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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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How on earth does everyone find partners that are interested in the same thing lol. Me and my ex was swinging but it was just by chance conversations we realised we like the same things. Unfortunately she moved away so now I’m sat thinking if I’ll ever find someone that shares this kind of lifestyle  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm definitely looking for a woman who would like a relationship and go to clubs ect, I'm not really interested in participating myself I'm more of a cuckold, would love to see her with other men |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Mr and I getting together was very random and unexpected in the sense that neither of us was looking for anything at the time. Then, as we got to know each other the subject of swinging/ethical non-monogamy came up. And then we realised we were both looking for the same thing but had not had the opportunity to explore with other partners before.
So just go about your life, enjoy meeting new people, and when you least expect it you'll meet your 'person'...Good luck!
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By *inx_xxWoman
over a year ago
Shrewsbury |
In my experience 99.9% of men like the idea of swinging but wouldn't be in a relationship with and I quote "those type of girls"
Single men who want a relationship within swinging are rarer than unicorn teeth
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"In my experience 99.9% of men like the idea of swinging but wouldn't be in a relationship with and I quote "those type of girls"
Single men who want a relationship within swinging are rarer than unicorn teeth
IMHO "
I'd much rather a swinging relationship then a vanilla relationship, I absolutely love going to the clubs and think I'd struggle giving that and all the friendships up that I've built within the lifestyle |
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By *inx_xxWoman
over a year ago
Shrewsbury |
"In my experience 99.9% of men like the idea of swinging but wouldn't be in a relationship with and I quote "those type of girls"
Single men who want a relationship within swinging are rarer than unicorn teeth
IMHO
I'd much rather a swinging relationship then a vanilla relationship, I absolutely love going to the clubs and think I'd struggle giving that and all the friendships up that I've built within the lifestyle "
I agree with you, and the honesty between swinging partners about wants/needs/limits is much healthier. Unfortunately that level of maturity and non stereotype is difficult for some people to cope with in a relationship, possibly me included I'm yet to find out lol |
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"In my experience 99.9% of men like the idea of swinging but wouldn't be in a relationship with and I quote "those type of girls"
Single men who want a relationship within swinging are rarer than unicorn teeth
IMHO "
Definitely true and the irony is they’re all the ones on here trying to sneakily have their cake and eat it too at the possible expense of the self confidence and faith in humanity of the person they supposedly love most. Couldn’t write it  |
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By *rder66Man
over a year ago
Tatooine |
"In my experience 99.9% of men like the idea of swinging but wouldn't be in a relationship with and I quote "those type of girls"
Single men who want a relationship within swinging are rarer than unicorn teeth
IMHO "
Way to brush us all with the same stroke. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"In my experience 99.9% of men like the idea of swinging but wouldn't be in a relationship with and I quote "those type of girls"
Single men who want a relationship within swinging are rarer than unicorn teeth
IMHO "
Some men here are very clear that they are happy to sleep with other mens' wives but wouldn't share their own. Some but I think the same goes for women - they want a mono relationship. I've certainly found that most guys I've talked to her or any other site aren't that keen on non-monogamy. In theory sometimes they are but the reality is different. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If it's just swinging you want in common then it's easy, Tinder and an honest profile, even if that means women you know reading you enjoy swinging as we all know people on that site.
The harder bit is finding somebody you also fancy the pants off, have jobs, lifestyles, personalitys and life skills that compliment each other. We got lucky, good luck OP. |
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By *re1986Man
over a year ago
Suffolk |
Yeah my ex was so cool with everything that it makes me question if il find someone like that here, but in general it seems very difficult to find a relationship these days! Tbh I'd sacrifice this lifestyle for someone. So yeah lol I dunno |
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By *andy57TV/TS
over a year ago
york |
In all honesty I sat down and did the old fashioned communication ie talking to each other
It the same as explaining that I like to dress also and wow for many years I had a super relationship even shopping together.
But we found it easier to start of at a club that way you are pretty much guaranteed to bothe receive attention
Over the year we made some great freinds also |
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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago
Newcastle |
"Maybe having other similar interests besides the swinging
Trying that but getting meets are impossible  "
Wow
But I understand there needs to be an attraction and most of the good looking guys are spoken for then obviously the distance between long distance relationship don't always work unless both seriously commited |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How on earth does everyone find partners that are interested in the same thing lol. Me and my ex was swinging but it was just by chance conversations we realised we like the same things. Unfortunately she moved away so now I’m sat thinking if I’ll ever find someone that shares this kind of lifestyle "
I did. I met her on here |
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I like the thought of being in a relationship with a woman who swings but I'm not much interested in swinging myself. Love to find someone who I can wine and dine and take to meet people and encourage her to live out her fantasies and desires. I didn't think I would ever say things like this because before I discovered swinging I had no interest whatsoever to share my woman, but I just think it's amazing! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Swinging isn't the reason to find a partner. Its something partners might try if they both want to down the line.
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Totally agree. Not interested in swinging with a fwb or fb. Would need a solid relationship where swinging was an added bonus not the primary focus. Don't want to feel someone is with me just to access swinging lifestyle. |
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By *lexV16Man
over a year ago
Welling |
"How on earth does everyone find partners that are interested in the same thing lol. Me and my ex was swinging but it was just by chance conversations we realised we like the same things. Unfortunately she moved away so now I’m sat thinking if I’ll ever find someone that shares this kind of lifestyle "
Let me join this club. Would love to find someone who understand this lifestyle and want things beyond.
From this site and clubs I met few couples in relationships I’d like to be so I know for fact it’s possible. I won’t compromise nowadays |
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