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over a year ago
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"can’t see it happening tbh not having much luck either on here or in clubs "
You asked the original question then backed it up with the above, I'm not sure why your original post then |
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By *agicmarc OP Man
over a year ago
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"can’t see it happening tbh not having much luck either on here or in clubs
You asked the original question then backed it up with the above, I'm not sure why your original post then "
just me pytttung myself doen |
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By *riel13Woman
over a year ago
Northampton |
"can’t see it happening tbh not having much luck either on here or in clubs
You asked the original question then backed it up with the above, I'm not sure why your original post then
just me pytttung myself doen "
Don't, unless you are trying to sabotage getting anywhere on here.. It's not very appealing |
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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago
Paisley |
Yes it’s possible to find a fwb.
If you didn’t like the socials what makes you think you’ll like the club scene? You’d need to mix and speak to people at a club.
A verification can disappear if someone leaves. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why didn’t you enjoy the social? "
Maybe he's like me, in a social group meet setting where people know each other I think I'm butting in rather than joining in. Strangely when I change jobs I'm the most social person I can be and just feel at ease and let others feel at ease with me instantly.
I went to a fab social and although it was good I just felt out of place so I never went back.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Possible yes but I think a lot of men want to skip the friends bit 
Many just want the woman to use as sex bait and a back up fuck."
You would be surprised! A lot of women assume that's the case but it isn't necessarily... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Are you certain of what you actually want?
If you’re not enjoying the social side what are you hoping for by attending a club with a FWB?
Couple with couple fun will be unlikely if you’re not going to be sociable. |
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By *an1978Woman
over a year ago
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"Possible yes but I think a lot of men want to skip the friends bit "
Exactly this!
Concentrate on meeting people, making friends.
If all you're thinking of is getting laid then you're not thinking straight and ruining your own chances.
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You have to make friends first if you want to add the benefits. Socials are realistically the only way you’ll manage as getting good interaction through messages here is extremely difficult, luck and timing is probably more important than anything. |
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I’ve had quite a few amazing FWBs over the years - mainly met on fab. I keep in touch with most once the benefit part stops - they are best fwb because you know the friendship art was as important as the benefit part
I’m not interested in one offs. The sex is much better with a FWB. A good FWB is hard to find but worth the effort in keeping |
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"hi all do you think it’s possible to find a fwb on here where we could attend clubs and socials together "
Yes I Tony have had several  . Was becoming increasingly rare due to covid etc but things seem to be picking up again.. |
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By *aan31Man
over a year ago
Hertfordshire |
I'd love to try and meet someone I could go to clubs with, socials etc but I need to feel like we have some sort of connection physically but most importantly get on well as friends.. it's also important for both to feel comfortable around each other.
I am generally quite shy so would find it hard striking up conversations face to face in the first instance |
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By *agicmarc OP Man
over a year ago
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"Why didn’t you enjoy the social?
Maybe he's like me, in a social group meet setting where people know each other I think I'm butting in rather than joining in. Strangely when I change jobs I'm the most social person I can be and just feel at ease and let others feel at ease with me instantly.
I went to a fab social and although it was good I just felt out of place so I never went back.
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yes i felt like i was hurting in when people were already talking |
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By *agicmarc OP Man
over a year ago
tonyrefail |
"Are you certain of what you actually want?
If you’re not enjoying the social side what are you hoping for by attending a club with a FWB?
Couple with couple fun will be unlikely if you’re not going to be sociable. "
didn’t say i don’t enjoy the social side i said i didn’t enjoy the social because i felt i was butting in with people’s conversations |
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