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By *g1979 OP Man
over a year ago
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Just after a quick bit of advice on definitions please.
We go to clubs and enjoy being watched. We don't join in with group play.
We want to try arranging with a couple to play in the same room and watch each other.
What is that defined as? At first we thought it was soft swing but had a Google of the meaning and see it means oral sex and kissing as well.
What would we call What we are looking for? |
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"Just after a quick bit of advice on definitions please.
We go to clubs and enjoy being watched. We don't join in with group play.
We want to try arranging with a couple to play in the same room and watch each other.
What is that defined as? At first we thought it was soft swing but had a Google of the meaning and see it means oral sex and kissing as well.
What would we call What we are looking for?"
Not sure its called anything. Just go into a couples room at a club and start playing with each other and if some reaches to touch you on the arm or leg, indicating that they want to play, just say No thankyou or We only play together. Most swingers won't want to arrange a meet where you only watch each other. |
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I think things can be a bit ambiguous when we stick to labels, your definition of what's expected and another's of the same label could be completely different.
My advice would be to simply explain what you're looking for as you have above, I think it's pretty clear and doesn't come off badly at all.
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By *g1979 OP Man
over a year ago
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"I think things can be a bit ambiguous when we stick to labels, your definition of what's expected and another's of the same label could be completely different.
My advice would be to simply explain what you're looking for as you have above, I think it's pretty clear and doesn't come off badly at all.
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Thank you. We have had a few bad experiences with couples trying to push boundaries so we want to be very clear in what we are up for.
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By *an1978Woman
over a year ago
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As above, put what you are looking for in your profile.
Then at least people who want more can scroll on by, and you may catch the attention of people who want the same as you.
Have seen it called "Same room fun with another couple" but even that can be ambiguous. |
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