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Finding a partner has been difficult
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For several years I have been trying to find a woman who enjoys the lifestyle as long term partner and I have found it impossible. To be honest, it’s been very tough and I don’t know if it is possible. So let me know if there’s some one out there who is also looking for a man.
I am kind loving caring man who enjoys this lifestyle |
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Don't give up hope.. can find one in the least expected place.. Mine is a work colleague.. we aren't an official couple.. just started having fun at my house then I started taking her clubs. she has been going with me over a year now and loves it. Takes time though.. took almost 9 months for her to get the nerve to go.. |
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over a year ago
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Very possible , it’s happened 3 times for me and normally by chance , ladies are very liberated now and if you lay your stall out early on they have a choice , better than expecting or pressuring afterwards, certainly been my experience and hopefully clubbing with one such diamond tonight for the first time x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Probably not the site to look for long term relationship tbh. Obviously not impossible though."
You'd be surprised. There's quite often singles threads running, there are a fair few couples on here who met as singles. In a way it actually makes more sense as people's sexual preferences are upfront on here |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
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"Probably not the site to look for long term relationship tbh. Obviously not impossible though."
I wasn't. Still happened though.
OP I'd say don't actually look. Just carry on meeting people, just as you would in real life. If you go in with the attitude of each and every meet being a potential life partner you'll always end up disappointed and will also potentially scare off others.
Like relationships in normal life, they tend to happen when you least expect it and starting any new interactions with no expectations is key.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's about meeting and recognising there is something special in each other and taking the time to allow that to develop as a couple. I know quite a few couples who have met as singles. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think there are more open to relationships on here than people realise. It’s been better than dating apps for me.
Just have to be clear in profiles as many don’t really say what they are and aren’t looking for. |
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"For several years I have been trying to find a woman who enjoys the lifestyle as long term partner and I have found it impossible. To be honest, it’s been very tough and I don’t know if it is possible. So let me know if there’s some one out there who is also looking for a man.
I am kind loving caring man who enjoys this lifestyle "
Some more recent pics wouldn’t go amiss.
Good luck I’ve seen lots of posts on here with people that have met through swinging.
I too am open to meeting someone eventually that would be happy to accept that I want the attentions of more than one guy. Shame that our likes don’t align x |
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It is difficult.
I’ve been single for 3 years (by choice at first, now, not so much).
Finding someone to swing with is much harder than it seems, there’s so many different rules and expectations and definitions. |
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"We met on Bumble and then very quickly had honest conversations about what our preferences & likes were - could it have all gone wrong absolutely, but fortune favours the brave!"
That is fabulous and I wish you both the very best. I am remaining optimistic even though I am rather frustrated.  |
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"We met on Bumble and then very quickly had honest conversations about what our preferences & likes were - could it have all gone wrong absolutely, but fortune favours the brave!"
I met my last partner on bumble as well
I do put the information about swinging on my dating profile as it easier to find right person for me |
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"We met on Bumble and then very quickly had honest conversations about what our preferences & likes were - could it have all gone wrong absolutely, but fortune favours the brave!
I met my last partner on bumble as well
I do put the information about swinging on my dating profile as it easier to find right person for me "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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They do say you find it when you aren't looking...
Neither of us were looking for more than FWB on here and whilst we aren't in a relationship we are a little more than FWB.
Who knows what the future may hold but for now we are enjoying the journey.
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It is possible although obviously not easy and as others have said somebody might come along when you least expect it. Best to just get out there, meet people, have fun and hope one day it happens. It did for me and knows lots of others for whom that has happened including several who are now married after meeting through Fab. |
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