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Abusive message
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Just want to vent really, member is blocked
But I don’t get it….. I just got a first message off a member and he sent me an abusive message about my appearance
This can be such a fun place to meet people and talk to them and it’s a great community
This has just put me in a bad mood for the weekend when I have such great plans
What happens after we block and report? Would be nice to know ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Horrible, so sorry you got that message I've had some stinkers just fot to report, vent , then know you are a better person  |
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By *riel13Woman
over a year ago
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He probably thinks he is more attractive than you and it's pissing him off that he still isn't getting any... Bless him... Remember, we only get shitty about other people's appearance because we are insecure about our own |
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"Horrible, so sorry you got that message I've had some stinkers just fot to report, vent , then know you are a better person "
Thanks for your support …. I just feel shitty a bit xx |
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"He probably thinks he is more attractive than you and it's pissing him off that he still isn't getting any... Bless him... Remember, we only get shitty about other people's appearance because we are insecure about our own "
Yes I was thinking that he wasn’t getting replies from who he wants and doesn’t like me because he’s jealous of my joy and fun on this site
It’s actually a great community the swinging scene xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No matter how confident a person is, receiving an unpleasant message is always a bit of a shock and even though you know it’s from a stranger who you will never meet it still stings.
Head held high lovely, think of all the fabulous people you actually know and whose opinions matter to you.
Life on Fab can take you from one extreme to another. Imagine being “them” every day now imagine being you  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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after the block and report, the lovely mods then go to town.
last time we had a nasty message, we got a friend to check his username out of interest. name not found, so obviously banned from the site.
the mods are quite proactive, and either a temporary cooling off period, or a permanent ban seems quite likely.
dont let it get to you. its just a dickhead. plenty of them about, and they dont get laid.
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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago
Calderdale innit |
It says way more about them than you op
It's easy to be unkind to people when you're behind a pc or screen,sounds bitter and probably been rejected.
Don't let a tit like him spoil your mood or your plans though x |
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People are gross, I'm sorry.
I believe admin investigate, but you don't find out the outcome. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ah Sam - sorry to hear about this! Keep your head up and keep having fun! Maybe catch you at K’s some time! |
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My next post will show what happens after you report a message or profile |
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Here is an explanation from Admin from another thread on how they deal with reports.
******Just a quick note. If people report others and we can verify that they have broken site rules, we always take action (either a first and final warning, partially suspended account, fully suspended, mixture of the above).
Every single report sent via the REPORT link is reviewed. Clearly it's not in our interests to have people on here who are bad for the site. Equally we need to verify what has been reported and be fair to those who have been reported.
Admin
PS. we never provide feedback on what has happened. It's just not practical given that we get 100s of reports a day.
Here is what the page says after a report has been submitted:
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Your feedback has been saved.
A website admin will shortly review your feedback and take the necessary action. After reviewing the evidence available to us, we may disable an account, remove a user, disable certain aspects of that user's account or issue a warning.
By leaving feedback you help improve the site for everyone who uses it. Thank you.****** |
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Tell him he should have gone to Specsavers because if he can't see you're hot then his eyes need checking  |
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