Pegging is fun, but has, er, "mess issues", as it were.
I have an enema bulb, but I do seem to have problems keeping things as clean as is courteous.
What would you say would be the best times of day to do it (digestion-wise), and how many enemas for how long would you say are effective?
I am going to experiment to see how clean things can get, but I do want to here from experienced people here. |
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"Pegging is fun, but has, er, "mess issues", as it were.
I have an enema bulb, but I do seem to have problems keeping things as clean as is courteous.
What would you say would be the best times of day to do it (digestion-wise), and how many enemas for how long would you say are effective?
I am going to experiment to see how clean things can get, but I do want to here from experienced people here."
some people don't eat before a session. some people take a fibre supplement. some people take laxatives. Some people don't do anything.
there is no specific times of day because everyone's digestion is different.
I used a shower attachment at a former lover's home and I found that more effective than an enema bulb.
For a few people, I did not do an enema at all. I think I had less of a problem as I do like to eat all my fruits and veggies.
It's an experiment to find your level of cleanliness and comfort.
I don't want to take laxatives or do too many enemas because knowing my sensitive ass ( pun intended)body, it might have a bad reaction. I guess that's easy for me because I have um...another purpose-built pleasure hole that requires no cleaning. They even have period sponge tampons and period disc that hold the blood for little to no mess during period sex.
Anal is fun but it does take far more preparation than p in v, oral or mutual masturbation. And can be less spontaneous with all that prep.
One tip: have lots of wipes available. I have baby wipes and toy-specific wipes. And as with period sex, a lot of people lay down a towel to toss in the wash after.
Good luck on your butt ( sorry)... journey. |
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By *outhbucksCouple
over a year ago
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So much depends on your digestive system and how it works and what you eat obviously.
If everything is working normally then following a #3, using the bulb should clear things out sufficiently.
However, if that isn't working sufficiently for you, you need to try other things.
I read somewhere that the act of eating causes the intestines to start doing their thing and moving the contents down the line.
So it it makes sense therefore to avoid eating close to play time as it could mean the bowel starts to receive what you ate earlier in the day.
Starving yourself for 24 hours is a bit drastic but obviously would help.
Also, eating just protein will help you feel full (appetite wise) and also helps firm things up if you get my drift.
Small pieces of chicken breast for example.
I wouldn't recommend it just to have cleaner anal sex, but taking something with Loperamide (e.g. Imodium) will slow the whole digestive system down.
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As a wise man once said “ If you are going to play in the dirt prepare to get muddy “
We’ve used shower attachments over bulb douches for years as you tend to get a deeper clean ( remember to turn the pressure down though )
Any kind of anal play can be messy no matter how good your hygiene,it’s about finding people who won’t freak out and make a bigger issue of the situation |
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"As a wise man once said “ If you are going to play in the dirt prepare to get muddy “
We’ve used shower attachments over bulb douches for years as you tend to get a deeper clean ( remember to turn the pressure down though )
Any kind of anal play can be messy no matter how good your hygiene,it’s about finding people who won’t freak out and make a bigger issue of the situation"
Yeah I do anal play on men and I just have wipes handy if there's a bit of brown. With my autistic traits, I can easily freak out but I have had therapy and it's knowing what to expect from the um...rectum... I don't enjoy receiving or giving rimming but that might just be a bit of a sensory thing. Everyone has an asshole. I've come across men who don't want women sucking their penis or playing with their balls. No biggie.
I'm aware of managing my reactions when playing. Yes, it's a lot of mental work but I don't want to have my triggers, attacks and freak-outs unreasonably affect people.
That's why I let people know upfront about my neurodivergent brain so they can decide whether they can deal with that or not. Not everyone has the capacity and that's ok. |
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You can try and be as prepared as possible, enemas, douchè,diet, laxatives,eat, don't eat, up your fibre intake,what ever is best for you. You can do as much as you can but regardless,at the end of the day shit happens. |
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