Depends who you are trying to stand out in the crowd for. For us, reading our profile and being genuinely compatible is a great step forward.
In contrast, others on here aren't too fussed about compatibility, and just want to see what they are getting.
Our top tip would be, think who YOU want to attract and maybe yourself attractive to those people, rather than a 'catch all' approach. |
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"what's your tip to stand up in the crowed for good reasons and not looking out of place?  "
Main tip would be - and I don't mean to be facetious - search the forums. This comes up a lot and you'll find some good advice. |
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If you're looking for a tip about how to stand out from a crowd in a swingers club, the answer is quite simple- get yourself a "prop" that would cause people starting conversations with you.
For my partner, a pair of spikey gloves has worked a treat- he just has them lying on the table in front of him and people come, look, maybe touch, maybe ask questions, and then maybe even get treated to a bit of a spikey glove massage. Just to break the ice.
Also, fancy dress works very well for him, too- his shoes got more compliments last time we were in the club than my Irregular Choice shoes. |
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