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First time taking my partner to a swingers club any recommendations?
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hello all, me and my partner are looking to attend a club on Friday evening don’t mind traveling within 50/60 miles from West Yorkshire, any good suggestions would be great thank you
mainly want to go for fun and find a single M for him to join in with me and her |
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By *elnkazCouple
over a year ago
cheshire |
You will get bombarded with recommendations of folk giving their favourite place. Ours would be adam and eves reinvented in eccles. Some places have couple only nights so check their webpage using club pages on here. Which ever you choose
Enjoy.k |
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took my female friend to a couples night for the first time.. the single men might be bit too much for her first time...not sure if any do couples nights anywhere friday nights but I am sure there will be some somewhere |
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By *JohnMan
over a year ago
Newcastle upon Tyne |
Given that you're specifically looking for a single man, I'd say don't go on a couples night. It might be worth picking somewhere local enough that you can go there regularly - it's a different (and for me, better) experience once you get to know people.
The only one near you that I've been to is Quest (we went as a couple on a Friday night), and I would be happy going back. But you have plenty of alternatives nearby.
It's worth looking at the reviews of potential clubs to see what people like about them. I'd pay particular attention to reviews by single women, as they'll be experiencing the worst that any club has to offer |
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"Would definitely recommend a couples night, not a night where single guys are allowed, Can be a bit intimidating some guys tend to spoil the atmosphere "
They said they are looking for a single male x |
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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago
somerset |
make your own rules and stick to them ..
only do what you want to do if one says no then that both of you saying no ...
clubs are a very tiny part of the scene there are alot more swingers who dont do clubs than there are who do so dont be surprised if its not for you
dont allow anyone to tell you ''the rules of swinging'' because there are none other than consent and no thanks ... if someone touches you without your consent thats a massive no no consent is given for everything even in a swingers club..
enjoy yourself you dont have to play or feel you have to play be chatty and friendly but at the same time dont be afraid to stand your ground and remember almost every club has its own little up there own arse's section these are normally the ones that latch on to newbies moaning about guys all night and what the rules are of swinging (remember there are no golden rules of how to swing)
visted loads of clubs in the Uk/Europe most of them are great and have great staff and can be really good fun if its men your after avoid couples night and again dont be gutted if clubs are not for you |
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