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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Get your self out to a social
Join a club
And the big one improve your profile by about a 1000%
You need way more text and pictures ...some of them need to be public
Take note of my profile as a very minimum you need to get anywhere on here
Oh and I almost forgot you need to be respectful and very very patient  |
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"Don't lie about your age to bypass people's filters  "
This for starters. Then have a look at your profile as your shop window. Is it showing you at the best light possible? If you came across one like yours, would you be interested or just move on to one that's more interesting? If it reflects well who you are, leave it like it is.
Then get yourself to an organised social- most are free to attend, but as a single man you'd have to be quick as, normally, single men spaces go very fast. Once you attend, you'd have a veri from the organisers at least. |
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Bad news.
You are a single guy. Prepare for rejection. You have a better chance for a quick shag on the swipe right site.
You are one of hundreds chasing the small number of single women in here.
Women can get hundreds of messages, and will filter out loads.
No matter how awesome you are in person, the lady will judge on your profile.
So sort your age out, have a couple of public pictures (doesn't have to be your face, or naked body, but should give an honest idea of your build)
Your profile should explain why she should pick you. What can you offer?
And don't try to please everybody. Some women love squaddies, some think that they are arrogant dickheads. Some women are size queens, others aren't. Etc.
But be honest about who you are, and if you get a meet, it will be so much better.
Don't message if you aren't what she is looking for.
And when the messages you send are deleted, or the reply is no thanks, don't get upset and throw your teddy in the corner. Nobody likes a whiner, especially if they send abusive emails when rejected. Move on.
And remember, this is social media, and people do talk to each other. Especially about whiners who get abusive. |
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"Hi I'm pretty New to this and looking to gain experience any advice would be helpful."
Click the green arrow next to our username. You'll find we've just bumped a forum thread for you (and others) to find.
You might find it useful 
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Profile pic for a start. Most couples and ladies will not message you if you have no profile pic and no pics on display.
Sell yourself tell people what you are looking for and what you have to offer. |
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"Get your self out to a social
Join a club
And the big one improve your profile by about a 1000%
You need way more text and pictures ...some of them need to be public
Take note of my profile as a very minimum you need to get anywhere on here
Oh and I almost forgot you need to be respectful and very very patient "
Hit the nail on the head there. Guys tend to forget that couples often block single guys from messaging, preferring to find suitable prospects themselves. I'm afraid op's profile and pics wouldn't get a second look. Can't help imagining the type of message the op would send if that's the effort taken in compiling his profile. |
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By *TG3Man
over a year ago
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"Hi I'm pretty New to this and looking to gain experience any advice would be helpful."
You're a guy amongst 1000s just be polite, don't talk about sex until that subject is brought up and don't have your appendage on show, write a profile with imagination and humour, always read the target profile and preferences and if you message incorporate humour, you may not get a reply but remember your profile is your advert here, good luck  |
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