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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I'm close to mid 60's years of age.
I masterbate a lot, too much but when it comes time to make love to my wife - I start off with my hand and then when I go in, as old not got the stamina and cant keep it hard. I then use a dildo.
Helen has no complains
My BP is normal says gp and not diabetic etc but lac excercise as lazy and dont want to try viagra etc as many negatives.
I also cant make Helen cum hard and I can tell she is not fulfilled but she disagrees.
We had a good sesion yesterday after interaction with a FS guy but dildo was used
So, Helen has not complained but I'm not happy
What would you do and how do you ensure your wife/GF etc climaxes - we are both over 60 years young and Helen is quiet fit and does try to help in the session via sturdy hip jolts.
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Cock rings can be brilliant.
Also, viagra connect can be brilliant, Matt uses it on occasions where he wants to ensure he stays rock solid for a prolonged period of time, we consulted with our GP first before buying it though, made sure his bloods were good. I absolutely don't recommend anyone try anything such as viagra without doing so first.
You could also benefit from sexual therapy, Relate offer this at a reasonable rate. If Helen is saying she's happy and feels fulfilled, perhaps this is a hang up more for you? (Apologies if that offends). You can do therapy together or separately. If may help you feel more connected x |
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I have a family member that works in a high street pharmacy. Who tells me There’s no need to go to your GP, if you prefer not to. You can have a consultation with a pharmacist in a lot of high street stores. They ask you several health and lifestyle questions. If they feel it’s safe for you to have it you can but it over the counter.
M hope you get things sorted OP x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Do you watch a lot of porn?
Do you use lube when masturbating?
Maybe you have desensitised yourself watching too much? As in what you see doesn't kick it as much?
Too much dry masturbating can be an issue too.... so much easier and faster to get off as you know exactly how to touch yourself and how much pressure you want.... it can cause sensitivity issues and you may well drop.
Ditch the porn a lay off the self gratification for a couple weeks...
See how you get on.
Blue pills do help however mirroring the above advice see your GP first.
Best of luck
Jay |
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By *eyeYCouple
over a year ago
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"Do you watch a lot of porn?
Do you use lube when masturbating?
Maybe you have desensitised yourself watching too much? As in what you see doesn't kick it as much?
Too much dry masturbating can be an issue too.... so much easier and faster to get off as you know exactly how to touch yourself and how much pressure you want.... it can cause sensitivity issues and you may well drop.
Ditch the porn a lay off the self gratification for a couple weeks...
See how you get on.
Blue pills do help however mirroring the above advice see your GP first.
Best of luck
Jay "
Was going to say exactly that  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Morning all
A big thanks to all that have posted here as well of the several private messages
First of all I may try the cock ring, watch less porn and masturbate less and exercise.
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"Just take a quarter of a 50 mm tablet.
Start small "
Good advice.
Several years ago I discovered Viagra and at that time they came in 3 strengths;
25 mg 50mg and 100mg.i started on the 25 as my dysfunction wasn't too bad, I have subsequently increased it to 50mg as I got older.
Someone recently told me that a black one is available 200mg keeps you hard for 3 days ( no thank you lol).
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"Just take a quarter of a 50 mm tablet.
Start small
Good advice.
Several years ago I discovered Viagra and at that time they came in 3 strengths;
25 mg 50mg and 100mg.i started on the 25 as my dysfunction wasn't too bad, I have subsequently increased it to 50mg as I got older.
Someone recently told me that a black one is available 200mg keeps you hard for 3 days ( no thank you lol).
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never seen a black one I have the red one that is really good I only have half to start with |
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Exercise really helps. In my late fifties I was 94kg, pretty inactive and my sex drive was so so. I am now 61 and weigh 77 kg (lighter than when my profile pics were taken), do 500 reps a day and run 7 km every other day. My sex drive is much higher, my erections are harder and I walk around with a nice full feeling down below for large parts of the day. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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edging, may try but i feel i will just shoot my load quicker next time
all helpful, will send of for cock ring and excercise as i recall from years ago ret home from 12 hour days at work, i did a bit of dumble excercises and in the shower got a rock hard cock and wanked and still manged the wife those night up to two times but i was much younger, but excerise is good |
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Definitely quit the porn and masturbation!
Get yourself a copy of a book called The Porn Trap.
I like porn before anyone thinks I’m vilifying it!
But used to excess it can be a very bad road! My Ex did and it led to lots of problems! |
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Don't be afraid to discuss it with your GP and its more common than you think.
As well as some of the good advice that's been given, there are a number of options. If its just viagra / sildenafil that you've heard negative things about, maybe consider some of the other similar medications, e.g. cialis / tadalafil that have different effects, but also work well.
Try Eroxon from boots. As it is not medication, it doesn't need a prescription, so xan be bought online. It's a gel that cools then warms the penis, causing an erection and is reckoned to be effective.
There are other gels and pellets on prescription, e.g Muse, as well as injections (caverject, invicorp, viridal, etc). These are nowhere near as scary to inject as you might think and are extremely effective (and may be too effective for you if you can get an erection yourself). Good luck. |
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