Do you feel able to ask outright how the person would like to move forward?
There's a big difference to my mind in asking how someone would like a meet to go and the ' I'd like to stick my X in your y and then lick your a, b and c'  |
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We don't naturally gel with everyone. Nor are we sexually mutually compatible with most other people. Some of this will influence how our chats go.
If you're honest and not pushy, whilst respectful, you'll be preferred by most people. You can only take responsibility for your own part of the interaction - the others are in charge of their part. It's tougher just by text, than when in the flesh, able to pick up on the non-verbal signals.
It's a dance, you can lead and respond to cues - ss they can too. Generally wait for them to direct things towards sexual elements, so that you're not potentially stoking discomfort.
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"Do you feel able to ask outright how the person would like to move forward?
There's a big difference to my mind in asking how someone would like a meet to go and the ' I'd like to stick my X in your y and then lick your a, b and c' "
Oh my lady your alphabetiee
Spaghetti talking has got me hot
and bothered
I'd rather stick my c in thee I havent got an x but certainly if i were getting to licking can I start with your ears and neck in hope that I'll progress. |
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Add to your profile so that there are things to talk about (and yes I know mine needs an overhaul). This will make it easier for someone to chat with you. It can be quite difficult to start let alone maintain a convo on almost no information. |
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Conversation via text will always be tricky. If you are seeking a particular outcome, then it's been described to me as a game of chess. I can't play chess, so if someone does respond to a rare message that I send, then I just let it flow from there.
Comment on what they say or ask, try and pick up cues as to what to say next. It can be a long and slow process, but that's just par for the course in getting to know someone.  |
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