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Been swinging for quite a while now and experienced in hotwife dynamic.
My husband hugely enjoys watching me with other men and recently has encouraged me to meet single men without him being present.
He wants me to come back to him having fucked another guy and tell him all about it. Preferably someone younger than him, with a huge cock.
Anyone else been a similar situation and how did things progress |
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It's a sexy thought. I like the idea of S getting attention at a bar or club, firstly because it'll be massive for her confidence - but also because it could turn into a sexy threesome.
Not quite cuckolding, more just inviting someone in spontaneously - maybe that's stag/vixen?? |
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"It's a sexy thought. I like the idea of S getting attention at a bar or club, firstly because it'll be massive for her confidence - but also because it could turn into a sexy threesome.
Not quite cuckolding, more just inviting someone in spontaneously - maybe that's stag/vixen??"
I absolutely love this scenario. Flirting, laughing, touching, and all three of us becoming more and more turned on! |
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I really love watching my wife with another guy and I do fantasise about her taking him alone but I doubt that would ever be anything more that. Happy to talk about it but ultimately swinging is a joint venture, a shared experience and I think it wouldnt be that same for us separately. |
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"It's a sexy thought. I like the idea of S getting attention at a bar or club, firstly because it'll be massive for her confidence - but also because it could turn into a sexy threesome.
Not quite cuckolding, more just inviting someone in spontaneously - maybe that's stag/vixen??"
This is pretty much how all of our fun has happened.
We prefer it that way although it doesn't happen as often as we would like. |
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Hi 
Finally the wait is over we can comment on the forum... yay!
Back after a break from Fab, NOT the lifestyle though.
We live a Hotwife/Cuckold lifestyle. Its such an amazing dynamic
Nervously going to press the 'Post Nessage' button.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hi
Finally the wait is over we can comment on the forum... yay!
Back after a break from Fab, NOT the lifestyle though.
We live a Hotwife/Cuckold lifestyle. Its such an amazing dynamic
Nervously going to press the 'Post Nessage' button...."
Hottest hotwife wow |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hi
Finally the wait is over we can comment on the forum... yay!
Back after a break from Fab, NOT the lifestyle though.
We live a Hotwife/Cuckold lifestyle. Its such an amazing dynamic
Nervously going to press the 'Post Nessage' button....
Hottest hotwife wow"
Thank you   x |
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We've really enjoyed the dynamic at clubs so far. Missing the flirting still, but S has been enjoying all the attention - maybe we need to stick to the social areas a little longer and see who starts chatting. |
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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago
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"We've really enjoyed the dynamic at clubs so far. Missing the flirting still, but S has been enjoying all the attention - maybe we need to stick to the social areas a little longer and see who starts chatting."
A good idea I think. The flirting bit can be a major turn on for all involved.
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We do this with a guy wife knows , and have been for ten years , very erotic , I would like her to do it more , she has done over nighters with him , I do join them occasionally , she is allowed to go off and play with guys at club especially if she has met them before with me ,it allows me to meet the odd single ladies or other wife’s who’s husbands enjoy the senario too , I’ve told her if she ever gets chatted up away from the swinging scene to feel free , just give me details after |
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"Been swinging for quite a while now and experienced in hotwife dynamic.
My husband hugely enjoys watching me with other men and recently has encouraged me to meet single men without him being present.
He wants me to come back to him having fucked another guy and tell him all about it. Preferably someone younger than him, with a huge cock.
Anyone else been a similar situation and how did things progress"
This was something I did with my first wife. It went really well.
The experience for us both was mind blowing and something we did numerous times.
My current partner with who we are well verified, is less willing for solo meets but that is all down to her preferring me being there however we are getting to the stage where that is less of an issue and things may be changing soon. |
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Mrs meets guys alone (from her single profile), I have no interest in watching. Happens in a variety of situations. Sometimes she's alone at the club, sometimes I stay in the bar, other times it's at home when I'm kit with my friends etc.
Works well for us. But it's been a journey to discover what actually worked and what we both wanted.
As long as you're both on board with the journey, I'd suggest don't be afraid to try situations or scenarios which may not work, because maybe one will be great. Obviously open clear communication is key, but even that is unique to each couple.
Enjoy! |
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"Mrs meets guys alone (from her single profile), I have no interest in watching. Happens in a variety of situations. Sometimes she's alone at the club, sometimes I stay in the bar, other times it's at home when I'm kit with my friends etc.
Works well for us. But it's been a journey to discover what actually worked and what we both wanted.
As long as you're both on board with the journey, I'd suggest don't be afraid to try situations or scenarios which may not work, because maybe one will be great. Obviously open clear communication is key, but even that is unique to each couple.
Enjoy! "
Exactly |
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We both love to have either a hot wife scenario or a free for all swap and share, we have only done a separate room once with a couple each an we much prefer to watch share and join in… more the merrier lol |
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By *elboy1957Man
over a year ago
Weston-super-Mare |
"Hands down the greatest sexual experience I’ve ever had! Love reclaiming her when she comes back!watching hubby having reclaim sex is hot
I’m a different animal when she comes back to me!"
that's all part of the dynamics love it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As long as cuck understands that he is there to clean up after she has been fucked and to always obey his Dom then there is no problem and cuckold couples are the best to play with . |
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"As long as cuck understands that he is there to clean up after she has been fucked and to always obey his Dom then there is no problem and cuckold couples are the best to play with ."
What billshit. |
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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago
somerset |
"As long as cuck understands that he is there to clean up after she has been fucked and to always obey his Dom then there is no problem and cuckold couples are the best to play with ."
most cucks do as his partners says not what the 3 man demands the bull being dom is a add on to cuckolding not cuckolding its self the same goes for the sexual act of cleaning up again is just a normal sexual act that some add into cuckolding but is not cuckolding ..
the boss is the wife / girlfriend even if she is submissive to the dom the cuck will do as she wants not the bull unless its the wife /girlfriend choice there will always only be one leader in a cuckold relationship yep its the wife |
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"As long as cuck understands that he is there to clean up after she has been fucked and to always obey his Dom then there is no problem and cuckold couples are the best to play with ."
Wow so much assuming going on in this statement.
I'm my experience assumption inevitably leads to failure. |
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"As long as cuck understands that he is there to clean up after she has been fucked and to always obey his Dom then there is no problem and cuckold couples are the best to play with ."
I feel you've very little experience in this.
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"As long as cuck understands that he is there to clean up after she has been fucked and to always obey his Dom then there is no problem and cuckold couples are the best to play with ."
Bloke clearly has zero experience. In our dynamic, the “bulls” that Mrs meets are no more than human sex toys. Used purely for our sexual pleasure |
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"As long as cuck understands that he is there to clean up after she has been fucked and to always obey his Dom then there is no problem and cuckold couples are the best to play with .
Bloke clearly has zero experience. In our dynamic, the “bulls” that Mrs meets are no more than human sex toys. Used purely for our sexual pleasure "
At the end of the day that is pretty much the role of every single who joins a couple. Maybe not as blatant for many but I happily accept that I am there as much for their benefit as mine. |
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There are some very good podcasts on Spotify that go over so much of a cuck and bull set up. It really goes over so much,and will educate many who aren't experienced or have a very different view to what a bull is within the set up. |
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"As long as cuck understands that he is there to clean up after she has been fucked and to always obey his Dom then there is no problem and cuckold couples are the best to play with .
Bloke clearly has zero experience. In our dynamic, the “bulls” that Mrs meets are no more than human sex toys. Used purely for our sexual pleasure "
Stag/vixen is somewhat different to cuckold though! The male half of the couple has wildly differing expectations/involvement |
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Isn't a Cuck or a Cuckolded, by definition 'The Faithful husband of an adulterous wife'.
Doesn't it just become your kink/dynamic the moment the Husband(Cuck) becomes made aware and is complaisant in the facts of the situation, be it labeled or not.
Any kinks added on top of this now open honest adulterous situation is just the preferences of those involved in your individual dynamic.
When I say 'moment the Husband(Cuck) becomes made aware', I mean being made aware at any point from before you both decide to engage in this dynamic, right up to the husband finding out in due course.
These are just our views on this dynamic, that we feel we fall under.
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We have been a cuckold couple for a good number of years and from our experience you will try a number of scenarios and the hotwife will find the ones that suit her and her cuck the most to get them the most pleasure.
As a cuck my pleasure is derived from knowing my hotwife is being sexually satisfied and that might be from watching her be pleasured or her coming home with a pussy full of cum after a night out.
Each to you own and you’ll find the levels that give you the most satisfaction. |
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"We have been a cuckold couple for a good number of years and from our experience you will try a number of scenarios and the hotwife will find the ones that suit her and her cuck the most to get them the most pleasure.
As a cuck my pleasure is derived from knowing my hotwife is being sexually satisfied and that might be from watching her be pleasured or her coming home with a pussy full of cum after a night out.
Each to you own and you’ll find the levels that give you the most satisfaction."
This is the key factor for me. Cuckold is about the wife being sexually satisfied, (with in reasonable limits) regardless of the husbands enjoyment.
If a woman is "cucking" a guy for his sexual satisfaction, then that (in my opinion) isn't cuckolding, and is more hotwife or something else.
The key aspect (in my eyes) is that cuckolding is on the wife's terms. |
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I've had the pleasure of doing this with several couples over the years and have entertained wife's / gfs overnight at mine and at hotels.
I find the husbands are very eager for this to happen and find it a huge turn on knowing that their wife / gf is away spending the night with another man and getting up to all sorts.
Sometimes we'll send him pics & videos of the action, sometimes an erotic phone call mid play. The main thing is that everybody enjoys themselves and is happy with what's happening, as repeat meetings get better and better |
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"We have been a cuckold couple for a good number of years and from our experience you will try a number of scenarios and the hotwife will find the ones that suit her and her cuck the most to get them the most pleasure.
As a cuck my pleasure is derived from knowing my hotwife is being sexually satisfied and that might be from watching her be pleasured or her coming home with a pussy full of cum after a night out.
Each to you own and you’ll find the levels that give you the most satisfaction.
This is the key factor for me. Cuckold is about the wife being sexually satisfied, (with in reasonable limits) regardless of the husbands enjoyment.
If a woman is "cucking" a guy for his sexual satisfaction, then that (in my opinion) isn't cuckolding, and is more hotwife or something else.
The key aspect (in my eyes) is that cuckolding is on the wife's terms. "
Our take on it too but it has many facets to it and each to their own  |
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Activity encouraged to do this ever since meeting my husband, second marriage, for both of us. We met on dating app, from early on he didn’t want me to close my profile when we got serious, but wanted me to keep dating other men! I did what he asked!
8 years later, we are married, I love getting chatted up in bars etc still go on apps every now and then too! |
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By *omRachCouple
over a year ago
Wirral |
"Been swinging for quite a while now and experienced in hotwife dynamic.
My husband hugely enjoys watching me with other men and recently has encouraged me to meet single men without him being present.
He wants me to come back to him having fucked another guy and tell him all about it. Preferably someone younger than him, with a huge cock.
Anyone else been a similar situation and how did things progress"
Sounds very similar to something we have done. I encouraged Rach to go and meet a guy I had watched her with on several occasions. I would take her over to him and he would drop her close to home when they had finished.
She would then come up to bed and talk me through it as I reclaimed her with my mouth & cock. |
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