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over a year ago
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25 meets, the last of which was 3 months ago and you call that struggling?
Most single guys on here would give their left nut to be having as hard a time as you are
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"some of them have literally been socials "
Not sure what sort of advice you are looking for. You are miles ahead of most men in that you are meeting lots of single ladies for socials, at clubs etc. Don't think there is a magic formula anyone can give as to how to convert those into play or FWB relationships. |
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"25 meets, the last of which was 3 months ago and you call that struggling?
Most single guys on here would give their left nut to be having as hard a time as you are
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THIS
I havnt managed to have any meets, none what so ever and the OP is complaining with 25 meets. |
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Work on the friendship bit first, then worry about the benefits.
Socials, munches and events. Chat to people, build a rapport, invite people for coffee,/drink. Talk about interests outside of swinging etc.
Can't really suggest anything else. |
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By *agicmarc OP Man
over a year ago
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"didn’t say it was going badly
Looking at your meet verifications I'd say it's going amazing for you. Some of us havnt had a single meet. "
yeah it’s going pretty great but would like to find a fwb/club buddy |
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By *agicmarc OP Man
over a year ago
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"didn’t say it was going badly
Looking at your meet verifications I'd say it's going amazing for you. Some of us havnt had a single meet.
yeah it’s going pretty great but would like to find a fwb/club buddy  
will do
Keep attending the club social when held people attending at different times always someone new"
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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago
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"didn’t say it was going badly
Looking at your meet verifications I'd say it's going amazing for you. Some of us havnt had a single meet.
yeah it’s going pretty great but would like to find a fwb/club buddy
will do
Keep attending the club social when held people attending at different times always someone new"
Thanks for catching it as screen jumped  |
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"Just don't go out looking for it. Let it just Happen "
Agreed! Things tend to happen when you don't try to push them. Moghtvtake some time, but some things - and some people - are SO worth the wait!  |
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I think more people would like fwb but a lot been burnt by people meeting once never to be heard from again.
Way i used to do it was several just social meets first ,then when it came to sex going a bit further each time over a few meets.
if they really interested in fwb they will do it ,If they looking for a quick all in one go and disappear they will get bored and look elseware for a one off meet.
If all they wanted to chat about was sex and not really interested in getting to know me as a person or what interests ,hobbies etc i had away from sex i took it as i sign they was not really wanting fwb.
my last one we went on holiday together ,evening's out ,overnights together and got while we was only meeting each other and no one else. realised we was actually in a full on relationship without looking for that,careful what you wish for emotions can sneak up on you before you realise it.
now engaged to get married. |
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