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Been on here a while but family covid and general life have limited chances as time can be a challenge as we often use any free time for us but we would like to have it as us plus others . Anyway, we are keen to make friends we can socialise with and swing with if the mood takes us. Is this a thing? We get that some couples may frequently play with the same couples or people but we wondered it friendships with sex as an extra option is that common. Does it always lead to sex or can it be social and sexual? |
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By *awty_TwoCouple
over a year ago
Near Maidstone |
"Been on here a while but family covid and general life have limited chances as time can be a challenge as we often use any free time for us but we would like to have it as us plus others. Anyway, we are keen to make friends we can socialise with and swing with if the mood takes us. Is this a thing? We get that some couples may frequently play with the same couples or people but we wondered it friendships with sex as an extra option is that common. Does it always lead to sex or can it be social and sexual? "
Yes, it is a thing and something we are searching for too. My office is in Eastbourne and we both like spending time there, so please take a peek at our profile and send a private message if interested x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This is definitely something we would like. To build some friendships with people in the lifestyle, wether we play with them or not. We see a crowd not at socials but haven't got as far as doing vanilla things with them apart from go to a pub. We're here for the social side and not just the sex. |
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It is definitely possible.
We have had a relationship with another couple where we have been on holiday together, visited clubs as a 4sum, and generally enjoyed being exhibitionists.
Not easy to acheive, but when it happens it is fabulous.
Walking down the high street all four arm in arm generated some interesting looks! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We have always liked the thought of having a social friendship with other couples and if it did lead on to being sexual then that's a bonus  "
Kingston isn't that far from Sutton  |
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By *awty_TwoCouple
over a year ago
Near Maidstone |
"We have always liked the thought of having a social friendship with other couples and if it did lead on to being sexual then that's a bonus
Kingston isn't that far from Sutton "
And Sutton isn’t too far from Chilmington lol x |
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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago
Newcastle |
It's possible
Many do it, to be in the same mindset enjoying the social aspects then able to plan or just leading afterwards depending on the mood that everyone is in turning into an after party |
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We're miles away lol
We have a few fab friends that we do the social thing with
Comedy nights , shows , drinks , pub quiz
Sometimes we just have the one drink and think , lets all get it on
Sometimes its a meal and were home tucked in bed before you know it
And were good with which ever way it goes |
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It is definitely something we seek as a bi couple exploring both the swing and the naturist world. To find an interesting couple who share our interests and with whom to share experiences would be great.
We are very open with our non swing or non naturist friends about our life, but there is something extra if you have shared fun times too. |
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I think the social side of things appeals to many.
Organised socials only go so far, in that they are usually held in crowded bars with loud music, so you do not really get the opportunity to relax and get to know people.
I am keen to make new friends and do more ordinary activities like horse trials or race days or just have a barbecue. |
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This is something we are very much interested in. We enjoy the social side just as much so if any couples are interested get in touch
We’re not here for sex alone. We can accommodate in Ashbourne and are caravanners too. |
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"This is something we are very much interested in. We enjoy the social side just as much so if any couples are interested get in touch
We’re not here for sex alone. We can accommodate in Ashbourne and are caravanners too. "
We have a camper, paddle boards & love the social side of fab - this could be a great chance encounter  |
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Very much a thing !! and we've made more than afew good friends we like to hang out with and have a good chat and a laugh with and without anything sexual happening ! and seems some get totally "Obsessed" with the sex side of thing's and that brings with it the whole "Pressure" thing into play !! sometimes it's just really nice to chill out over afew drinks with some good music and see where the evening leads xx  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Been on here a while but family covid and general life have limited chances as time can be a challenge as we often use any free time for us but we would like to have it as us plus others. Anyway, we are keen to make friends we can socialise with and swing with if the mood takes us. Is this a thing? We get that some couples may frequently play with the same couples or people but we wondered it friendships with sex as an extra option is that common. Does it always lead to sex or can it be social and sexual? "
Not sure how common that is, but it's definitely something we'd love to find. Like minded couples up for building social networks and maybe more.
From time to time we've seen a few social gatherings arranged via this site, which look fun. Thinking we may need to get in on it, explore the group social side more. Maybe that would open up our chances of clicking with like minded folk for building friendships etc. Just a thought |
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By *MandMMCouple
over a year ago
Welwyn garden city |
The social side is very important to us. And have made some great friends. Its nice having people you can chat with about the experience you have. Without the possible judgment you might get from vanilla friends |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We've always seemed to do this...we don't go looking for it because it can feel a bit forced but have been lucky enough to make amazing long term friends through this hobby...some are our closest friends, some we no longer play with but are friends and some we do both...we've had holidays, nights and meals out or in and have proper crossed over into real life...
Just had a birthday weekend for my partner with friends and couples we've met via swinging |
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"The social side is very important to us. And have made some great friends. Its nice having people you can chat with about the experience you have. Without the possible judgment you might get from vanilla friends "
Exactly my thinking. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've never been comfortable around crowds in clubs but do enjoy getting to socialise with similarly inclined people. I've made lots of friends i like chatting and having a coffee with from fab and other sites that doesn't involve playing so it is possible |
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"Been on here a while but family covid and general life have limited chances as time can be a challenge as we often use any free time for us but we would like to have it as us plus others. Anyway, we are keen to make friends we can socialise with and swing with if the mood takes us. Is this a thing? We get that some couples may frequently play with the same couples or people but we wondered it friendships with sex as an extra option is that common. Does it always lead to sex or can it be social and sexual? "
We've had a few friendships like that  . Lasted a year or two.. |
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"Not sure how common that is, but it's definitely something we'd love to find. Like minded couples up for building social networks and maybe more.
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We’d love more of that too, after a year on Fab we really like the social aspect of going for a meal and a laugh, swapping stories of the lifestyle. We’re lucky to have made some great friends and there’s always room for more xx |
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As a single lady I like the social side very much I have been a member of kestrels for a couple of years and have some good friends in that time
Some regulars I play with and always happy to meet new people xx |
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"Been on here a while but family covid and general life have limited chances as time can be a challenge as we often use any free time for us but we would like to have it as us plus others. Anyway, we are keen to make friends we can socialise with and swing with if the mood takes us. Is this a thing? We get that some couples may frequently play with the same couples or people but we wondered it friendships with sex as an extra option is that common. Does it always lead to sex or can it be social and sexual? "
This is exactly what we are looking for  |
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"The social side is very important to us. And have made some great friends. Its nice having people you can chat with about the experience you have. Without the possible judgment you might get from vanilla friends "
Pretty much this. To us its not just the sex that brought us here. Its to make friends with people who love the swinging lifestyle as much as much as us. Swinging is more than just the sex. Well it use to be on here but everyone has their own reason for being on fab i guess. |
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same with us, having friends to socialize with in the same circle, is great, swinging is swinging, its all about fun. we have met some great people over the years, single guys, as well as couples, we have had a great time and some, we will never forget. Happy Swinging. |
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By *reasyMan
over a year ago
Caerphilly |
I can only tell you from my experience, I have some very good friends in Birmingham. I am in South Wales. We met over 16 years ago we met at chameleons in Darlaston. We have met quite a few times and over the years a really good friendship has developed and I will openly say that we go on holidays together we go away for weekends I go to their house they come to mine but they are friends above everything. And yes we do enjoy sexy times together but not every time we meet and I am over the moon with that I love being able to openly discuss and talk about anything with them , it’s just a brilliant friendship that has occasional added benefits |
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