So from the more experienced people out there to us newbies tell us what kind of pictures attract the attention? We won’t share face pics immediately because of discretion and family etc so rather than just tell us that our pics aren’t the best tell us what pics should we put on? What do people want to see from both of us? We are still learning in all of this and have no clue!!!  |
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The thing about this swinging lark is that the only rule in my opinion is to respect others. After that do it your way. Show what you're comfortable with, do what you're comfortable with at your own pace. Just be open with the people you meet about what your expectations are and ask them to be open with you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Personally - I see the profiles as being like a bar or nightclub. Some head out for a drink a dance a blether and no more. Whereas some also look to score lucky
But either way when in a pub or nightclub you wouldn’t walk in naked from the street showing everything.
But then one persons naked is another’s micro mini skirt and low cut top
You d wear what you’re comfortable wearing.
Photos are the same - it’s what your comfortable sharing/showing
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By *oubledongWoman
over a year ago
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Face pictures don’t have to be naughty pictures. But also, a couple of things, first if anyone you know is looking on here, how do you think they are going to explain they found you here?
If you put pictures that are already publicly available on your profile you have plausible deniability, by saying someone must have used your social media pictures.
For me, I am primarily looking to see if you look attractive. I’d much rather see clothed pictures of you that show your general build and appearance than a cock pic. So if anything most guys do it the wrong way round, instead of putting your cock pictures on your profile and hiding the vanilla ones as private, do it the other way round, you will get far more genuine responses that way. |
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"So from the more experienced people out there to us newbies tell us what kind of pictures attract the attention? We won’t share face pics immediately because of discretion and family etc so rather than just tell us that our pics aren’t the best tell us what pics should we put on? What do people want to see from both of us? We are still learning in all of this and have no clue!!! "
Well thought out stuff, and things that show off your personality. |
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I think it depends on your dynamic. If both of you are going to be playing then there needs to be pics of you both. I like to see pics of couples together and separately and I want to be able to see people’s bodies, including genitals in a public gallery (that way I can look at my leisure, as refusal after pictures have been sent privately offend offends) |
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