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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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having downloaded the book and viewed videos on you tube, is there anyone out there in Nottinghamshire area willing to show me the ropes if you pardon the pun? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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this isnt a fetish website, and arts of the BDSM kind take years to obtain trust and to practice.
You might find more success on other sites... meanwhile swinging is the name of the site!
Regards
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We know of a couple of socials/meets in London that specialise in rope and welcome newbies.
There must be similar available near you-you'll find details of such meets on more specialised sites.
Just be aware you'll be unlikely to turn up somewhere and find a willing rope bunny straight away. As there are dangers in rope play, the bunny needs to trust you'll know what to do it there's a sudden slippage or tightening.
Have fun!
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"We know of a couple of socials/meets in London that specialise in rope and welcome newbies.
There must be similar available near you-you'll find details of such meets on more specialised sites.
Just be aware you'll be unlikely to turn up somewhere and find a willing rope bunny straight away. As there are dangers in rope play, the bunny needs to trust you'll know what to do it there's a sudden slippage or tightening.
Have fun!
crystal"
thanks Chtystal. I know it's all about trust and have some bandage scissors for any emergency, not that I plan having any |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
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this isnt a fetish website, and arts of the BDSM kind take years to obtain trust and to practice.
You might find more success on other sites... meanwhile swinging is the name of the site!
Regards
M"
This site can be used however you want to use it! Why have the option to tick SM as an interest if you weren't allowed to practice!
There are far to many people on here lately who think their way to use this site is the only way!   |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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this isnt a fetish website, and arts of the BDSM kind take years to obtain trust and to practice.
You might find more success on other sites... meanwhile swinging is the name of the site!
Regards
M
This site can be used however you want to use it! Why have the option to tick SM as an interest if you weren't allowed to practice!
There are far to many people on here lately who think their way to use this site is the only way! "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We know of a couple of socials/meets in London that specialise in rope and welcome newbies.
There must be similar available near you-you'll find details of such meets on more specialised sites.
Just be aware you'll be unlikely to turn up somewhere and find a willing rope bunny straight away. As there are dangers in rope play, the bunny needs to trust you'll know what to do it there's a sudden slippage or tightening.
Have fun!
crystal
thanks Chtystal. I know it's all about trust and have some bandage scissors for any emergency, not that I plan having any "
Good to hear you've learnt lesson one... safety first!!!
The meets are definitely the best place to try-ladies are unlikely to come meet one on one to be tied as they'll be considering their own safety (i.e. not wanting to be tied in case they've met up with a psychotic axe wielding murderer-not saying you're one!).
Peer Rope and Bound are the ones I know of in London-check them out and see if they're a nationwide thing.
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By *evilwolfCouple
over a year ago
Leicestershire |
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this isnt a fetish website, and arts of the BDSM kind take years to obtain trust and to practice.
You might find more success on other sites... meanwhile swinging is the name of the site!
Regards
M
This site can be used however you want to use it! Why have the option to tick SM as an interest if you weren't allowed to practice!
There are far to many people on here lately who think their way to use this site is the only way! "
Have to agree, the first statement is utter myth engendered by those who don't like to see their base diluted by new blood - which keeps the whole scene healthy.
While this site has SM and associated interests available on a tickbox basis it IS a site with a fetishy fringe - an umbered hinterland capable of transgression into the more darker sides.
Good luck to the OP with his quest for shibari
Wolf
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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this isnt a fetish website, and arts of the BDSM kind take years to obtain trust and to practice.
You might find more success on other sites... meanwhile swinging is the name of the site!
Regards
M
This site can be used however you want to use it! Why have the option to tick SM as an interest if you weren't allowed to practice!
There are far to many people on here lately who think their way to use this site is the only way!
Have to agree, the first statement is utter myth engendered by those who don't like to see their base diluted by new blood - which keeps the whole scene healthy.
While this site has SM and associated interests available on a tickbox basis it IS a site with a fetishy fringe - an umbered hinterland capable of transgression into the more darker sides.
Good luck to the OP with his quest for shibari
Wolf
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Don't worry Wolf I am there complete with pictures  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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this isnt a fetish website, and arts of the BDSM kind take years to obtain trust and to practice.
You might find more success on other sites... meanwhile swinging is the name of the site!
Regards
M
This site can be used however you want to use it! Why have the option to tick SM as an interest if you weren't allowed to practice!
There are far to many people on here lately who think their way to use this site is the only way!
Have to agree, the first statement is utter myth engendered by those who don't like to see their base diluted by new blood - which keeps the whole scene healthy.
While this site has SM and associated interests available on a tickbox basis it IS a site with a fetishy fringe - an umbered hinterland capable of transgression into the more darker sides.
Good luck to the OP with his quest for shibari
Wolf
I will forgive M for his misconceived idea about this site and putting it down to nativity...
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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this isnt a fetish website, and arts of the BDSM kind take years to obtain trust and to practice.
You might find more success on other sites... meanwhile swinging is the name of the site!
Regards
M
This site can be used however you want to use it! Why have the option to tick SM as an interest if you weren't allowed to practice!
There are far to many people on here lately who think their way to use this site is the only way!
Have to agree, the first statement is utter myth engendered by those who don't like to see their base diluted by new blood - which keeps the whole scene healthy.
While this site has SM and associated interests available on a tickbox basis it IS a site with a fetishy fringe - an umbered hinterland capable of transgression into the more darker sides.
Good luck to the OP with his quest for shibari
Wolf
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Agreed
There are plenty on here who are not in to The kink/BDSM/Fetish (call it what you want) scene but a significant minority certainly do cross over.
When Mark and Jayne have been here longer than 7 weeks maybe they'll realise that and maybe they'll also realise that shooting down the OP and telling others how to use the site probably won't win them many fans. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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this isnt a fetish website, and arts of the BDSM kind take years to obtain trust and to practice.
You might find more success on other sites... meanwhile swinging is the name of the site!
Regards
M
This site can be used however you want to use it! Why have the option to tick SM as an interest if you weren't allowed to practice!
There are far to many people on here lately who think their way to use this site is the only way!
Have to agree, the first statement is utter myth engendered by those who don't like to see their base diluted by new blood - which keeps the whole scene healthy.
While this site has SM and associated interests available on a tickbox basis it IS a site with a fetishy fringe - an umbered hinterland capable of transgression into the more darker sides.
Good luck to the OP with his quest for shibari
Wolf
Agreed
There are plenty on here who are not in to The kink/BDSM/Fetish (call it what you want) scene but a significant minority certainly do cross over.
When Mark and Jayne have been here longer than 7 weeks maybe they'll realise that and maybe they'll also realise that shooting down the OP and telling others how to use the site probably won't win them many fans."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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this isnt a fetish website, and arts of the BDSM kind take years to obtain trust and to practice.
You might find more success on other sites... meanwhile swinging is the name of the site!
Regards
M"
so you consider bdsm a fetish and this isn't the place for it.
Others would consider cross dressing a fetish but you have it on your interests.
Serious question. Is the fem a midget? |
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this isnt a fetish website, and arts of the BDSM kind take years to obtain trust and to practice.
You might find more success on other sites... meanwhile swinging is the name of the site!
Regards
M"
WOW!!!!!! Z |
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"having downloaded the book and viewed videos on you tube, is there anyone out there in Nottinghamshire area willing to show me the ropes if you pardon the pun?"
A club near us has a fetish oriented night once a month i think, might be worth checking clubs near you to see if they have something similar. Z |
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this isnt a fetish website, and arts of the BDSM kind take years to obtain trust and to practice.
You might find more success on other sites... meanwhile swinging is the name of the site!
Regards
M"
Anyone know where I can get a swing?? |
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this isnt a fetish website, and arts of the BDSM kind take years to obtain trust and to practice.
You might find more success on other sites... meanwhile swinging is the name of the site!
Regards
M"
I see you wear latex and rubber
just sayin .......just sayin! |
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By *eavenNhellCouple
over a year ago
carrbrook stalybridge |
for the OP have alook on FL for the sheffield peer rope workshop and manchester rope jam .
both are peer to peer non judgemental meets where demos and show and tells take place both are ideal for newbies as the there is no presure to be brilliant and showing of is positivley fround on .
just a nice easy relaxed atmosphere to learn how to play with rope safely . |
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By *heWolfMan
over a year ago
warwickshire |
"When Mark and Jayne have been here longer than 7 weeks maybe they'll realise that and maybe they'll also realise that shooting down the OP and telling others how to use the site probably won't win them many fans."
Come on, give them a break, I thought they were being helpful. If you want to learn about something that really is involved and takes effort to perfect, there are more suitable sites out there than this one which covers such a wide spectrum.
Better to go to the niche sites straight away than wasting time looking on here for someone who will almost certainly point him in the direction of IC/FL/BBB Shibari workshops etc anyway.
Actually, while I'm here, does anyone know the best way to balance the carbs on a 1986 1000RX? I know there are some bikers here... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"When Mark and Jayne have been here longer than 7 weeks maybe they'll realise that and maybe they'll also realise that shooting down the OP and telling others how to use the site probably won't win them many fans.
Come on, give them a break, I thought they were being helpful. If you want to learn about something that really is involved and takes effort to perfect, there are more suitable sites out there than this one which covers such a wide spectrum.
Better to go to the niche sites straight away than wasting time looking on here for someone who will almost certainly point him in the direction of IC/FL/BBB Shibari workshops etc anyway.
Actually, while I'm here, does anyone know the best way to balance the carbs on a 1986 1000RX? I know there are some bikers here..."
I have had more feedback and advice on here than IO have on FL... |
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By *anSusieCouple
over a year ago
Midlothian |
FACT IS:we found our "ropemasters" on Fab!!
After a few month swinging wanted to explore the Dom/sub,bondage world and found excellent teachers on here.Only AFTER a few month of learning did we also joined the fetish site.Thats were we find events etc and also many more open minded ppl.
We honestly wonder about some fabsters attitude on here.Swingers are on Fab to swing and if they also like kink:WELL there are loads like us on here  ....Don't worry all you non-kinksters we leave you well alone |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"FACT IS:we found our "ropemasters" on Fab!!
After a few month swinging wanted to explore the Dom/sub,bondage world and found excellent teachers on here.Only AFTER a few month of learning did we also joined the fetish site.Thats were we find events etc and also many more open minded ppl.
We honestly wonder about some fabsters attitude on here.Swingers are on Fab to swing and if they also like kink:WELL there are loads like us on here ....Don't worry all you non-kinksters we leave you well alone "
Hear hear! |
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By *heWolfMan
over a year ago
warwickshire |
"I have had more feedback and advice on here than IO have on FL... "
Well, yeah, FL is not the most user-friendly place about, I'll give you that. (Unless you want to hear from people in Minnesota)
Thinking about it, I've met more Kinksters and swingers through OKC and POF than here or fetish-related sites |
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this isnt a fetish website, and arts of the BDSM kind take years to obtain trust and to practice.
You might find more success on other sites... meanwhile swinging is the name of the site!
Regards
M"
Really??? Who says swingers on here can not be kinksters? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have had more feedback and advice on here than IO have on FL...
Well, yeah, FL is not the most user-friendly place about, I'll give you that. (Unless you want to hear from people in Minnesota)
Thinking about it, I've met more Kinksters and swingers through OKC and POF than here or fetish-related sites "
I tried FL but it was just too hard to find my way around it so I gave up. I also got mailed by a few scary people within the first few days and that put me off. I can get mailed by scary people on here but the site's more fun. So I stick to Fab. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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well over the last few days I have had some fantastic feed back on this site compared to FL. I have had so much feedback and response in PM that I am going to delete mt FL account!
Thank you my wonderful Swing/kink freinds |
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By *un_JuiceCouple
over a year ago
Nr Chester |
Mrs FJ is definately excited about rope play and i must admit to being intrigued. Recently downloaded a few pointers from twoknottyboys. Anyone in the North West that could give us some advice, clubs to try, perhaps get a feel of things, discussion groups etc. please pm us.
Maybe we need to try a couple of sites we're members of but have hardly pursued. Having Mrs FJ bound is a nice thought, teasing and pleasuring her in that position sounds awesome and I know she often fantasis about it. Hmmmm gotta be done
I love to see ladies in fetish wear nothing too heavy, latex in all colours, gauntlets, stockings, corsets etc |
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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago
Paisley |
I met a guy on here that does great rope and I love being tied up and mobile or tied to the bed. Don't give up and look for fet clubs locally. They are about. There's a big one called Torture garden.
Usually there will be someone to help you there are also social meets without being dressed up in kink. |
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this isnt a fetish website, and arts of the BDSM kind take years to obtain trust and to practice.
You might find more success on other sites... meanwhile swinging is the name of the site!
Regards
Not being rude guys but read your own pofile before you comment on others
M"
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this isnt a fetish website, and arts of the BDSM kind take years to obtain trust and to practice.
You might find more success on other sites... meanwhile swinging is the name of the site!
Regards
M"
use it for what you want..
let others do the same.. |
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By *mileyBWoman
over a year ago
Northwood |
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this isnt a fetish website, and arts of the BDSM kind take years to obtain trust and to practice.
You might find more success on other sites... meanwhile swinging is the name of the site!
Regards
M"
Ha! Once again someone who wants us all to conform and stay in our little 'swinging' box. Well life and swinging are a box of chocolates and everyone owns pure and utter freedom of choice to try their hard and soft centres ( and limits) at their own whim and pace.
Swingers can be fetishists, swingers can be into BDSM, BDSMers may be into swinging (or not).
We are all here not to be labelled as swingers but to exercise our liberated sexual freedom and have fun in the process and we need no fun police ..... There's enough if those on the 'outside'
Play nicely
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have had more feedback and advice on here than IO have on FL...
Well, yeah, FL is not the most user-friendly place about, I'll give you that. (Unless you want to hear from people in Minnesota)
Thinking about it, I've met more Kinksters and swingers through OKC and POF than here or fetish-related sites
I tried FL but it was just too hard to find my way around it so I gave up. I also got mailed by a few scary people within the first few days and that put me off. I can get mailed by scary people on here but the site's more fun. So I stick to Fab. "
FP is a nightmare to navigate around. But it is designed as a kinky facebook. using it to keep in touch with people that we go to events and clubs with it is a fantastic resource. For random hook ups it's far less suited. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I will forgive M for his misconceived idea about this site and putting it down to nativity...
Go on, blame Jesus again!
well spotted... nievity!!!"
think the word you're looking for is naivety |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This site can be used however you want to use it! Why have the option to tick SM as an interest if you weren't allowed to practice!
There are far to many people on here lately who think their way to use this site is the only way!
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I frikkin love love LOVE this comment! |
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By *mileyBWoman
over a year ago
Northwood |
"I will forgive M for his misconceived idea about this site and putting it down to nativity...
Go on, blame Jesus again!
well spotted... nievity!!!
think the word you're looking for is naivety "
No it's naivety LOL
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Be careful what you say they have their own car and may pay you a visit.
We don't but could some people see rubber and PVC as a fetish.
It's all dirty, filthy, sexy fun to us. |
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By *acktilMan
over a year ago
Tewkesbury |
These days I do more rope than swinging. Just seems to be that way. However, I can confirm the two mix very well.
I'm happy to assist anyone who wants to either learn how to tie or get tied. Including south paws as I am one. Most resources are aimed at right handers, I mix both eastern and western styles these days and can supply examples of the work I do. I am not allowed to post them here as I have a singles account. Please note that is not a pop at the admin it's just a fact. I do get lots of people asking why I have no bondage pics on my profile.
Anyone who wants to do suspension needs to practice. I will not suspend anyone until I have worked with them extensively. Shibari is not just pretty it was used by the Samurai as a method of restraint and torture. Suspension hurts, as the models body weight is held by what is a total width of 72mm of rope in a basic TK harness with 4 other lines and that would be a kind tie. Going down to just 24mm width of rope takes a very high pain threshold.
Also please remember it is very easy to cause nerve damage which can lead to paralysis. So please be careful and do not try to run before mastering the art of walking. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've been suspended a few times ... Ankles to knees to waist to boobs,shoulders and finally my hair and it didn't hurt a bit... Well nothing I couldn't handle |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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this isnt a fetish website, and arts of the BDSM kind take years to obtain trust and to practice.
You might find more success on other sites... meanwhile swinging is the name of the site!
Regards
M
This site can be used however you want to use it! Why have the option to tick SM as an interest if you weren't allowed to practice!
There are far to many people on here lately who think their way to use this site is the only way! "
Well said, lol , when you want to tie mr up lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just starting a monthly course for begineers and advanced alike, at Xtasia. Added a thread to Meets and Events. Please search for that if in the Midlands area...all welcome along"
Pffft just commented on your other comment! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have had more feedback and advice on here than IO have on FL...
Well, yeah, FL is not the most user-friendly place about, I'll give you that. (Unless you want to hear from people in Minnesota)
Thinking about it, I've met more Kinksters and swingers through OKC and POF than here or fetish-related sites "
I have to jump to FLs defence, I have met as many kinksters on FL as fab, you just use it differently, you dont search for people you join groups and interact a bit, or just read what others are saying, click on the profile and if you like what it says, message them, like a pic, leave a comment. Its great you can see their kink list too |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"thanks for stating the obvious,but as there are many profiles on here with ladies bound and tied, I thought I'd ask."
yes ask those profiles who did it for the pics then you will have seen some of their work.or. You could go on fet. Life?poppyxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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this isnt a fetish website, and arts of the BDSM kind take years to obtain trust and to practice.
You might find more success on other sites... meanwhile swinging is the name of the site!
Regards
This site caters for all! Tut and ppffftttt
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By (user no longer on site)
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"These days I do more rope than swinging. Just seems to be that way. However, I can confirm the two mix very well.
I'm happy to assist anyone who wants to either learn how to tie or get tied. Including south paws as I am one. Most resources are aimed at right handers, I mix both eastern and western styles these days and can supply examples of the work I do. I am not allowed to post them here as I have a singles account. Please note that is not a pop at the admin it's just a fact. I do get lots of people asking why I have no bondage pics on my profile.
Anyone who wants to do suspension needs to practice. I will not suspend anyone until I have worked with them extensively. Shibari is not just pretty it was used by the Samurai as a method of restraint and torture. Suspension hurts, as the models body weight is held by what is a total width of 72mm of rope in a basic TK harness with 4 other lines and that would be a kind tie. Going down to just 24mm width of rope takes a very high pain threshold.
Also please remember it is very easy to cause nerve damage which can lead to paralysis. So please be careful and do not try to run before mastering the art of walking. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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this isnt a fetish website, and arts of the BDSM kind take years to obtain trust and to practice.
You might find more success on other sites... meanwhile swinging is the name of the site!
Regards
M"
I think the problem with this post is that about 50% is correct. If I could just amend slightly.
"Although this isnt a fetish website, and arts of the BDSM kind can take years to obtain trust and to practice you might be looking in the wrong place.
You might find more success searching for specific bondage information on other more BDSM oriented sites... meanwhile although swinging is the name of the site we are openminded and welcome all!"
Regards
M
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