Suppose that depends on a lot of factors and unfortunately it would defo seem like something was wrong with the relationship based on that information alone but there could be a genuine reason it is hard to think what that could be tho |
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What I’d be doing is sitting down with them and having an open and honest conversation.
This lifestyle would be put on hold until we’d hopefully managed to sort things out. |
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It's not a situation I'd be taking lightly what so ever, and certainly wouldn't be continuing in the swinging lifestyle until its talked about and fixed if it can be. But what's more worrying is that the partner in question could actually do that knowing how much upset its causing. |
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"What do u u do when your partner does not want sex with u but will fuck other women. "
Is the OP the male or female of the relationship, if the former then I’d agree with opinions so far; communication, communication and communication alongside curtailing any swinging or situations involving others.
If it’s the latter then my experience suggests this is a more complex problem; the net result for me was my bisexual wife preferring her girlfriend to me, long story short, it killed our marriage akin to any other infidelity but as I suggest, a lot more complex than a man wanting to be with another women or vice versa. |
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As the male of a couple, could I give a slightly different perspective?
I enjoy having sex with Sally, and we both enjoy rough sex now and then. However, she means a lot to me, and I struggle with being rough with her. There's been periods of months where I cannot mentally bring myself to face that sort of sex with her - but I would easily do so with another female! Without all the factors considered, it would be easy to assume that I preferred sex with other women, over sex with Sally. This is not the case though. As a guy, it's difficult to dominate the women you're in love with. I guess this is a similar reason for why some couples look for a bull to join them. So the bulk can do what the male in the relationship struggles with mentally..
So, to answer your question, maybe establish between you, whether the problem is with all sex, or a particularly type.
Either way, good luck and hope it's sorted soon.  |
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I'd personally put the swinging on hold, I never find it hot if we aren't in the best place sexually ourselves, we all have periods where the sex is less but if it stopped all together but not with others I'd be sitting down and having the conversation and pausing our fab journey.
Hope you manage to get to the route of the issues.
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"As the male of a couple, could I give a slightly different perspective?
I enjoy having sex with Sally, and we both enjoy rough sex now and then. However, she means a lot to me, and I struggle with being rough with her. There's been periods of months where I cannot mentally bring myself to face that sort of sex with her - but I would easily do so with another female! Without all the factors considered, it would be easy to assume that I preferred sex with other women, over sex with Sally. This is not the case though. As a guy, it's difficult to dominate the women you're in love with. I guess this is a similar reason for why some couples look for a bull to join them. So the bulk can do what the male in the relationship struggles with mentally..
So, to answer your question, maybe establish between you, whether the problem is with all sex, or a particularly type.
Either way, good luck and hope it's sorted soon. "
A very interesting insight & one that resonates with M |
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"What do u u do when your partner does not want sex with u but will fuck other women. "
I’m a little confused. Is this not a shared profile? In which case, is the question genuine? Also wondering as a previous pistes if you are the female, or male? |
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