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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Sorry I know this thread or variations of this thread get posted a lot, however just wondering if there are any alterations I need to make.
Get a few views on profile but no takers or receive messages. I know this is not a given and shouldn't be expected but just trying to maximise opportunities.
I know a reason for this is because the ratio of men to women is insane.
However, any advice would be greatly appreciated. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Maybe give a little more personality to your profile, humour and what you like (other than swinging).
Yogurt have a great body bit all 4 photos are same - use your imagination. "
Thanks.
Yeah the photos I did think about, that's why I tried to limit them to 4 but take your point on board. |
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By *it4u2Man
over a year ago
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Try some humour, when you rewrite it , think your chatting to a girl in a bar.
Your profile is boring , just saying,if they think your boring when they take a peep on the quiet then you Mail will not get read. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Would you really meet an over 75?
More variety in ya pics, not speaking for all ladies but we don't mind a good b&w shirt and loose tie  "
Point taken   |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Try some humour, when you rewrite it , think your chatting to a girl in a bar.
Your profile is boring , just saying,if they think your boring when they take a peep on the quiet then you Mail will not get read."
That's ironic as I am trying to portray the exact opposite to that. Thanks for advice. |
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Your profile is just a little 'samey' n lacks a bit of the personal touch.
Try adding some humour, without any cheese!
Try some more 'natural' pics. take pics from your other socials and either blank out your face or crop your face out....
Says the woman with 1 picture, that was deliberately posed for, for my profile
Also verifications go a long way, if someone tries to initiate contact n they have no veri's, I won't even entertain looking.
Not because I'm mean, just because, like you stated the man to woman ratio is mental, and I did get so many messages a day from weirdos..... Till I stopped men looking at my profile.
Now if I want a man to play with, I just go looking, it's better for my sanity, than allowing them free rien of my inbox.
First things I look for after location,
Is pics,
Then veri's,
Then profile info. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Your profile is just a little 'samey' n lacks a bit of the personal touch.
Try adding some humour, without any cheese!
Try some more 'natural' pics. take pics from your other socials and either blank out your face or crop your face out....
Says the woman with 1 picture, that was deliberately posed for, for my profile
Also verifications go a long way, if someone tries to initiate contact n they have no veri's, I won't even entertain looking.
Not because I'm mean, just because, like you stated the man to woman ratio is mental, and I did get so many messages a day from weirdos..... Till I stopped men looking at my profile.
Now if I want a man to play with, I just go looking, it's better for my sanity, than allowing them free rien of my inbox.
First things I look for after location,
Is pics,
Then veri's,
Then profile info."
Thank you for your really constructive feedback and insight. |
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Ya know what as profiles go there’s much worse i think you would get a reply from
Us so maybe it’s what your putting im your opening message which is making people not reply etc. I’d maybe echo the picture front above but it is harder for men to get appealing pictures as women have the sexy underwear option l, look at some male profiles and try get some inventive ideas maybe |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Ya know what as profiles go there’s much worse i think you would get a reply from
Us so maybe it’s what your putting im your opening message which is making people not reply etc. I’d maybe echo the picture front above but it is harder for men to get appealing pictures as women have the sexy underwear option l, look at some male profiles and try get some inventive ideas maybe "
Thank you |
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By *rlandoMan
over a year ago
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Nothing wrong with your profile ,
First thing all men think
A. Not trying hard enough
B. Need to change my profile
Most people here are not swingers and not all that fab ... on top of the fakes here , it s less than you think anf the chances of anyone answering you are less than slim..
you ll have better luck going on a dating app ... or go to a club and meet people face to face the old school way ....
last thing, ignore all the advice people will give you about your profile ...
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Get rid of that awful goldfish in the tank joke and don't replace it with the other one about the fish banging its head on the wall!
I don't think that's quite what women mean by "I like a man who makes me laugh".
The profile was fine until then.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Nothing wrong with your profile ,
First thing all men think
A. Not trying hard enough
B. Need to change my profile
Most people here are not swingers and not all that fab ... on top of the fakes here , it s less than you think anf the chances of anyone answering you are less than slim..
you ll have better luck going on a dating app ... or go to a club and meet people face to face the old school way ....
last thing, ignore all the advice people will give you about your profile ...
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Thanks. A club visit is on the agenda. |
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Not sure what your profile looked like before but it looks good and it would initiate a reply from us.
Some clothed pics would be good for variety.
Jokes crap but it did raise a smile and you’ve got to stand out |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"You say in your profile that you can write fully correct grammatical sentences.
"Do you know how to drive this thing" needs a question mark !"
You are absolutely correct, great spot. It has been changed. Thank you |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Personally profile looks good, it's not full of the usual close up cock pics and the bio is well written.
Mrs "
Thank you. It has been changed since I posted on this thread. Used the constructive criticism in a positive way. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’ve been on Fav a while now. And have had moderate success.
Just not as much as some?
I’m just wondering if there’s any tips or advice on my profile anything… I don’t do bad in the real world and usually catch attention. ( realise that sounds awful)
But not as much luck on here. Any advice will be much appreciated.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’ve been on Fav a while now. And have had moderate success.
Just not as much as some?
I’m just wondering if there’s any tips or advice on my profile anything… I don’t do bad in the real world and usually catch attention. ( realise that sounds awful)
But not as much luck on here. Any advice will be much appreciated. "
Fab etiquette - don’t hijack threads start a new one. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Was browsing the forum and saw a topic that was similar to mine? Sorry for using the Forum .
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Lol just a nudge (and you’ll get more eyeballs on your own profile that way too) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We are getting little or no interest ATM we've given an honest account of ourselves we're not slim not massive either and pretty decent in the looks department just no clicks winks or messages any advice will help |
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