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By *atnay OP Couple
over a year ago
STEVENAGE |
Hi all. Nat from Jatnay here.
We're struggling on what type of pictures we want to set as public.
We had a few of us with clothes on. Face shots, as figured it best to be upfront with our looks.
However, after loosing count of the number of single men messaging us (several within quarter of a mile of where we live), despite stating in our bio not to. We have now set them to friends only and only couples can message us for now. We are happy to share pics in messages with ppl we are talking to though.
The thought of being recocnised in the street where we live is a real concern for us.
We're not comfortable with posting vadge and cock shots either. Doesnt appeal to us that much. Would rather just pictures that say something about who we are as a couple.
Question is, hide our faces or not?
Please share your thoughts and advice. But be kind, we're still very new to the scene.
Also welcome thoughts on our profile in genral.
Please help...
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By *atnay OP Couple
over a year ago
STEVENAGE |
"i always prefer the ones with something left to the imagination as public photos.
any others can be for friends or sent as private messages"
I agree with you.
I like the pictures we have. They are just snaps of us. In the ciema waiting for film to start, a selfie just as I was about to go out and a close up face shot. Like the idea of photos where we are in full frame too.
But do we hide our faces? |
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You can stop single men from messaging by using the filters. As for pictures, look at sources of pictures like instagram and twitter or tge hit pics sections. When you find the ones you like, note down the pose and try and emulate.
Remember people who take good pics normally take a ratio of 10:1 to get a good one. We also use a timer app. It takes 50 pics at intervals then you can adjust your pose and pick the good ones. |
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By *atnay OP Couple
over a year ago
STEVENAGE |
"You can stop single men from messaging by using the filters. As for pictures, look at sources of pictures like instagram and twitter or tge hit pics sections. When you find the ones you like, note down the pose and try and emulate.
Remember people who take good pics normally take a ratio of 10:1 to get a good one. We also use a timer app. It takes 50 pics at intervals then you can adjust your pose and pick the good ones."
Setting filters done. Thats better now.
Will look into using a timer and taking 50 pics at a time.
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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago
Calderdale innit |
Just body shots that show both of your body type is fine.
Can be clothed if preferred and heads cropped off.
I'm half a couple and my main thing is that when i look at a couple profile ,theres pics of both people available. |
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We like to avoid anything too graphic while giving an idea of what we both look like in body shots.
Prefer to see pics of both of a couple, especially if they’re looking for couples to interact with.
We don’t make face pics public but have become a bit more relaxed about sending them in messages nowadays, if we’re making a plan to meet up. |
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I (Sean) have recently started to simplify my thoughts on who we are looking to attract. Swingers or Shaggers?
I'll probably cause comments from those who will deliberately misunderstand what is written here, but I/we see swingers as people who you are happy to spend time with, PLUS you enjoy having sexual encounters with them too. Therefore, I look for pictures which show a little of the personality. We also try to only upload pictures which do the same.
In contrast, it seems most others on the site concentrate more on asset size, to get more bang for their buck. In my head, I refer to these as Shaggers. This isn't derogatory, it's just a simplification.
If you ask yourself whether you want to attract Swingers or Shaggers, you can then upload pictures accordingly.
We don't share face, vag or dick pics, nor do we ask for them. This is because they aren't reflective of the personality. |
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