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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I find a lot of men expect a blow job and that's a blow job without a condom. You can still catch alot of diseases by giving a blow job and I don't think it's fair that this is expected when you don't know someone |
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I don’t do it. Just commented on a previous thread about it.
I don’t think most men expect anything, no one’s ever had an issue with me using condoms for oral.
Usually just the woman being assertive enough to say.
No complaints  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I find a lot of men expect a blow job and that's a blow job without a condom. You can still catch alot of diseases by giving a blow job and I don't think it's fair that this is expected when you don't know someone"
I genuinely think people don't believe they can catch STIs from oral 
I choose to do oral without but would happily do it with. Each to their own but it does baffle me (even my own play!) Why it is the norm |
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These discussions about preferences are typical and expected before meets, so that we filter appropriately.
Most people are not compatible with most other people and this includes our preferences.
Thankfully, most swingers are very active with their sexual health regimes.
I don't really like giving oral with a condom, so I take a calculated small risk. |
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"I find a lot of men expect a blow job and that's a blow job without a condom. You can still catch a lot of diseases by giving a blow job and I don't think it's fair that this is expected when you don't know someone"
I never expect a blowjob on a playdate, mostly because I rarely cum from a bj, and there's even less chance of that happening if the lady doesn't genuinely want to do it in the first place...
I'm happy to be shown wearing a condom for a bj doesn't alter the act though...
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By (user no longer on site)
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As I posted on another thread:
After recently catching (just) gonorrhoea of the throat, I will no longer do unsafe oral.
Totally changed my outlook on oral sex. |
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I make it clear that I won’t kiss them or do OWO in the list of rules and preferences before time. If they don’t like it, they don’t have to meet.
Like others have said, your body, your rules. You don’t have to please anyone but yourself.
Communicate clearly and succinctly ahead of time and everyone will be happy and know what is happening. |
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"I find a lot of men expect a blow job and that's a blow job without a condom. You can still catch alot of diseases by giving a blow job and I don't think it's fair that this is expected when you don't know someone"
To be honest meets are rare so most men dont expect anything at all, maybe just a chat and a coffee is a plus. There are a minority of guys that think they are an adonis. Most dont |
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I never expect one, with or without. Would never ask either. It wouldn’t be right. Would spoil the mood.
If the chemistry is there between 2 people you pick up on what the other person wants anyway. But I would never ask or expect it. |
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move onto next person OP , we all like different things with sex ... cant please all ..
I turn down blowjobs giving or receiving if condoms are required , as simply I would rather not waste my time with that .. I can happily just go right into fucking instead and not worry with oral . |
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"I don’t do it. Just commented on a previous thread about it.
I don’t think most men expect anything, no one’s ever had an issue with me using condoms for oral.
Usually just the woman being assertive enough to say.
No complaints "
I agree with this. 
As a guy, I only expect this because most females who have obliged, don't like the feel of them in their mouth. If a female wanted me to wear one, I would. Also, I'd try to make a fun joke about it, so she doesn't feel awkward for asking. |
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