Well I’ve been on and off here for a few years and when now after messaging I’m getting no replies? 
I’m reading there profiles etc first and taking all into account and still no luck lol.
What am I doing wrong? Do I need to be some kind of muscle guy with a massive ding dong?
Some advice and help and feedback appreciated  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well I’ve been on and off here for a few years and when now after messaging I’m getting no replies?
I’m reading there profiles etc first and taking all into account and still no luck lol.
What am I doing wrong? Do I need to be some kind of muscle guy with a massive ding dong?
Some advice and help and feedback appreciated "
I find the assumption that every woman wants a 'muscle guy' with a 'massive ding dong' astounding. You're not the only one, it seems a running thought process with guys that post about not getting replies etc.
As is said so many times on posts like this there's a disproportionate number of men compared to women and men really do need to stand out from the crowd. |
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By *rMs.NeekCouple
over a year ago
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As is said so many times on posts like this there's a disproportionate number of men compared to women and men really do need to stand out from the crowd. "
That's true, certainly, hit also in our experience a lot of couples and single women could do with upping their game somewhat, too....
But to answer the OPs question, it's more a case of being yourself and not trying too hard, if that makes sense?
Certainly read profiles, and ask questions, but think of it like walking into a crowded bar - you wouldn't fancy every woman in the place, and you'd probably try talking to one or two. And the chances of the woman ignoring you or telling you to piss off would be quite high (unless I was WAY off into approach  ) and so really this place is no different. But there's a lot more single guys vying for attention.
Hope this helps, and good luck
But as has been suggested, socials and clubs are also a good starting point  |
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Realistically, socials and clubs are your best bet.
If you do want to make the most of your chances on Fab...
Is your profile the best representation of you? This is your shop window and ladies will read it before deciding whether to reply.
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By (user no longer on site)
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Whoever you message is going to check out your profile before even thinking about reading what you might have sent them.
If they don't think your'e a good match for them or that you're in any way compatible, or simply don't find you attractive, then why would they bother to even open your message, let alone reply to it.
You say you've been on here for a few years, so you must surely have figured out that this isn't dial-a-shag and that you're likely to only appeal to a small select group of people and that other members on here aren't here solely for your benefit.
Your original post is giving off a slight whiff of entitlement I'm afraid |
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"Well I’ve been on and off here for a few years and when now after messaging I’m getting no replies?
I’m reading there profiles etc first and taking all into account and still no luck lol.
What am I doing wrong? Do I need to be some kind of muscle guy with a massive ding dong?
Some advice and help and feedback appreciated "
Are your messages just three words? |
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By *nkyCplCouple
over a year ago
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"I would work on the profile ...... some issues there.
But after that- I would actually get to clubs and socials as it is hard on here for anyone let alone a single guy.
K
Can I ask what issues? "
You can ask for profile advice and people will happily give it, but we can’t until you do or will get banned. |
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