"Where do you start ?? i feel like i might be too young for the clubs and socials "
Some might think you are but I reckon if you're respectful and don't have unrealistic expectations you'd be ok.
The fact is that it's difficult for men on fab and even more difficult outside the 30 to 45 age bracket.
Realistically you probably need to network on the forum and in the chat rooms, to to a club if you can and h st be patient  |
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"Alright, ill keep an eye out for them thank you, so if you dont mind me asking what got you into swinging"
I don't mind. We'd talked about a lot between ourselves and decided to give it a go. Life is very short why not have adventures  .
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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago
Newcastle |
"Oh lovely, im just hoping to meet some amazing people on here that can help me explore swinging and have fun along the way and also to explore some kinks maybe as well"
Hi op
Remember the age bracket starts at 18 so you still have a great choice and many have different types of preferences whom they are interested in which can also be a bonus for you as mentioned above get involved with the forums explore the FAQ and explore the site and use the tools available giving you every opportunity |
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By *rab74Man
over a year ago
Huntingdon |
You're hardly too young at 23. Younger than most, sure, but not too young.
I see you're in Cambridge. You've got both Jaydees and the Vanilla Alternative about half an hour away towards Bedford, and the Annex about 45 minutes away past Ely. I prefer Jaydees because for me there's a bit more of a party vibe, but they're all good.
You can certainly chat in the forums, but it isn't going to make you friends. Only meeting people does that. Get out to clubs, get a feel for the scene, and go from there.
Just do expect that as a single guy you probably won't get to play. If you see it as a sex-positive night out, it's all good. The more you talk to people though, the more likely you are to get to play, so just be sociable and go with whatever happens. |
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"It's virtually impossible for a single male on here.
I have much more luck on nights out."
I and other women have made more effort on their profile than you have.
Also a lot of us women online in our homes are a lot more sober than some of the women on a night out. Lol!
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By (user no longer on site)
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I'd say come back in 20 years.
That might sound harsh, and, to be honest, I'm only semi serious, but the reason I say it is that most people on fab have children around your age - or older and for many, that is a no go area.
Yes, there are some younger people on here, but you're probably far better off and more likely to get what you're looking for by just going out to places.
I grant you that's probably not what you want to hear, but I'm saying it so that you can realistically manage your expectations |
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"Where do you start ?? i feel like i might be too young for the clubs and socials "
Some of the best fun we've had in clubs have been with guys 19-30. There's plenty of 20-30 year olds in our local club. |
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