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Who should buy the condoms?
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If a lady says she doesn’t play bare and asks a guy if he has any condoms and they say no who should be buying them? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Both should have them.
No excuse for either then |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A gentleman should always have condoms for a meet. |
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They should definitely talk about this before the meet but the guy should get them. |
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Everyone should have their own 
There’s times I’ve forgotten them and thankfully he has had them.
If he didn’t, I would have left the meet.
If a guy didn’t have them, I’d presume they are happy to play bare with everyone and avoid. |
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"Everyone should have their own
There’s times I’ve forgotten them and thankfully he has had them.
If he didn’t, I would have left the meet.
If a guy didn’t have them, I’d presume they are happy to play bare with everyone and avoid. "
To add, if a woman attended a meet without them I’d presume the same and avoid.I just don’t meet women ha |
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"If a lady says she doesn’t play bare and asks a guy if he has any condoms and they say no who should be buying them? "
Everyone is responsible for their own health if you don’t want to play without a condom then you should always have them available if meeting |
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I would say both should have them, as you are both responsible, mature adults.
If a guy showed up with no condoms and stated he preferred bareback they we would say, nice to meet you, have fun, bye. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We started playing rather unexpectedly with a bunch of guys recently and no one had a condom including us.
End of fun sadly. |
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I always take even if just meet for a meal as has happened ended up more than just lunch!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It should be discussed, any one of them could have a problem, an allergy say, to a particular type.
Generally though, I think all should be prepared. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Both responsible to have them. Why look for sex if you don't have protection? |
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Always have them in my handbag |
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"I would say both should have them, as you are both responsible, mature adults.
If a guy showed up with no condoms and stated he preferred bareback they we would say, nice to meet you, have fun, bye. "
Basically ... this!!!
But we only really play in clubs and TH provide them but Cupids don't. But I (mrs) carry a bag for just in case..... don't wanna be caught short!!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I always make sure I have them |
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Guys should always bring their own specially if they are intending to have fun , we have had to put some guys in there place at the club |
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"If a lady says she doesn’t play bare and asks a guy if he has any condoms and they say no who should be buying them? "
If the lady says she doesn't play bare, it would be strange for her to not have any available on a play date, but I carry them always, for my own comfort and size, as much as the sti issues  |
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over a year ago
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If a lady says she doesn’t play bare and asks a guy if he has any condoms and they say no who should be buying them? "
Both people are responsible however only the male knows what is the best fit etc. So if he hasn't got any he has to just accept what I offer or no sex.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I always bring my own (as I have a latex allergy), but I would expect a guy to also be carrying them. As others have said, if they turn up to a club or meet without them I assume they do bare with everyone and that is an instant turn off for me! |
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Everyone. Everyone should have their own supply of condoms.
Condoms everywhere!
YOU are responsible for YOUR sexual health and YOUR body (Women AND Men).
Want to prevent yourself from catching something nasty? - bring condoms!
Don't want to be a Parent? - bring condoms!
I will always have my own stash as I know for sure they are in date and haven't been tampered with.
If you need a certain size, style or material, that's up to you to supply what you need. x |
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"I always bring my own (as I have a latex allergy), but I would expect a guy to also be carrying them. As others have said, if they turn up to a club or meet without them I assume they do bare with everyone and that is an instant turn off for me!"
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I always take my own but would be disappointed if the man didn’t have any and it would likely give me the ick. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The man should always buy his own.. different sizes etc. |
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in Co. Down |
Both should bring them. It's up to everyone to be responsible for their sexual health. In saying that I met a few men who didn't have any with them. One even tried to say because he had a vasectomy he didn't need them. |
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By *lexV16Man
over a year ago
Welling |
Man, all the time! Can’t imagine any situation leading to sex where it would be acceptable for man to ask lady for a rubber |
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Guys should have their own, based on the fact they know what size/fit is right for them.
That said, we generally have a back up stash in case of emergencies, but I would be massively put off if a fella arrived for a meet without any as would make me worry they are a bit fast and loose with their health.
Also, exception is if the woman/couple have specific needs (allergies, want to be super careful with their control etc) so would be happy to wear theirs if they requested. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If a lady says she doesn’t play bare and asks a guy if he has any condoms and they say no who should be buying them? "
To prevent stealthing, I always bring my own condoms. I refuse to use his. If he is unsure about using mine, we buy new ones together. I never leave my sexual health in someone else's hands |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Everyone. Everyone should have their own supply of condoms.
Condoms everywhere!
YOU are responsible for YOUR sexual health and YOUR body (Women AND Men).
Want to prevent yourself from catching something nasty? - bring condoms!
Don't want to be a Parent? - bring condoms!
I will always have my own stash as I know for sure they are in date and haven't been tampered with.
If you need a certain size, style or material, that's up to you to supply what you need. x"
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I carry condoms most of the time.
Personally think men and woman should carry them if they intend to play with others |
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It's not a matter of who, more like everyone.
Your sexual health is your own responsibility nobody else's.
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"I carry condoms most of the time.
Personally think men and woman should carry them if they intend to play with others"
Spot on. |
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Thanks for all your replies.
I didn’t have any on me as I was work and he kept saying he never buys them and I should. Needless to say lots of red flags there and he’s now blocked. Definitely dodged a bullet on that one |
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By *oyRoy06Man
over a year ago
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Have always kept at least one on me since i first became sexually active.
That being said ... it takes at least 2 consentong adults to have fun, so surely responsibility is equal to plau safe and ensure protection is available |
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If you have a dick and are at risk of entering into a situation where you might need them. Then you should be carrying.
I also tend to carry them for situations where I might meet someone with a dick who's gonna be a little lax.
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Should be discussed before hand incase either party has latex allergies but we always make sure we have a new unopened box |
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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago
taunton somerset |
the man after all he knows what he likes but the truth is very very few turn up with them ... i keep some in most of the time but if for some reason they get here and ive got none then the meet wont go ahead the guy has the cock the guy should buy the wrappers   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's best the gent having them as he don't want have a wasted meet |
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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago
Fabville |
Since they are made in different sizes, the chap should supply his own. |
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I always have them with me but don't say unless the guy hasn't and I still really want to play, but sometimes if they haven't I won't say I have as I've changed my mind about them by that point and don't want to play anymore |
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Personally I think both, if either don't want bareback then you should take responsibility and cover that aspect, I assume it would be discussed beforehand mind to who's got them but I'd always have some just incase.
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"If you have a dick and are at risk of entering into a situation where you might need them. Then you should be carrying.
I also tend to carry them for situations where I might meet someone with a dick who's gonna be a little lax.
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I'd go as far as to say if you have a sexual organ or an orifice you might use as a sexual organ then you should be carrying.
This bullshit that it's only the man's responsibility is so 20th century thinking. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We always take plenty ourselves and to be fair its not really a matter of if the man or woman should, everyone should.
We'd say a bigger issue is making sure the bloke changes condoms if moving from one woman to another. |
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"If you have a dick and are at risk of entering into a situation where you might need them. Then you should be carrying.
I also tend to carry them for situations where I might meet someone with a dick who's gonna be a little lax.
I'd go as far as to say if you have a sexual organ or an orifice you might use as a sexual organ then you should be carrying.
This bullshit that it's only the man's responsibility is so 20th century thinking. "
Fair play. Yes, I carry for my dick and for my orifices so hey.
So we all should.
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Condoms are not one size fits all it took awhile for my husband to find a brand he was comfortable with.It’s everyone’s responsibility to carry them. |
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The man should be responsible for getting condoms |
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Ultimately, I think to be gentlemanly, the man should, but both parties should take responsibility and simply someone will always forget |
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Everyone one should have them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I always bring my own (as I have a latex allergy), but I would expect a guy to also be carrying them. As others have said, if they turn up to a club or meet without them I assume they do bare with everyone and that is an instant turn off for me!"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I would always use my own though. Likely the bloke's condom has been in his wallet since he was a teen. |
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"If a lady says she doesn’t play bare and asks a guy if he has any condoms and they say no who should be buying them? "
Both parties should carry a supply |
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Both should have them. Wouldn't trust anyone who doesn't |
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I think everyone needs to take responsibility for their own health. |
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"I would always use my own though. Likely the bloke's condom has been in his wallet since he was a teen."
You can use yours if you want but I am wearing the ones I brought for the same reasons. Plus yours wouldn’t fit. |
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"I would always use my own though. Likely the bloke's condom has been in his wallet since he was a teen.
You can use yours if you want but I am wearing the ones I brought for the same reasons. Plus yours wouldn’t fit."
I only use my own unless a sealed box |
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I always take my own to a meet so that they are definitely available, rather than expecting the person I’m meeting to provide them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If a lady says she doesn’t play bare and asks a guy if he has any condoms and they say no who should be buying them? "
For us expectations would be set before getting naked. However, we wouldn't dream of turning up to meet anyone without them
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I would always use my own though. Likely the bloke's condom has been in his wallet since he was a teen.
You can use yours if you want but I am wearing the ones I brought for the same reasons. Plus yours wouldn’t fit."
We wouldn't be meeting so no need. |
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"I would always use my own though. Likely the bloke's condom has been in his wallet since he was a teen.
You can use yours if you want but I am wearing the ones I brought for the same reasons. Plus yours wouldn’t fit.
We wouldn't be meeting so no need. "
That’s ok as I wasn’t asking |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If a lady says she doesn’t play bare and asks a guy if he has any condoms and they say no who should be buying them? "
Why buy them? Just grab as many condoms, dams, and femidoms as you need from the local sex health clinic or your GP every time you get your STI test. If you need more then go back and ask for some. We haven't bought condoms like ever!  |
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It's sensible to have your own, if you want to use them. And share the cost, if money is tight and without them. |
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Everyone should be protecting themselves. Everyone should have their own if planning on playing with others. However, I wouldn’t assume the size I carry should fit all. Does help me narrow down what I’m not interested in though 
Like Cinderella… if the shoe doesn’t fit  |
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"If a lady says she doesn’t play bare and asks a guy if he has any condoms and they say no who should be buying them?
Why buy them? Just grab as many condoms, dams, and femidoms as you need from the local sex health clinic or your GP every time you get your STI test. If you need more then go back and ask for some. We haven't bought condoms like ever! "
We do free postal STI checks and don’t have a hun clinic nearby. I’m sure a lot of regions are easier to access freebies but it’s a nightmare here! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We do free postal STI checks and don’t have a hun clinic nearby. I’m sure a lot of regions are easier to access freebies but it’s a nightmare here! "
Gum clinic or your GP. But if the NHS in your area does postal STI testing will likely have postal delivery for protection options too. |
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"If a lady says she doesn’t play bare and asks a guy if he has any condoms and they say no who should be buying them? "
I'd suggest the single male, but us as a couple, we always carry them anyway, & insist on using ours, so we know we've looked after them & they're not old or damaged |
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Everyone playing nice and mature on here when in fact most will throw the condoms to the side at the first sign of cock and puss.
I love this game. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hi there fabsters. New tother forums so please be gentle with me. (jokes, obvs)
Personally, controversially, I enjoy bareback, as did my partner of 6 years when we had a couples profile together way back. But, responsibly, we would always have condoms to hand should either of us in the party decide for whatever reason that on that particular occasion we would use condoms. There could be a multitude of reasons for this. But to answer the OP's original question, everyone should be packing protection regardless. Events will essentially govern the way the meet goes as the night unfolds but as a basic starting point everyone involved should have them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I would always use my own though. Likely the bloke's condom has been in his wallet since he was a teen.
You can use yours if you want but I am wearing the ones I brought for the same reasons. Plus yours wouldn’t fit.
We wouldn't be meeting so no need.
That’s ok as I wasn’t asking "
Sorry my comment sounded really bitchy and it wasn't meant that way at all. I meant you are out of my league x |
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"I would always use my own though. Likely the bloke's condom has been in his wallet since he was a teen.
You can use yours if you want but I am wearing the ones I brought for the same reasons. Plus yours wouldn’t fit.
We wouldn't be meeting so no need.
That’s ok as I wasn’t asking
Sorry my comment sounded really bitchy and it wasn't meant that way at all. I meant you are out of my league x"
I don’t believe in leagues - I think swinging is a participation sport and everyone adds to the game. I do still think everyone needs to bring their own boots though |
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"If a lady says she doesn’t play bare and asks a guy if he has any condoms and they say no who should be buying them? "
Depends on .. If the 'lady' states, and is adamant that she doesn't play bare, then SHE should always carry. IF the guy, on the other hand, wants only raw, why would he carry? |
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By *elkieWoman
over a year ago
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I always carry non-latex* because of allergies. One of the sexiest things on the planet is a man who has figured out he can fuck everyone with a non-latex condom, has figured out which particular one works for him and carries that as standard.
* apart from that time I forgot. |
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"I always carry non-latex* because of allergies. One of the sexiest things on the planet is a man who has figured out he can fuck everyone with a non-latex condom, has figured out which particular one works for him and carries that as standard.
* apart from that time I forgot. "
I have always used Skyns which are latex free and were the largest I could find. Recently I was told about a make with an even larger size that are much more comfortable which I also now carry but they have latex. That means I can choose what to wear depending on what allergies she has. |
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The guy should have his own as he knows which brand/size/ shape whatever fits him most comfortably.
However I always have my own too, latex free. |
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It’s very poor behaviour from a guy. |
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By *acktopervMan
over a year ago
Stourport-On-Severn |
Probably like most people, i much prefer BB. But i will say i have never ever gone on any meet without condoms, and have actually used them more times than than not by some margin. |
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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago
East London |
I believe the onus is on the man, as he knows which size and fit is best for him.
I buy them, but if they don't fit then they don't get pussy.
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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago
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"If a lady says she doesn’t play bare and asks a guy if he has any condoms and they say no who should be buying them?
Depends on .. If the 'lady' states, and is adamant that she doesn't play bare, then SHE should always carry. IF the guy, on the other hand, wants only raw, why would he carry?"
I'd expect any man to tell me if he only plays bare, then I can tell him no thanks.
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By * F 2018Couple
over a year ago
shropshire |
"If a lady says she doesn’t play bare and asks a guy if he has any condoms and they say no who should be buying them? "
It's polite for him to have condoms but we always make sure we have them |
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"Both should have them.
No excuse for either then"
This ^ |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not even up for debate. I won’t even turn up for a social without condoms. Absolutely no excuse. Any guy who turns up without them is a RED flag. Even if the lady has them. The fact the man can arrive without is alarm bells. Safe sex please x |
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By *riel13Woman
over a year ago
Northampton |
I always have some, when meeting, usually latex free but it does sit funny if the guy doesn't bring any at all... It's just bad form for either to have none at all |
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I bought some as I'm fussy which ones go in me...still haven't used them yet. Hope they don't go out of date  |
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"If a lady says she doesn’t play bare and asks a guy if he has any condoms and they say no who should be buying them? "
I think both should have condoms personally. It's probably the man's priority but in the moment it's too easy to just say sod it and go bareback |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I always bring my own condoms because I know which one's are the most comfortable.
Although I have no problems if a meet brings latex free ones because of a allergy |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Also if any one wants my recommendations go for the one vanish hyper thin with one little drop of lube on the inside and thank me later haha |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The man everytime |
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As the person with the cock knows best what fits and feels good, surely they’re best placed to provide? If they don’t, I’m more than happy to say no thanks.
And frankly, I think I do my share being on birth control…. |
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I always provide condoms - I want specific ones that are extra safe and I know haven’t expired |
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I always carry some just in case but most clubs have them in private rooms or can ask at the desk.
Always safe to be prepared either person. |
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By *jonesMan
over a year ago
Plymouth |
I have a belt like batman and always carry condoms, lube, freshmints, and deodorant |
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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago
harrow |
Always bring my own to a club meet, have a spare box in bag in case the ones in play bag go walking lol
I have a certain brand and fit I prefer |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Both
I always carry my own |
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"If a lady says she doesn’t play bare and asks a guy if he has any condoms and they say no who should be buying them? "
Both.
Think its a grown up way to go about things.
If I met a guy who said "didn't bring any condoms as I think you should buy them" I'd laugh, give him a couple of quid and tell him to nip off and buy some sweeties.
Would match his maturity. |
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I buy the condoms for the Bulls to use when fucking my wife |
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By *olarMan
over a year ago
woking |
If anyone wants to play safe they have condoms to ensure safe play happens |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Men as it is men's product Women buy there personal stuff |
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By *bwstarzWoman
over a year ago
south cheshire |
Both should carry condoms, I have my little bag with a variety of brands and sizes so no excuse but does surprise if the guy doesn’t have any - like you come a swinging party with no condoms what exactly were you thinking was gonna happen, just watch? |
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"If a lady says she doesn’t play bare and asks a guy if he has any condoms and they say no who should be buying them? "
No cover, no entry. He would be asked to leave. You are offering pussy and then need to buy the condoms. No way.
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Onus is on both to be careful and prepared. I usually use my own condoms as know they feel good |
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Usually the thin ones. Thicker sometimes. Others fruit flavour for some ladies |
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"If a lady says she doesn’t play bare and asks a guy if he has any condoms and they say no who should be buying them? "
Both actually. Anyone that wants safe sex should have them |
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over a year ago
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By *andB130Couple
over a year ago
northampton |
Both should always have them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I never rely on the other party to have them, I want safe sex so I make sure I can get it that way.
I do wonder why men cast about safe sex but don't bring any |
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"If a lady says she doesn’t play bare and asks a guy if he has any condoms and they say no who should be buying them? "
The Question was “ who should buy” so i think Man if he is ‘Gentleman’
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By *apnDomMan
over a year ago
London | Belfast |
Sorry but that is a very "un-smart" way of approaching the situation. You have to take care of yourself and can't just expect everyone around you to do that for you.
You bring condoms, and expect him to have some. If he doesn't, you still have yours.
You are both responsible, and "both" does NOT exclude you.
This discussion comes up so often, it's ridiculous. |
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By *apnDomMan
over a year ago
London | Belfast |
"Usually the thin ones. Thicker sometimes. Others fruit flavour for some ladies"
Never have I ever heard a girl say "oohhh this tastes soo good. Thanks for bringing the strawberry rubber!" (just buy normal ones) |
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I always buy my own. Vanishingly unlikely anyone else will have the right size. |
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over a year ago
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"Usually the thin ones. Thicker sometimes. Others fruit flavour for some ladies
Never have I ever heard a girl say "oohhh this tastes soo good. Thanks for bringing the strawberry rubber!" (just buy normal ones)"
Some women don't give oral without a condom so this is quite thoughtful I think
Yeah they don't taste great but they taste better than normal condoms |
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By *apnDomMan
over a year ago
London | Belfast |
"Usually the thin ones. Thicker sometimes. Others fruit flavour for some ladies
Never have I ever heard a girl say "oohhh this tastes soo good. Thanks for bringing the strawberry rubber!" (just buy normal ones)
Some women don't give oral without a condom so this is quite thoughtful I think
Yeah they don't taste great but they taste better than normal condoms "
First time I ever heard that. Normally the answer is "I don't care. neither taste great". Also 99% of women suck dick without rubber anyway. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Usually the thin ones. Thicker sometimes. Others fruit flavour for some ladies
Never have I ever heard a girl say "oohhh this tastes soo good. Thanks for bringing the strawberry rubber!" (just buy normal ones)
Some women don't give oral without a condom so this is quite thoughtful I think
Yeah they don't taste great but they taste better than normal condoms
First time I ever heard that. Normally the answer is "I don't care. neither taste great". Also 99% of women suck dick without rubber anyway."
Maybe 99% of the women you've met lol
Lots of women suck dick with condoms on hence why there's such a market for flavoured ones |
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By *apnDomMan
over a year ago
London | Belfast |
"Usually the thin ones. Thicker sometimes. Others fruit flavour for some ladies
Never have I ever heard a girl say "oohhh this tastes soo good. Thanks for bringing the strawberry rubber!" (just buy normal ones)
Some women don't give oral without a condom so this is quite thoughtful I think
Yeah they don't taste great but they taste better than normal condoms
First time I ever heard that. Normally the answer is "I don't care. neither taste great". Also 99% of women suck dick without rubber anyway.
Maybe 99% of the women you've met lol
Lots of women suck dick with condoms on hence why there's such a market for flavoured ones "
Not saying that I never met any who did (I indeed did), but just saying that I only heard indifference about the "taste" of the rubber, as it never is good anyway apparently. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Usually the thin ones. Thicker sometimes. Others fruit flavour for some ladies
Never have I ever heard a girl say "oohhh this tastes soo good. Thanks for bringing the strawberry rubber!" (just buy normal ones)
Some women don't give oral without a condom so this is quite thoughtful I think
Yeah they don't taste great but they taste better than normal condoms
First time I ever heard that. Normally the answer is "I don't care. neither taste great". Also 99% of women suck dick without rubber anyway.
Maybe 99% of the women you've met lol
Lots of women suck dick with condoms on hence why there's such a market for flavoured ones
Not saying that I never met any who did (I indeed did), but just saying that I only heard indifference about the "taste" of the rubber, as it never is good anyway apparently."
You literally said "Also 99% of women suck dick without rubber anyway."
Lol |
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By *apnDomMan
over a year ago
London | Belfast |
"Usually the thin ones. Thicker sometimes. Others fruit flavour for some ladies
Never have I ever heard a girl say "oohhh this tastes soo good. Thanks for bringing the strawberry rubber!" (just buy normal ones)
Some women don't give oral without a condom so this is quite thoughtful I think
Yeah they don't taste great but they taste better than normal condoms
First time I ever heard that. Normally the answer is "I don't care. neither taste great". Also 99% of women suck dick without rubber anyway.
Maybe 99% of the women you've met lol
Lots of women suck dick with condoms on hence why there's such a market for flavoured ones
Not saying that I never met any who did (I indeed did), but just saying that I only heard indifference about the "taste" of the rubber, as it never is good anyway apparently.
You literally said "Also 99% of women suck dick without rubber anyway."
Lol"
Yes, indeed. Now I am not here to argue, but what exactly does that contradict? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Usually the thin ones. Thicker sometimes. Others fruit flavour for some ladies
Never have I ever heard a girl say "oohhh this tastes soo good. Thanks for bringing the strawberry rubber!" (just buy normal ones)
Some women don't give oral without a condom so this is quite thoughtful I think
Yeah they don't taste great but they taste better than normal condoms
First time I ever heard that. Normally the answer is "I don't care. neither taste great". Also 99% of women suck dick without rubber anyway.
Maybe 99% of the women you've met lol
Lots of women suck dick with condoms on hence why there's such a market for flavoured ones
Not saying that I never met any who did (I indeed did), but just saying that I only heard indifference about the "taste" of the rubber, as it never is good anyway apparently.
You literally said "Also 99% of women suck dick without rubber anyway."
Lol
Yes, indeed. Now I am not here to argue, but what exactly does that contradict?"
I misread your last comment  |
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Seem to have caused some issues here. All saying is all are different. We should all respect that and be prepared for what people like or not |
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"Usually the thin ones. Thicker sometimes. Others fruit flavour for some ladies
Never have I ever heard a girl say "oohhh this tastes soo good. Thanks for bringing the strawberry rubber!" (just buy normal ones)
Some women don't give oral without a condom so this is quite thoughtful I think
Yeah they don't taste great but they taste better than normal condoms "
Yes exactly my point. Should consider others just like how you would wish to be considered. Thank you and if I may xxx |
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By *orseman12Man
over a year ago
BIRMINGHAM.BOURNVILLE &SELLYOAK |
Men should carry condoms to partys and clubs if look on fab lot couples and single females play u safe sex then you should ask your self is worth meeting them if they playing bb that means they don't care about buying condoms same as couples and single females you get condoms free from sti clinic and buy of ebay 24 condoms for £3.50 is that how much you value your health I been blocked many times by couples and females because they what bb sex I always look at there pictures on profile and read there verifications |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Both should have condoms, more so than women.
I always have a selection of different sizes and makes. |
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Both should have them to be honest. I’d never even think about turning up to a meet without the brand I know that I find comfortable. |
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By *apnDomMan
over a year ago
London | Belfast |
"Men should carry condoms to partys and clubs if look on fab lot couples and single females play u safe sex then you should ask your self is worth meeting them if they playing bb that means they don't care about buying condoms same as couples and single females you get condoms free from sti clinic and buy of ebay 24 condoms for £3.50 is that how much you value your health I been blocked many times by couples and females because they what bb sex I always look at there pictures on profile and read there verifications "
women get condoms for free? |
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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago
harrow |
In a club it shocks me the amount of men that don’t have them….
It’s like a guy asked me for one so he could play with a lady in the dungeon. Was like the club sells them get your own |
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"Men should carry condoms to partys and clubs if look on fab lot couples and single females play u safe sex then you should ask your self is worth meeting them if they playing bb that means they don't care about buying condoms same as couples and single females you get condoms free from sti clinic and buy of ebay 24 condoms for £3.50 is that how much you value your health I been blocked many times by couples and females because they what bb sex I always look at there pictures on profile and read there verifications
women get condoms for free?"
My local sexual health clinic gives out free condoms (in various sizes too), and lube. I always pick some up when I’m having a check |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Just ask if she says no bareback then just ask if she wants me bring my own |
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Everyone should own them and carry them |
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By *apnDomMan
over a year ago
London | Belfast |
"Men should carry condoms to partys and clubs if look on fab lot couples and single females play u safe sex then you should ask your self is worth meeting them if they playing bb that means they don't care about buying condoms same as couples and single females you get condoms free from sti clinic and buy of ebay 24 condoms for £3.50 is that how much you value your health I been blocked many times by couples and females because they what bb sex I always look at there pictures on profile and read there verifications
women get condoms for free?
My local sexual health clinic gives out free condoms (in various sizes too), and lube. I always pick some up when I’m having a check "
I get my tests done elsewhere, but I went once and I think you're right, they give out condoms. I got a full pack of them. |
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Funny enough even though I believe men should be responsible for carrying condoms on them, there's a woman I'm looking to meet who's insisting on bringing her own |
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"Men should carry condoms to partys and clubs if look on fab lot couples and single females play u safe sex then you should ask your self is worth meeting them if they playing bb that means they don't care about buying condoms same as couples and single females you get condoms free from sti clinic and buy of ebay 24 condoms for £3.50 is that how much you value your health I been blocked many times by couples and females because they what bb sex I always look at there pictures on profile and read there verifications
women get condoms for free?
My local sexual health clinic gives out free condoms (in various sizes too), and lube. I always pick some up when I’m having a check "
While this is true, my local clinic is pretty limited in the sizes they have available. I had to get them to put a note in my file to stop nagging me to take condoms that don't fit. |
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By *rpeggioCouple
over a year ago
Baughurst |
Anyone who expects to fuck or to be fucked should bring them. Another benefit of bringing your own is that you can trust them. |
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I literally would not turn up to a meet without them. I’d be mortified if I didn’t have any. |
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"I carry condoms most of the time.
Personally think men and woman should carry them if they intend to play with others"
Exactly this
It really isn’t that complex folks |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Exactly, I would never turn up without them , I always replace and have a pack hidden in the car.
Always play safe .  |
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"If a lady says she doesn’t play bare and asks a guy if he has any condoms and they say no who should be buying them? "
Men, so they get the right size. I have supplied them but get moaned at the size. I think it's an excuse cos they want bareback  |
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"I always carry non-latex* because of allergies. One of the sexiest things on the planet is a man who has figured out he can fuck everyone with a non-latex condom, has figured out which particular one works for him and carries that as standard.
* apart from that time I forgot. "
I didn't know they were washable |
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"Usually the thin ones. Thicker sometimes. Others fruit flavour for some ladies
Never have I ever heard a girl say "oohhh this tastes soo good. Thanks for bringing the strawberry rubber!" (just buy normal ones)"
You don't know what you're talking about... Best bj I've given is with fruity condoms... Could not get enough of it. BJ with ordinary condoms is rank. |
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"Both should have them.
No excuse for either then"
Absolutely both or all should be equipped |
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Only he knows what fits and stays on. |
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"Only he knows what fits and stays on."
I don't understand why this is so hard  to understand. I reckon those men spouting equal responsibility have never used a woman's purchase. Are they really barebackers? |
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By *ubandsubCouple
over a year ago
Middlesbrough |
We find the guys who dont have them when we ask tend to be guys who are hiding it from their partners. We always have spares, but we expect guys to bring thier own. |
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"If a lady says she doesn’t play bare and asks a guy if he has any condoms and they say no who should be buying them?
Men, so they get the right size. I have supplied them but get moaned at the size. I think it's an excuse cos they want bareback "
Yep totally agree on both counts. I really need size/type that I am comfortable with and can't imagine meeting somebody without taking some. |
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We take our own everywhere due to preferred brand/type. |
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I would be happy to supply condoms |
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"If a lady says she doesn’t play bare and asks a guy if he has any condoms and they say no who should be buying them? "
we always have them, just in case x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As a single guy I always take condoms no matter what |
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By *host63Man
over a year ago
Bedfont Feltham |
If its a meet that is likely to end with sex both should bring them. |
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By *arkrobMan
over a year ago
Morecambe |
one of you go to the GUM clinic they give them to you FOC with a good few weeks supply |
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If neither of you has them, get some oral done |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think everyone should be responsible for their sexual health however that looks for them and what has been agreed.
I always have condoms. |
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By *archelCouple
over a year ago
A field somewhere |
There are a lot of people saying both, but imo it should be the guy, he knows what size he needs, and women aren't mind readers and shouldn't have to carry a vast array of sizes for that "just in case" time.
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"If a lady says she doesn’t play bare and asks a guy if he has any condoms and they say no who should be buying them? "
I always take them, my own safety is at risk too. |
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By *orynMan
over a year ago
betws y coed |
No excuses should carry them anyway that way No chance of disappointing xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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In that case I say her but I do think he should carry some too. My hubby always takes some anyway as do I |
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By *orny PTMan
over a year ago
Peterborough |
"I always bring my own (as I have a latex allergy), but I would expect a guy to also be carrying them. As others have said, if they turn up to a club or meet without them I assume they do bare with everyone and that is an instant turn off for me!"
It it a woman's responsibility to bring the lube? |
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We would always discuss this before a meet. No condom, no sex and he’s going to wear them so he needs to bring the ones that suit him.
Likewise we would provide lube as some is stingy lol |
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By *orny PTMan
over a year ago
Peterborough |
"there was a interesting convo at work today from some of the younger ladies they were saying that alot of younger guys are putting pins through the condom packets so that they break because that way they can have it bare ...now thats scary... so these ladies have taken to buying the condoms and wont have fun unless its their condoms that are used "
Pricks!
This is evil, sounds like something catholic missionaries would encourage.  |
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If your going to give a lady, make sure it’s wrapped up Gents ( buy the condoms) |
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The man cos he knows which type he likes. |
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"there was a interesting convo at work today from some of the younger ladies they were saying that alot of younger guys are putting pins through the condom packets so that they break because that way they can have it bare ...now thats scary... so these ladies have taken to buying the condoms and wont have fun unless its their condoms that are used
Can’t see why, it’s not bare sex? Just some of the cum will leak out. It will still just feel like sex with a condom."
Dude, admit that was a joke, you just lost the whole room |
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"there was a interesting convo at work today from some of the younger ladies they were saying that alot of younger guys are putting pins through the condom packets so that they break because that way they can have it bare ...now thats scary... so these ladies have taken to buying the condoms and wont have fun unless its their condoms that are used
Can’t see why, it’s not bare sex? Just some of the cum will leak out. It will still just feel like sex with a condom.
Dude, admit that was a joke, you just lost the whole room "
I didn’t quite get the concept. I didn’t realise they fall apart if you do this. Now I understand. |
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Never give anyone the responsibility for your sexual health .
You should always have them and so should they if they value their sexual health too xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If they both claim "safe sex only" then they should both arrive with condoms.
Its not a gentleman's duty, its the 21st century and everyone involved needs to protect themselves and others. |
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I think that everybody who is attending clubs or meeting on a one to one basis should carry condoms. I make sure that I have a good supply of condoms with me everytime as you just never know. Im very direct and insist that a condom must be worn but am invariably often asked if they can do it without to which they get Told no in no uncertain terms. It’s actually very worrying as just the other day I observed a couple who where inviting several single men to fuck the female and telling them that it was up to them if they wanted to wear a condom or not and men where doing it without . I Can’t believe that anybody active on this scene would be so irresponsible ! |
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