed by how many people thought I was "brave" for daring to have abit of fluff! I mean, we're all adults so we all have hair right, shaving is just an option.
So, does swinging change you, in the sense of, are you more likely to shave if you swing? More likely to shave for private meets etc?
Personally, it hasn't really changed me or my preferences for other people, or perhaps I've just never really put much thought to it.. |
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Body hair down below makes no difference to me, everyone has it. I think it’s silly to reject people on that basis. However, as long as it smells good, I’m fact it’d be fair to say I’m a fan of natural hair. LOL. |
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I have pubic hair, trimmed but definitely obviously there. I've lost count of the amount of people who comment on it, but it's approx a 50/50 split between astonishment and appreciation. 
As for my armpit hair, which I also don't remove, people don't tend to overtly mention that one but it comes up occasionally. And nobody ever says anything about my hairy legs.
I'd never change my choices for other people - what I do with my own body hair is up to me. If people get funny about it, well they're under no obligation to fuck me so I'm quite happy for them to simply move on  |
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By *etro1940sCouple
over a year ago
Kingston upon Thames |
I am trimmed and sweet in the pussy department and shaved in the armpits .. it is personal choice. We play with everyone but I do love a man with a hairy chest and some pubic hair ... wink x Anne |
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over a year ago
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I get waxed every 4 weeks and in between those 4 weeks I don't touch it
After a week or so I have a slight fuzz
But I always say when if I'm going to meet someone new as I know some people find it a deal breaker, which is fine
But shaving really irritates my skin so I'm not prepared to shave before a meet and then have to deal with a few days worth of sore skin afterwards
The guys I meet regular know that unless it's within that first week there will be a bit of hair there and thankfully they don't care |
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"I get waxed every 4 weeks and in between those 4 weeks I don't touch it
After a week or so I have a slight fuzz
But I always say when if I'm going to meet someone new as I know some people find it a deal breaker, which is fine
But shaving really irritates my skin so I'm not prepared to shave before a meet and then have to deal with a few days worth of sore skin afterwards
The guys I meet regular know that unless it's within that first week there will be a bit of hair there and thankfully they don't care "
Exactly the same ! I cannot shave it just does not work for me I get ingrown hair so not doing that. Waxing is my preference
I don't care what others do with their hair it's their body |
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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago
Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you) |
"Body hair down below makes no difference to me, everyone has it. I think it’s silly to reject people on that basis. However, as long as it smells good, I’m fact it’d be fair to say I’m a fan of natural hair. LOL. "
I think a bushy bush is very rare these days especially on the swinging scene, although wifey prefers to keep hers trimmed I have no aversion to a bush . As for under arm hair, she does grow hers for me sometimes. It’s a huge turn on for me. She says it’s the German in me haha |
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I always have pubic hair, swinging simply means it gets tidied up more often. I feel womanly with it.
Nobody has said no so far and nor would I go bald to please others and I still orefer hair on others, but ultimately as long as they're ckean all is good.
Nita |
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Edited to correct a typo
"It seems to be a problem for others rather than us. We’ve noticed an uptick in profiles demanding shaved nether regions. The irony is that most couldn’t take Mr to base vaginally let alone orally, so it’s a non-issue. But we err on the side of caution and mention he’s trimmed (I like a bit), and we’ve had people decline.
I’m an each to their own kind of girl. As long as it’s clean we’re both good with it.
Xx K
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"I love a bushy landing strip. I find it a massive turn on.
I think pubes are back in vogue. ??"
Pubes have been huge in the actual modelling/photography world since the mid 10's, it's a sought after look whoch is why I'm rarely fully shaved tbh. I get more work with a little hair |
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A is trimmed and Ess is waxed. It's our personal preference that we both had in terms of our own bodies before we started swinging and has just carried over.
We don't really think about the pubic grooming status of our swinging buddies, for us that's their complete decision on how their comfortable and that's just fine with us  |
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By *renzMan
over a year ago
Between Chichester and Havant |
As someone who has a hairy chest etc, I think it would look ridiculous being completely shaved below. Personally I think it shows individuality for a girl to be trimmed or shaped.
I've had people ask if I would shave for them, chest usually and my answer is always no. It's part of me and I'm not doing that for anyone. I do however shave my cock and balls. Many are surprised how soft my chest hair is and enjoy snuggling into it. |
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By *obletonMan
over a year ago
A Home Among The Woodland Creatures |
For me, swinging has always been about connecting with other people with similar mindsets, attitudes, and imaginations as my own
And not a checklist of physical characteristics and grooming habits
I have preferences in that regard for sure - but if you want to push my buttons, you'll find them in my head |
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