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Hey guys, I'm looking for some advice to get more attention/reply, I don't think I'm to bad looking and have a lot to offer but don't seem to get much interest. Can anyone give me pointers on my profile please. X
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Pics are decent but a little repetitive, maybe put a bit more effort into your bio, a bit about yourself, what you like, dislike, what you have to offer kind of thing.
Generally not a bad profile.
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over a year ago
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"Pics are decent but a little repetitive, maybe put a bit more effort into your bio, a bit about yourself, what you like, dislike, what you have to offer kind of thing.
Generally not a bad profile.
Mrs "
Not really setting the world alight though, is it?
Don't refer to women as 'females' - they really don't like it.
Your profile text is rather meh.
Four sentences. Is that it?
And it does really say anything.
It doesn't tell anyone what you're looking for and, more importantly, what a prospective meet might be able to look forward to on an encounter with you.
Bearing in mind that anyone you message will be checking out your profile before even considering opening whatever you might have sent them, your profile is where you really need to put the effort in and sell yourself.
So far, I'm afraid, your profile is demonstrating virtually zero effort and very much shouts out 'I've knocked up a quick profile in five minutes and just waiting to be swamped by horny women'
As you wil see on numoerous forum threads, effort in = rewards out.
Even those of us who have been using the site for years and practice what we preach struggle at times.
You could have the best written profiel, a comprehensive range of photos, write a well structured message and still get no response, because you need to ocnsider that you will not appeal to everyone.
And just because you fancy someone, doesn't mean they'll fancy you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You’re a nice looking guy OP with a great body.
Pics are good, no penis ones which is always a plus but a cheeky hint of what lies beneath!
Your profile blurb needs to match the above as it’s a bit bland.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Photos are great 
Bio is bit short but, it does say what you're interested in, what you may be interested in and what youd like to get out of the site. Sometimes less is better particularly where a profile is long winded and providing unnecessary information. Maybe think about adding a little more but not war and peace lol |
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We are a couple looking for a lovely lady to join us for some fun but nothing as yet . You do get abit despondent after a while . And we are not bad looking either but we have messaged ladies but it's not be reciprocated  |
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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago
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"We are a couple looking for a lovely lady to join us for some fun but nothing as yet . You do get abit despondent after a while . And we are not bad looking either but we have messaged ladies but it's not be reciprocated "
Have you thought of trying a club,people seem to have more success finding women to meet there.
Bi women are in demand on fab as most couples want one and many men are after a MFF. |
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By *oom_88Man
over a year ago
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Truth is theres plenty of men in this website and women have alot to choose from. I dont get any attention here so I completely understand you. More than just your profile id say its due to the amount of options that women have. |
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"We are a couple looking for a lovely lady to join us for some fun but nothing as yet . You do get abit despondent after a while . And we are not bad looking either but we have messaged ladies but it's not be reciprocated
Have you thought of trying a club,people seem to have more success finding women to meet there.
Bi women are in demand on fab as most couples want one and many men are after a MFF."
Yes we do go.to xtasia and have a lovely time bit just by ourselves abit disheartening |
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The trousers alone would be a no from me… but then I’m a very picky bitch.
And yeah, as someone mentioned before: referring to women as females 
Other than that the profile is a bit lacklustre. I’m sure I read it a 1000 times before on here. |
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"Hey guys, I'm looking for some advice to get more attention/reply, I don't think I'm to bad looking and have a lot to offer but don't seem to get much interest. Can anyone give me pointers on my profile please. X
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Best advice I can give for meets on here is lose the cock and grow some tits and a fanny and you'll be sorted. I'm of the opinion that this site is no longer for single men. It's a couples and fem domain. |
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By *ood Time RMan
over a year ago
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Best way to meet on fab is to go to clubs and events. Meet people in person let your personality out and build friendships and relationships. Fab alone will not work sadly. You will need to take the initiative and get out there. Mingle with people. Be yourself. |
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"Hey guys, I'm looking for some advice to get more attention/reply, I don't think I'm to bad looking and have a lot to offer but don't seem to get much interest. Can anyone give me pointers on my profile please. X
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You could do with a couple more pics, and I would recommend a suit pic? The ladies love a suit pic....
Your profile text needs a rewrite; it's not very long, has poor grammar, and doesn't say very much about you, or what you're looking for?
You could try visiting a swinger club (as those in here who love them will always tell you), but I found them to be much harder work than Fab, certainly for meeting single ladies looking for straight, single white guys...  |
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"Hey guys, I'm looking for some advice to get more attention/reply, I don't think I'm to bad looking and have a lot to offer but don't seem to get much interest. Can anyone give me pointers on my profile please. X
Best advice I can give for meets on here is lose the cock and grow some tits and a fanny and you'll be sorted. I'm of the opinion that this site is no longer for single men. It's a couples and fem domain."
You are 100% spot there mate. I stopped sending messages to people who caught my eye months ago. It became a pointless excersize. |
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By *oom_88Man
over a year ago
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"Hey guys, I'm looking for some advice to get more attention/reply, I don't think I'm to bad looking and have a lot to offer but don't seem to get much interest. Can anyone give me pointers on my profile please. X
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Its not about how good looking you are or your profile. Theres 8 million men and 10 women on this site so your message will probably get lost in the millions of messages that those 10 women recieve daily. |
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For me; there isn’t enough detail as to the practicalities ie. whether you drive/can travel. How far? Response times? Accommodate? Types of meets you are interested in. Skills and prior experience etc. it reads more like a weak dating profile rather than a swinger/third/group etc. profile.
We are likely to be putting up a meet for group/singles for Saturday in Daventry in the afternoon (before the Rugby). Feel free to hotlist to see when we announce on Friday PM/Saturday AM.
If not, best of luck! And I hope you find what you’re looking for.
Xx ms |
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