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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hey guys recently started on the end of a cuck relationship with a fwb I know where she teases me and tells me the details of what she’s up to and I find it really hot
But honestly it makes me feel bad sometimes about myself, what’s a good way to deal with the mixed emotions |
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I think that if you are going to have a cuckold relationship.. Then it has to be part of a 'proper' loving [full time] relationship. It's all well and good having the humiliation, excitement of imagining what is going on etc.. But you absolutely have to be loved, supported, and nutured by your hotwife/girlf/partner afterwards and at all times during the relationship. Otherwise it's really not fair. I don't see how that is possible with a FWB personally.. |
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"I think that if you are going to have a cuckold relationship.. Then it has to be part of a 'proper' loving [full time] relationship. It's all well and good having the humiliation, excitement of imagining what is going on etc.. But you absolutely have to be loved, supported, and nutured by your hotwife/girlf/partner afterwards and at all times during the relationship. Otherwise it's really not fair. I don't see how that is possible with a FWB personally.. "
This reply is perfect.
With a FWB. Isn't it just them winding you up about their other men and meets.
Hence possibly your mixed feelings. |
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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago
somerset |
"I think that if you are going to have a cuckold relationship.. Then it has to be part of a 'proper' loving [full time] relationship. It's all well and good having the humiliation, excitement of imagining what is going on etc.. But you absolutely have to be loved, supported, and nutured by your hotwife/girlf/partner afterwards and at all times during the relationship. Otherwise it's really not fair. I don't see how that is possible with a FWB personally.. "
100% this ... cuckold is for people in loving relationships ... most of its in the mind not the sex as such |
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"100% this ... cuckold is for people in loving relationships ... most of its in the mind not the sex as such"
And exactly the reason so many so call bulls get it wrong when messaging us. Having a big cock is advantageous but the ability to get into our heads is rarer that rocking horse shit. |
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By *iganpairCouple
over a year ago
Wigan, Lancs. |
So true
"100% this ... cuckold is for people in loving relationships ... most of its in the mind not the sex as such
And exactly the reason so many so call bulls get it wrong when messaging us. Having a big cock is advantageous but the ability to get into our heads is rarer that rocking horse shit. "
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"100% this ... cuckold is for people in loving relationships ... most of its in the mind not the sex as such
And exactly the reason so many so call bulls get it wrong when messaging us. Having a big cock is advantageous but the ability to get into our heads is rarer that rocking horse shit. "
A lot of them forget that there are three people in the relationship. As the 'third' (I hate the term bull) they need to realise that they are responsible for making sure the cuck gets something out of it as well. |
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"The cuckold dynamic only really works in "Real" couples, it's the love between the couple that intensifies the cuckold experience."
your so right there , its the being there for all the other stuff going on in life and enjoying the time you have with the extra guy and what he brings ,, but once he has gone you are both still buzzing |
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"100% this ... cuckold is for people in loving relationships ... most of its in the mind not the sex as such
And exactly the reason so many so call bulls get it wrong when messaging us. Having a big cock is advantageous but the ability to get into our heads is rarer that rocking horse shit. "
not always about the cock size,, the mind is the best tool in the guys box, shame so many dont use it,, after all the cuck side is also mind and how its used my all 3 , cuckold play is always about enjoyment and openness with all, |
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Having had the pleasure of being a 'bull' for several cuckold and hotwife couples over the years, I fully agree with the other posts. The bull has to gain the trust of both the husband & wife and understand when to act in a sexual manner and when to just relax and enjoy the social side.
It's not just about the sex acts as most guys think. A good bull will be able to stimulate the couple's imaginations and bring a new dimension to their sex life through conversation and enabling fantasies.
If there's no mutal respect between all 3 of you then it's going to end badly for you op. Take measures to protect yourself before you get hurt |
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