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By *ammoguy OP Man
over a year ago
Coventry |
I have been to a few socials and events.
I’m still relatively inexperienced in the scene although sat on side watching many years
As a single guy not yet invested in joining a club as I often work weekends so may not get to use the facilities as much as I hoped.
At some events I have felt confident and chatted. Others my anxiety kicks in. (Especially around that people I’m attracted to either physically socially or mentally)
Any tips / etiquette advice please?
I am not expecting play ever. But some more conversation and friends would be nice.
I live alone and work from home. My social skills are suffering. I used to have not issues
If only I had started a conversation…or even just said hello… |
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It can be difficult can't it.
Would it be useful to plan a couple of opening lines.
"Hi, I'm Cammo. This is a nice pub/club/coffee shop. Have you come far?"
Often people respond well to a
"Hi, I'm new to all this, have you been before?"
A lot of people struggle to initiate a conversation, some might welcome an approach  |
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"Good tips. Thanks "
Before we met a girlfriend of our son's who was quite a bit younger than him I googled sine stuff so that I could find some common ground between us. She was 45 years younger than me so I really had no idea.  . Turns out I needn't have worried once the ice was broken we chatted non stop. |
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