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over a year ago
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After saying 'no thanks' to someone and their response is 'Your loss', how many nights sleep do you lose worrying about just how big a loss it might be? |
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Lol none at all. We had a couple recently who tried to see our face pics before sending theirs (as usual). We managed to get them to send theirs first but they were not for us and we politely told them so. STILL they demanded to see ours as it would be rude of us not too !?!?, so we had to block them. They then created another profile to attack us again so blocked that one too !!  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Lol none at all. We had a couple recently who tried to see our face pics before sending theirs (as usual). We managed to get them to send theirs first but they were not for us and we politely told them so. STILL they demanded to see ours as it would be rude of us not too !?!?, so we had to block them. They then created another profile to attack us again so blocked that one too !! "
Oh my, that's quite worrying that they've gone to that trouble to get to you. Sounds like you dodged a bullet there. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"It's best not to reply rather send "no thanks", less chance of a follow up message which could even be abusive. "
We do delete most of the messages we get. The ones that make a bit of an effort and send a face pic we try and reply to. Most are quite polite. |
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Oh, all of them.
That I missed out on one of the endless sea of unwanted noodles has kept me awake at night for years. Every additional one just makes every night harder, for sure.
The shame of it all. |
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By *lfacatMan
over a year ago
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"Oh, all of them.
That I missed out on one of the endless sea of unwanted noodles has kept me awake at night for years. Every additional one just makes every night harder, for sure.
The shame of it all."
I’m sensing a touch of sarcasm in your reply…
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"Oh, all of them.
That I missed out on one of the endless sea of unwanted noodles has kept me awake at night for years. Every additional one just makes every night harder, for sure.
The shame of it all.
I’m sensing a touch of sarcasm in your reply…
;-)"
Shit.
What gave the game away? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Oh, all of them.
That I missed out on one of the endless sea of unwanted noodles has kept me awake at night for years. Every additional one just makes every night harder, for sure.
The shame of it all.
I’m sensing a touch of sarcasm in your reply…
;-)"
I've got a feeling that this entire thread is drenched in sarcasm. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"After saying 'no thanks' to someone and their response is 'Your loss', how many nights sleep do you lose worrying about just how big a loss it might be? "
I'm an insomniac so I wouldn't lose any!!
On the plus side!
Only five sleeps till Christmas!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Oh, all of them.
That I missed out on one of the endless sea of unwanted noodles has kept me awake at night for years. Every additional one just makes every night harder, for sure.
The shame of it all."
For me it’s the first one who replied with such a message. Still haunts me |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"After saying 'no thanks' to someone and their response is 'Your loss', how many nights sleep do you lose worrying about just how big a loss it might be? "
If someone has that opinion they weren't worth having to lose to start with. We do find it mildly amusing when profiles that have totally ignored messages from our individual profiles yet post status about not being able to find anyone real  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It's best not to reply rather send "no thanks", less chance of a follow up message which could even be abusive. "
I've always replied to a rejection message by thanking them for letting me know and wishing them good luck.
Being nice to others makes us feel happy, being angry makes us feel bad. Why make yourself feel bad?
...and once, a very nice couple who'd rejected me remembered my politeness and messaged me the following week    |
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"After saying 'no thanks' to someone and their response is 'Your loss', how many nights sleep do you lose worrying about just how big a loss it might be? "
none because you can’t miss out on something you never had in the first place .
We all have our preferences ! |
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I've had couples message out of the blue to tell me I'm too old and too straight to be successful here and they kindly provide me with a list of instructions that I must carry out before they will consider adding me to their to-do list.
When I decline their tempting offer I've been told it's my loss and they often throw in a little "do you not know who we are and who we have fucked?" as a way of making me feel even worse for rejecting them.
All combined I must have lost at least 30 seconds of sleep. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Absolutely none.
If anything, a comment like that just goes to prove that I've made the right decision and probably dodged a bullet as it demonstrates a massive sense of entitlement, arrogance and self-importance |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Absolutely none.
If anything, a comment like that just goes to prove that I've made the right decision and probably dodged a bullet as it demonstrates a massive sense of entitlement, arrogance and self-importance"
This 
Zero sleep lost |
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