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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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How has everyone got over the hurdle of getting their first verification and meet? I know it’s probably been asked 1000 times but need to start somewhere |
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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago
Newcastle |
Interacting with people and finding someone where you both find attraction are compatible able to strike up a connection build up chemistry keep the effort be creative let your imagination go wild |
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Try not focusing on a sex verification. A social one is just as valuable if that's what what you want.
Don't go right in hoping to meet for sex. Play it casual and meet for a no expectations coffee.
Or attend some pre arranged social events. Loads are happening in glasgow in the next few months |
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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago
Newcastle |
"Yeah that’s fair, just getting that initial interaction to make that possibly really "
Then be creative use your Imagination even humour at the right time don't make it sound lame treat people same way as you would find them beyond online |
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"How has everyone got over the hurdle of getting their first verification and meet? I know it’s probably been asked 1000 times but need to start somewhere "
Going to a club, socialising, and asking someone there seems like a good shout.
Also, as long as you're meeting in public, I think that many folk (including me) are happy to meet folk without verifications.  |
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By *omRachCouple
over a year ago
Wirral |
We got our 1st verification from the 1st guy we met from here who has now (sadly) left the site. It was a great meet and it seems the most polite and courteous thing to do.
Since then we have met 2 guys on more than one occasion, however Rach has asked for veri's not to be left until such a time as she is ready for them. I know we all want to be seen as genuine but just because there are no veri's it doesn't mean that somebody isn't 'active'.
Don't get too hung up on it is my advice (for what it's worth).
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Just to let you know, verification doesn’t automatically guarantee meets, in case you didn’t know that.
I will happily meet people without verifications for social in a public place because I trust my gut feeling but sometimes I let my guard down to meet people with lots of verifications and it’s disappointing, hope it makes sense.
As other said, clubs or organised socials are your way to go. Good luck OP. |
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"How has everyone got over the hurdle of getting their first verification and meet? I know it’s probably been asked 1000 times but need to start somewhere "
Go into group chat and get webcam verification |
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"Just to let you know, verification doesn’t automatically guarantee meets, in case you didn’t know that.
I will happily meet people without verifications for social in a public place because I trust my gut feeling but sometimes I let my guard down to meet people with lots of verifications and it’s disappointing, hope it makes sense.
As other said, clubs or organised socials are your way to go. Good luck OP."
Definitely not...I turned down men who got over 100 verifications. It just depends how well you get on |
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We state on our profile, only message us if we have a meet or statuts up. We've had 4 offers this morning already, for invites to play. Why? It's a compleate waste of time. We're not free to play.
When we do put a meet up, we say date, time and duration of play. We then get bombared with offers for the meet, along with the ones. That they can't do that day. But can do the day after, or 3 hours after the planned meet.
Or we're put up a club meet. They offer, to meet us doggin, or come to ours.  .
Ffs, if you see a meet on advertised. Just take what's in offer. Don't try to change it. If you can't do the planned dates, times or rules. Wait for the next one. |
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"I simply met someone for a social and asked if she'd verify me when we parted sadly the meet didn't go further but we still have eachother a verification "
You have only one cam verification though? |
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I've helped quite a few local guys out with social verifications.
If they aproach me decently asking for help advice etc I'll always make time to meet them somewhere for a beer and a chat. Then I can give them an honest veri and off they go to have a fab time....
Failing that look for local social events or clubs to attend.
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Just get cam verified that’s how we got our first one wasn’t even that bothered about having one but to many people thought we was a single guy hiding behind a couples profile as said above though a veto doesn’t guarantee you a meet all it does is prove your real |
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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago
Newcastle |
"Yeah completely get a verification doesn’t guarantee a meet, would never expect that to be a green light anyway"
If you are a non judgemental person like myself arrange a social with anyone just for a social drink |
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