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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

We met a guy couple of weeks ago And gave him a sex show at our house (He requested on his profile regular meets)Phoned him on Friday asking you want to come round on Sunday For some fun (He was not told that she was going to shag him) Came the time on Sunday No answer to calls or texts I text him on Monday Morning To say what would've happened on Sunday He replied by text Monday evening Saying he was on strong antibiotics And had mistakenly taken a drink with them Which knocked him out From Sunday till early hours Monday morning?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Rearrange another day, see what happens, if he again makes an excuse, its more that he doesn't want to see you again but is too afraid to say, perhaps he changed his mind.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman over a year ago

evesham

DoD he say he would definately be there? Your OP doesn't make that clear.

Ask to see his medical records or a sick note if you are that concerned he is lying. Alternatively give him the benefit of the doubt, try again and if he doesn't turn up then you know he is a waster

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Had he expected to play the first time he met you? Maybe he thought you were both timewasters?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If he wouldn't meet you on a Sunday daytime most likely he's married or attached.

Give him another chance, but schedule it for another weekend daytime and see what happens.

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By *rightonsteveMan over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Use the Auric Goldfinger system: once is happenstance, twice is co-incidence, three times is enemy action. Don't get to number 3.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

He knew first meet was just watching There was a bit of a mixup on the first meet He didn't turn up because we didn't confirm We explained to him Once we have agreed time and place That's the confirmation We Would only text or call if we can't make the meet

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman over a year ago

evesham

"If he wouldn't meet you on a Sunday daytime most likely he's married or attached.

Give him another chance, but schedule it for another weekend daytime and see what happens."

I can't meet this Sunday, does that mean I am married or does it mean I have other commitments in life that rank higher than swinging maybe?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Of course it doesn't. Stop trying to pick a fight as I haven't said that EVERYONE who can't meet on a weekend daytime is married. Fuck sake, do people just hang around this site waiting for insignificant shit to get offended about?

His lame-ass excuse and the fact he didn't get back in touch until after the

weekend should set alarm bells ringing.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"DoD he say he would definately be there? Your OP doesn't make that clear.

Ask to see his medical records or a sick note if you are that concerned he is lying. Alternatively give him the benefit of the doubt, try again and if he doesn't turn up then you know he is a waster"
haha his medical records haha fuck off wud be my responce if anyone asked me that. Fool

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Metronidazole

Tinidazole

The only two main antibiotics you shouldn't drink with, neither of their side effects cause you to pass out.

Some may make you "drowsy" they don't knock you out for 24 hours.

Getting shitfaced on the other hand might

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman over a year ago

evesham

"Of course it doesn't. Stop trying to pick a fight as I haven't said that EVERYONE who can't meet on a weekend daytime is married. Fuck sake, do people just hang around this site waiting for insignificant shit to get offended about?

His lame-ass excuse and the fact he didn't get back in touch until after the

weekend should set alarm bells ringing. "

Wow, touchy much???? How am I trying to pick a fight?? Just be wise I don't automatically jump to the must be married conclusion. Cheered my Tuesday morning up, thanks

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman over a year ago

evesham

"DoD he say he would definately be there? Your OP doesn't make that clear.

Ask to see his medical records or a sick note if you are that concerned he is lying. Alternatively give him the benefit of the doubt, try again and if he doesn't turn up then you know he is a wasterhaha his medical records haha fuck off wud be my responce if anyone asked me that. Fool "

Psst it was tongue in cheek to highlight that they had no way of verifying wether or not he was on medication etc

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Sounds like an excuse to me especially with not replying to your message until it was too late. If you really liked him give him one more chance but if you're not bothered then choose from the many reliable single guys on here.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Could just mean he not that into you . But is bit shy of telling you. Just leave it . You cant force someone to meet you. If he want you he will contact you.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Metronidazole

Tinidazole

The only two main antibiotics you shouldn't drink with, neither of their side effects cause you to pass out.

Some may make you "drowsy" they don't knock you out for 24 hours.

Getting shitfaced on the other hand might

+1 it's an excuse and a lie as well. Next!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Whatever the reason he just used the first excuse that came into his head. Its not very imaginative.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Thank you for the advice And comments people Will discuss with the wife later I think chances are we may try and find someone else Someone more reliable Thanks again

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"He knew first meet was just watching There was a bit of a mixup on the first meet He didn't turn up because we didn't confirm We explained to him Once we have agreed time and place That's the confirmation We Would only text or call if we can't make the meet"

So he may have thought you'd messed him about last time? And last time he only watched. And this time you weren't upfront with what was planned. Do you think maybe you could have done things even slightly differently?

Like I've already said maybe he thought you were timewasters?

I'm failing to see why the blame is all with the single guy?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

He is bullshitting.tell him f off and find another person who won't let you down

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"We met a guy couple of weeks ago And gave him a sex show at our house (He requested on his profile regular meets)Phoned him on Friday asking you want to come round on Sunday For some fun (He was not told that she was going to shag him) Came the time on Sunday No answer to calls or texts I text him on Monday Morning To say what would've happened on Sunday He replied by text Monday evening Saying he was on strong antibiotics And had mistakenly taken a drink with them Which knocked him out From Sunday till early hours Monday morning?"

I think he's genuine, or wouldn't have turned up first time, my guess is he may want more involvement than just watching, and that maybe why he didn't show second time

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"DoD he say he would definately be there? Your OP doesn't make that clear.

Ask to see his medical records or a sick note if you are that concerned he is lying. Alternatively give him the benefit of the doubt, try again and if he doesn't turn up then you know he is a waster"

ask for a sicknote? Who are you his boss?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

or maybe after the first time he just didnt want to meet with you again. Message him or text him and ask him straight out have fun Cat

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I have never had a problem with drinking and taking antibiotics in spite of the 'official' recommendations. Usual, pathetic, male excuse (and this from a man).

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I have never had a problem with drinking and taking antibiotics in spite of the 'official' recommendations. Usual, pathetic, male excuse (and this from a man)."

We would blow him out immediately( so to speak). Notice he wasn't able to text until after the event. Hmmmm. No one would get a second chance with Rio.

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By *evilwolfCouple over a year ago

Leicestershire

"DoD he say he would definately be there? Your OP doesn't make that clear.

Ask to see his medical records or a sick note if you are that concerned he is lying. Alternatively give him the benefit of the doubt, try again and if he doesn't turn up then you know he is a waster

ask for a sicknote? Who are you his boss?"

some people are *that* pedantic

He'd probably bottled it, or lost interest; all of which are open to pure speculation - it could even be something unrelated. Who knows?

But if you offer him another meet and he doesn't want to come, or comes the same trick - let him go and give it best. Maybe he doesn't want to offend you with the real explanation *shrugs*.

Wolf

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Had he expected to play the first time he met you? Maybe he thought you were both timewasters? "

What is it with some males on here? If someone does not play on first meets how does that make them timewasters? Especially if it has been made clear the first meet is purely social.

There are some proper nerds on here who throw their dummy out of the pram if they don't get what they want when they want.

Effing grow up!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"DoD he say he would definately be there? Your OP doesn't make that clear.

Ask to see his medical records or a sick note if you are that concerned he is lying. Alternatively give him the benefit of the doubt, try again and if he doesn't turn up then you know he is a waster

ask for a sicknote? Who are you his boss?

some people are *that* pedantic

He'd probably bottled it, or lost interest; all of which are open to pure speculation - it could even be something unrelated. Who knows?

But if you offer him another meet and he doesn't want to come, or comes the same trick - let him go and give it best. Maybe he doesn't want to offend you with the real explanation *shrugs*.

Wolf

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Could be he got a better offer or a sure thing and decided to take it. Could be he hoped more woukd happen in heat of moment during first meet and when it didn't he decided a 2nd meet was a waste. Best thing would be to confront him and chat openly. Only way to find out for sure.

His excuse is obviously a lie and anyway you look at it he did let you down. It's really up to you if your willing to give him another chance. Hope for best but be prepared to be let down again.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

In truth - is he that much of a catch that you are prepared to risk the potential of him lying and your wasting more time and effort on him?

How much chance is there, realistically that he was telling the truth?

Have you had much contact since that shows he wants to rearrange and os serious?

These are questions I would ask myself in your place, and bear in mind there are, if you are discerning and look hard, some very nice single guys out there.

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By *mma peelWoman over a year ago

Liverpool

He's a time waster....move on...antibiotics that do that??? What a load of bollocks.

Delete him and move onto someone who can, and wants to meet.

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By *nfieldishCouple over a year ago

Enfield

"In truth - is he that much of a catch that you are prepared to risk the potential of him lying and your wasting more time and effort on him?

How much chance is there, realistically that he was telling the truth?

Have you had much contact since that shows he wants to rearrange and os serious?

These are questions I would ask myself in your place, and bear in mind there are, if you are discerning and look hard, some very nice single guys out there.

Has anyone pointed out that you have fantastic tits?

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By *els_BellsWoman over a year ago

with the moon n stars somewhere in gtr manc

Bit of a wild suggestion coming now....

Hold on to your hats.....

Maybe he was actually telling the truth and had a reaction to his medication

Or maybe he wasnt knocked out from them but had another adverse reaction which he didnt want to go in to full details about.

There are a lot of suspicious Miss Marple's on here

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By *am123Man over a year ago

essex chelmsford

His lame-ass excuse and the fact he didn't get back in touch until after the

weekend should set alarm bells ringing. "

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Bit of a wild suggestion coming now....

Hold on to your hats.....

Maybe he was actually telling the truth and had a reaction to his medication

Or maybe he wasnt knocked out from them but had another adverse reaction which he didnt want to go in to full details about.

There are a lot of suspicious Miss Marple's on here

Aha, but Mrs Peeversham said she saw him at Mass at the exact same time he was supposed to be meeting. Perhaps he ingested a suppository in the library with a candle, then nipped off to church to ask forgiveness?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

hi well thats not hard is it one word answer BULLSHIT

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"In truth - is he that much of a catch that you are prepared to risk the potential of him lying and your wasting more time and effort on him?

How much chance is there, realistically that he was telling the truth?

Have you had much contact since that shows he wants to rearrange and os serious?

These are questions I would ask myself in your place, and bear in mind there are, if you are discerning and look hard, some very nice single guys out there.

Has anyone pointed out that you have fantastic tits?

Yes, you did. I did notice, taa very much.

Now back to the thread

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Bit of a wild suggestion coming now....

Hold on to your hats.....

Maybe he was actually telling the truth and had a reaction to his medication

Or maybe he wasnt knocked out from them but had another adverse reaction which he didnt want to go in to full details about.

There are a lot of suspicious Miss Marple's on here

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