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Profile traction/Meeting new people

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

What's the best way to get more profile traction/meet people? Been on here for a few years & it seems very difficult to get a meet. I've had a lot of high profile traction at times & some offers to meet. Usually they fall through due to distance or the conversation diminishing.

I think my profile is fairly enticing but is there anything you think I could change or do differently? For me at least it just seems like the swinging scene is very dead in Ipswich, there's not any clubs either unfortunately. I'm willing to meet people outside of Ipswich as well within reasonable distance.

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
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East Sussex

Personally I thy you concentrate too much on your cock and what you want. 'be willing to travel ' sounds like a job spec not s line you'd use when you want to encourage women to have sex with you. In short to me, it reads like a challenge. Your pictures are ok but boxer shorts with a damp stain on the back and you sitting on the lavatory are not enticing.

Good points are that it's informative and your pictures and videos show exactly what you look like.

Good luck to you

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Thanks. It's hard to take good pics when you live with your parents kind of have to do what you have to do. Cockwise I'm VWE so it's the focal point of my profile which gets me most my attention. What I mean by "be willing to travel" is I get lots of messages from people who are miles away who are vehement to meet so I think that's a reasonable demand. I don't think there's anything wrong with the standards I have??? I'm in decent shape VWE and am intersted in fit women across the spectrum appearance, nothing overly specific. I appreciate your advice I do wish I could take more professional photos but don't really have the specs or space for that.

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
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East Sussex

"Thanks. It's hard to take good pics when you live with your parents kind of have to do what you have to do. Cockwise I'm VWE so it's the focal point of my profile which gets me most my attention. What I mean by "be willing to travel" is I get lots of messages from people who are miles away who are vehement to meet so I think that's a reasonable demand. I don't think there's anything wrong with the standards I have??? I'm in decent shape VWE and am intersted in fit women across the spectrum appearance, nothing overly specific. I appreciate your advice I do wish I could take more professional photos but don't really have the specs or space for that.

You're welcome.

You don't need professional photos to not sit on the lavatory or pop on a fresh pair of boxers. However if you're happy with your profile it's all good.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

How do you know whether my boxers are fresh or not?

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
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East Sussex

"How do you know whether my boxers are fresh or not?

29/9/21 picture they have a damp patch on the back

What you put on your profile is entirely up to you though. You don't have to take any of my advice

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

It's sweat. I had been training hard ya see

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
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East Sussex

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
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East Sussex

"It's sweat. I had been training hard ya see

I see.

Well good luck to you

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It's a bit negative. "I love it when women send the first message" is sexier than "I don't like winks" (especially as it looks like you send them) etc etc. It's a little bit scary for girls on here so I'd probs try to make it more encouraging.

Dick picks may work better for your generation. Idk. For me I'd prefer none. Maybe at least not the first one being so full on Fab?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Many people send winks and don't send a message at all, it's kind of frustrating since you have no clue what their intentions are. In terms of cocksize it's definitely something many women are into don't think it's strange to advertise on a sex sight especially when you're a VWE and in the top percentile, it's usually why I get messages. People on here either come looking for emotional connection or sex appeal, or a 50/50 of both.

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By *sBlueWoman over a year ago

Up North

Ok I don’t like the photos. Your cock next a remote. Really? It’s very negative in your bio. Your age is an issue to a lot of people.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

So many single men join fab with high expectations and the assumption that women and couples on here will shag anyone and that they'll be queing up to fuck them, and then, when the reality that this isn't the case begins to dawn on them, they seem to think that there is some magic formula to unlock the barrier to meets and repies.

**NEWSFLASH** There isn't.

You could have the best written profile on fab, with a good selection of tasteful pictures and still fail to get replies or meets.

Pretty much everyone you message will check out your profile before even thinking about reading what you've sent them.

If they don't fancy you or think you have anything in common with them, then they might not even bother reading your message, let alone answering it - and there's nothing you can do about it.

Let's think about it another way.

How many takeaway menus do you get posted through your door?

Did you ask for them?

Are you interested in any of them?

You might even love Pizza, but the menus stuffed through your letterbox aren't quite appealling enough to you.

Do you phone these places up to tell them thanks but no thanks?

No. And why should you?

Also, single men out number women and couples on fab by over 100 to 1.

Think about how many messages they get in their inboxes.

There's a lady on fab whom I know personally in vanilla life who recently had to empty her inbox of 6,000 unread messages because there was just no way she could get through them.

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
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East Sussex

"Many people send winks and don't send a message at all, it's kind of frustrating since you have no clue what their intentions are. In terms of cocksize it's definitely something many women are into don't think it's strange to advertise on a sex sight especially when you're a VWE and in the top percentile, it's usually why I get messages. People on here either come looking for emotional connection or sex appeal, or a 50/50 of both.

Is your current approach working?

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By *iss KinkWoman over a year ago

North West

Your profile isn’t enticing at all. Reads like a bragging profile. Tape measures are not classy. If people thought it was good you would get lots of interest. Sorry but I think you need to re vamp it

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Very logical message, I cant say I didn't come to that conclusion myself. Wouldn't say I don't have don't have enough sucess it just sucks there's no real alternative to fab. My general question was about the difficulty of meeting people and the lack of swinging scene local to me. It's actually more difficult as a VWE man to find a partner as a lot of women can't take you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

You know the tape measure is actually for measuring the size of cock? Many women want a specific size cock and the measure is verification of that. I have even recieved messages from a lady friend on fab who liked it herself. Sounds like you're being a but uncessarily uptight. I'm confident in my sexual abilities which I don't think is an issue. Should I downplay myself or something?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

The cock next to the remote is a tongue and cheek joke. It literally says the "classic" or something along those lines as I've seen many women detest it on here. If you have no real interest in a man's penis like many women actually do it's fine but that does make your input relevant when you have no interst in it?

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By *iss KinkWoman over a year ago

North West

Well don’t come on her moaning you can’t get interest then or asking for advice if you can’t take it

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By *iss KinkWoman over a year ago

North West

Is your current approach working?"

Obviously not or he wouldn’t of posted this thread

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Your responses are demonstrating an 'entitled' attitude - which really isn't a good look and puts a lot of people off

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

If you can describe why there's an issue with showing your cock size on a sex site then maybe I'll take you seriously. Is there anything wrong with a women showing their breast size? A man showing their muscles? I don't think so.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Disagree. But maybe you're a bit envious aye

I'm definitely not entitled I just asked for general advice. I don't think there's anything wrong with showing your cock size on a website focused on sex & nudity as no one can seem to logically explain. Physical traits are the most important part of sex appeal and affect how the sex actually feels before you bring emotional connection into the conversation . I'm also very formal & respectful to the people I interact with in regards to meeting, never been rude or entitled.

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By *sBlueWoman over a year ago

Up North

You don’t have to focus on your cock. A couple of pictures I think people get the idea. I’m not impressed tbh by so much emphasis

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Yes I'd say I have lots of success. I've had many opportunities throughout the years but it's mostly people who live miles away, sometimes we come up with a meet and the conversation dies down. My post was just a general question on how to get more traction, how to meet more people in the swinging scene, is the Ipswich swinging scene unpopular/deas? I don't agree with the criticisms as many women come on here specifically looking for big dicks as that's what my profile is about as well as my appearance, my interests, what I'm looking for also. Seems very well rounded to me

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I have body pics, face pics etc. You can't honestly pretend dicksize is irrelevant on a swinging site where many people are specifically looking for hung men. SMH really

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By *sBlueWoman over a year ago

Up North

I think you wrong not everyone is looking for a big dick. Anyway good luck

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By *naswingdressWoman over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

OP, if your current approach is working for you then keep going with it. If not (which would seem to be the case, given this thread), then perhaps the advice that people are offering might be worth considering.

I've had a look at your profile, and I agree with the assessments others have provided.

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By *eroLondonMan over a year ago

Covent Garden

"Thanks. It's hard to take good pics when you live with your parents... ...

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...can you not ask your father (or mother) to assist you with the photographs?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Thanks. It's hard to take good pics when you live with your parents... ...

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...can you not ask your father (or mother) to assist you with the photographs?

No thanks there's some gaps you should nor bridge

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I think you wrong not everyone is looking for a big dick. Anyway good luck "

Yes but MANY are and that's who I'm looking for and there's nothing wrong with that. I find your antagonism very strange tbh

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By *eroLondonMan over a year ago

Covent Garden

"Thanks. It's hard to take good pics when you live with your parents... ...

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...can you not ask your father (or mother) to assist you with the photographs?

No thanks there's some gaps you should nor bridge

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Well said.

Get yourself a tripod or something to hold your smartphone or camera.

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By *naswingdressWoman over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"I think you wrong not everyone is looking for a big dick. Anyway good luck

Yes but MANY are and that's who I'm looking for and there's nothing wrong with that. I find your antagonism very strange tbh

It's advice.

I quite enjoy a larger penis, and I find your gallery of photos to be overkill.

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
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East Sussex

"I think you wrong not everyone is looking for a big dick. Anyway good luck

Yes but MANY are and that's who I'm looking for and there's nothing wrong with that. I find your antagonism very strange tbh

There certainly isn't anything wrong with what you're looking for and I don't think anyone has said there is. All people are doing is pointing out that you might be going the wrong way about getting it. Nobody is being antagonistic towards you.

As I have said you don't have to accept any of the advice given but it's all given in response to your original post and with the best of intentions

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By *eroLondonMan over a year ago

Covent Garden

"How do you know whether my boxers are fresh or not?

29/9/21 picture they have a damp patch on the back

What you put on your profile is entirely up to you though. You don't have to take any of my advice

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Mrs Nicecouple561 is an established and well-respected connoisseur of Boxer Shorts. Heed her advice and you will go far.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I think you wrong not everyone is looking for a big dick. Anyway good luck

Yes but MANY are and that's who I'm looking for and there's nothing wrong with that. I find your antagonism very strange tbh

It's advice.

I quite enjoy a larger penis, and I find your gallery of photos to be overkill."

Eh that's reasonable. Many women seem to like the variety so I'm happy with it. If I women had a profile of solely her cleavage in different poses I'd be happy. I have body & clear face pics too of course

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By *naswingdressWoman over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"I think you wrong not everyone is looking for a big dick. Anyway good luck

Yes but MANY are and that's who I'm looking for and there's nothing wrong with that. I find your antagonism very strange tbh

It's advice.

I quite enjoy a larger penis, and I find your gallery of photos to be overkill.

I'm not sure I'd describe your pictures as containing "variety", particularly, but if it's working for you, crack on.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I think you wrong not everyone is looking for a big dick. Anyway good luck

Yes but MANY are and that's who I'm looking for and there's nothing wrong with that. I find your antagonism very strange tbh

It's advice.

I quite enjoy a larger penis, and I find your gallery of photos to be overkill.

I'm not sure I'd describe your pictures as containing "variety", particularly, but if it's working for you, crack on."

What other variety can you have if you don't meet any one? Do you want me to take a picture of my dog or something? Most people's profiles are their body & face plus picture of their meets

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By *naswingdressWoman over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"I think you wrong not everyone is looking for a big dick. Anyway good luck

Yes but MANY are and that's who I'm looking for and there's nothing wrong with that. I find your antagonism very strange tbh

It's advice.

I quite enjoy a larger penis, and I find your gallery of photos to be overkill.

I'm not sure I'd describe your pictures as containing "variety", particularly, but if it's working for you, crack on.

What other variety can you have if you don't meet any one? Do you want me to take a picture of my dog or something? Most people's profiles are their body & face plus picture of their meets

More body, face optional, less penis.

You in different positions (not necessarily sexually), showing off your body in different ways.

My gallery isn't visible at the moment but my photos are a variety of poses that show off my body and my personality, clothed, partially clothed, and naked. (Full disclosure, breasts yes pussy no) That's what I want to see from others too.

The impression I get when I look at your pictures is that you believe that your penis is the most important, maybe even the only important thing here. That's off putting.

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By *aunchy RaccoonsCouple over a year ago

Exeter

Your profile represents exactly why Swinging is difficult for people as young as you. They really haven't got a clue!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Your profile represents exactly why Swinging is difficult for people as young as you. They really haven't got a clue!"

Elaborate please

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By *aunchy RaccoonsCouple over a year ago

Exeter

"Your profile represents exactly why Swinging is difficult for people as young as you. They really haven't got a clue!

Elaborate please "

You come across as absolutely obsessed with your cock when there's a whole lot more to Swinging than that.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Your profile represents exactly why Swinging is difficult for people as young as you. They really haven't got a clue!

Elaborate please

You come across as absolutely obsessed with your cock when there's a whole lot more to Swinging than that."

Yes I know there's a social side to swinging but not everyone comes here for that. Many people just come looking for others who'd make good fuck buddies. I'm not obsessed with my cock but I'm very happy with it. Not to brag but 8 inches is top percentile when it comes to being big so why shouldn't I be happy with it? It's the same as a women showing of their tits/ass or a man showing of his muscles. It's just an object of sex appeal nothing more. I have face pics & body pics which people here seem to disregard for their agenda clearly

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I think you wrong not everyone is looking for a big dick. Anyway good luck

Yes but MANY are and that's who I'm looking for and there's nothing wrong with that. I find your antagonism very strange tbh

To be fair to her, YOU have started a thread asking for advice, and yet you have hit back at every single bit of advice that you've been given. I think you need to take a look in the mirror to see who's being antagonistic

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I think you wrong not everyone is looking for a big dick. Anyway good luck

Yes but MANY are and that's who I'm looking for and there's nothing wrong with that. I find your antagonism very strange tbh

I don't think there's anything wrong with showing of your cock on a swinging site where many women are looking for VWE men, just as I am looking for women who are into VWE men. It's even funnier when people in this thread think it's wrong to measure your cock when it's just proof of verification of your size. I would agree with the criticisms if they weren't hyperbolic. Most people on here despite the social want are looking for physical characteristics which are a major part of sex appeal. If I removed some of the pics it wouldn't make any difference. And of course I have more private pictures & videos for people on my friend's list so you're not getting the full picture.

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By *aunchy RaccoonsCouple over a year ago

Exeter

"Your profile represents exactly why Swinging is difficult for people as young as you. They really haven't got a clue!

Elaborate please

You come across as absolutely obsessed with your cock when there's a whole lot more to Swinging than that.

It just shows your mindset that Big means better which again shows a lack of maturity and knowledge, but there is nothing wrong with that at your age, we certainly didn't at 20 either!

Also you mentioned that there's no alternative to fab, there absolutely is! It's called going out and doing what ever 20 year olds do!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I think you wrong not everyone is looking for a big dick. Anyway good luck

Yes but MANY are and that's who I'm looking for and there's nothing wrong with that. I find your antagonism very strange tbh

Completely missed my point because of your obsession with your own cock.

Clearly you aren't interested in anyone's advice and obviously started this thread in the hope that everyone would be telling you how wonderful your profile was and how great your cock is.

Your attitude will get you exactly the results you deserve.

There's none so blind as them what won't listen

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By *naswingdressWoman over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Your profile represents exactly why Swinging is difficult for people as young as you. They really haven't got a clue!

Elaborate please

You come across as absolutely obsessed with your cock when there's a whole lot more to Swinging than that.

I'm sorry if you believe I or others have an agenda.

A large penis is not the only way to have an enjoyable meet, and some of my absolute worst meets have been with people who believe that their penis is the be all and end all of the meet.

I'm not saying that's you, but you are giving the impression that you believe that your penis is the be all and end all.

Even on a meet where I never see the person again, I need more than a fleshy battering ram. I'm sure I'm not alone.

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By *sBlueWoman over a year ago

Up North

"I think you wrong not everyone is looking for a big dick. Anyway good luck

Yes but MANY are and that's who I'm looking for and there's nothing wrong with that. I find your antagonism very strange tbh

Completely missed my point because of your obsession with your own cock.

Clearly you aren't interested in anyone's advice and obviously started this thread in the hope that everyone would be telling you how wonderful your profile was and how great your cock is.

Your attitude will get you exactly the results you deserve.

There's none so blind as them what won't listen "

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By *naswingdressWoman over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Your friends photos won't help if you're looking for initial attention from people, for what it's worth.

We can only go on what's in public - but if you want attention from someone new, that's all they're going on, too.

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By *ottodot123Couple over a year ago

Gillingham

I'd have thought both The Annex and The MILF Club would be within reasonable travelling distance for you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Your profile represents exactly why Swinging is difficult for people as young as you. They really haven't got a clue!

Elaborate please

You come across as absolutely obsessed with your cock when there's a whole lot more to Swinging than that.

It just shows your mindset that Big means better which again shows a lack of maturity and knowledge, but there is nothing wrong with that at your age, we certainly didn't at 20 either!

Also you mentioned that there's no alternative to fab, there absolutely is! It's called going out and doing what ever 20 year olds do!"

You're strawmaning. When did I ever say that's it's the BEST thing ever? I just said there's many women in particular looking for big dicks, don't play foolish. I don't really have any interest in meeting inexperienced women. 1.Because they can't take me 2. Don't enjoy going out 3. No time for a girlfriend due to my future career. Your points have no validity

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Your profile represents exactly why Swinging is difficult for people as young as you. They really haven't got a clue!

Elaborate please

You come across as absolutely obsessed with your cock when there's a whole lot more to Swinging than that.

I'm sorry if you believe I or others have an agenda.

A large penis is not the only way to have an enjoyable meet, and some of my absolute worst meets have been with people who believe that their penis is the be all and end all of the meet.

I'm not saying that's you, but you are giving the impression that you believe that your penis is the be all and end all.

Even on a meet where I never see the person again, I need more than a fleshy battering ram. I'm sure I'm not alone."

I disagree with you and you have no clue what I'm like as a person lol, you're being very presumptious. I'm the most laid back person ever by all accounts so have no problem with such things, I just enjoy giving a good dicking to women who enjoy larger ones. If you don't like big ones that's okay

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By *naswingdressWoman over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Your profile represents exactly why Swinging is difficult for people as young as you. They really haven't got a clue!

Elaborate please

You come across as absolutely obsessed with your cock when there's a whole lot more to Swinging than that.

I'm sorry if you believe I or others have an agenda.

A large penis is not the only way to have an enjoyable meet, and some of my absolute worst meets have been with people who believe that their penis is the be all and end all of the meet.

I'm not saying that's you, but you are giving the impression that you believe that your penis is the be all and end all.

Even on a meet where I never see the person again, I need more than a fleshy battering ram. I'm sure I'm not alone.

I already said I enjoy large penises?

What matters isn't what you're like, it's the impression you give off. For example, I've apparently given you the impression that I don't like "a good dicking (with) a larger (one)". That's incorrect. Under other circumstances, it might be worth me trying to work out how to appear differently.

My impression of you might be incorrect - but as several people have a similar impression, you might want to think about how you come across to others.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I think you wrong not everyone is looking for a big dick. Anyway good luck

Yes but MANY are and that's who I'm looking for and there's nothing wrong with that. I find your antagonism very strange tbh

Completely missed my point because of your obsession with your own cock.

Clearly you aren't interested in anyone's advice and obviously started this thread in the hope that everyone would be telling you how wonderful your profile was and how great your cock is.

Your attitude will get you exactly the results you deserve.

There's none so blind as them what won't listen "

No I didn't, I just disagree with the advice since it's mostly people strawmaning me and being presumptions about me as a person on unfounded basis. I genuinely made the thread for advice and get enough attention really not to care for it to that extent.

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By *sBlueWoman over a year ago

Up North

You obviously know best so stop asking for advice and carry on with what your doing

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By *aunchy RaccoonsCouple over a year ago

Exeter

"Your profile represents exactly why Swinging is difficult for people as young as you. They really haven't got a clue!

Elaborate please

You come across as absolutely obsessed with your cock when there's a whole lot more to Swinging than that.

It just shows your mindset that Big means better which again shows a lack of maturity and knowledge, but there is nothing wrong with that at your age, we certainly didn't at 20 either!

Also you mentioned that there's no alternative to fab, there absolutely is! It's called going out and doing what ever 20 year olds do!

Again you've missed our point, like we said from our observation (and others on this thread) your profile comes across as somebody obsessed with his dick as if it's what everyone wants.

So many join like yourself thinking "oh I have a big dick, I'll be popular" when in reality it doesn't work out like that as usually having a big dick usually means an even bigger ego!

But your still young so plenty of time to learn and I'm sure you'll understand one day....

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Your profile represents exactly why Swinging is difficult for people as young as you. They really haven't got a clue!

Elaborate please

You come across as absolutely obsessed with your cock when there's a whole lot more to Swinging than that.

I'm sorry if you believe I or others have an agenda.

A large penis is not the only way to have an enjoyable meet, and some of my absolute worst meets have been with people who believe that their penis is the be all and end all of the meet.

I'm not saying that's you, but you are giving the impression that you believe that your penis is the be all and end all.

Even on a meet where I never see the person again, I need more than a fleshy battering ram. I'm sure I'm not alone.

I already said I enjoy large penises?

My impression of you might be incorrect - but as several people have a similar impression, you might want to think about how you come across to others."

Impressions are not reality but you're fine to have your opinion. From your post you said some of your meets with big dicks weren't not good. Okay? But how is that relevant to me. It isn't except if you're being presumptions

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By *naswingdressWoman over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"I think you wrong not everyone is looking for a big dick. Anyway good luck

Yes but MANY are and that's who I'm looking for and there's nothing wrong with that. I find your antagonism very strange tbh

Completely missed my point because of your obsession with your own cock.

Clearly you aren't interested in anyone's advice and obviously started this thread in the hope that everyone would be telling you how wonderful your profile was and how great your cock is.

Your attitude will get you exactly the results you deserve.

There's none so blind as them what won't listen

You might want to double check your understanding of the word 'strawman', while you're at it.

You might be the best lover in all humanity and one that women dream about in their deepest fantasies. If you don't come across that way, the women you're looking for will never find out, because they will be under the impression that you are something other than you are.

You have high career ambitions. Would you show up to a job interview without preparing or dressing neatly, expecting them to "accept you as you are" rather than as you appear? Similar thing. (Lower stakes)

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By *aunchy RaccoonsCouple over a year ago

Exeter

"Your profile represents exactly why Swinging is difficult for people as young as you. They really haven't got a clue!

Elaborate please

You come across as absolutely obsessed with your cock when there's a whole lot more to Swinging than that.

I'm sorry if you believe I or others have an agenda.

A large penis is not the only way to have an enjoyable meet, and some of my absolute worst meets have been with people who believe that their penis is the be all and end all of the meet.

I'm not saying that's you, but you are giving the impression that you believe that your penis is the be all and end all.

Even on a meet where I never see the person again, I need more than a fleshy battering ram. I'm sure I'm not alone.

I already said I enjoy large penises?

My impression of you might be incorrect - but as several people have a similar impression, you might want to think about how you come across to others."

Spot on.

He can say he's as laid back as he wants or whatever, but how you come across on here including your profile is what matter if you are to get lucky.

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By *.T.Man over a year ago

Glasgow

Are you VWE? You haven't mentioned it?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Your profile represents exactly why Swinging is difficult for people as young as you. They really haven't got a clue!

Elaborate please

You come across as absolutely obsessed with your cock when there's a whole lot more to Swinging than that.

It just shows your mindset that Big means better which again shows a lack of maturity and knowledge, but there is nothing wrong with that at your age, we certainly didn't at 20 either!

Also you mentioned that there's no alternative to fab, there absolutely is! It's called going out and doing what ever 20 year olds do!

Again you've missed our point, like we said from our observation (and others on this thread) your profile comes across as somebody obsessed with his dick as if it's what everyone wants.

So many join like yourself thinking "oh I have a big dick, I'll be popular" when in reality it doesn't work out like that as usually having a big dick usually means an even bigger ego!

But your still young so plenty of time to learn and I'm sure you'll understand one day...."

My profile literally just says my size and what I'm looking for and that I'll give you a good time. That's not unreasonable at all lol

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By *naswingdressWoman over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Your profile represents exactly why Swinging is difficult for people as young as you. They really haven't got a clue!

Elaborate please

You come across as absolutely obsessed with your cock when there's a whole lot more to Swinging than that.

I'm sorry if you believe I or others have an agenda.

A large penis is not the only way to have an enjoyable meet, and some of my absolute worst meets have been with people who believe that their penis is the be all and end all of the meet.

I'm not saying that's you, but you are giving the impression that you believe that your penis is the be all and end all.

Even on a meet where I never see the person again, I need more than a fleshy battering ram. I'm sure I'm not alone.

I already said I enjoy large penises?

My impression of you might be incorrect - but as several people have a similar impression, you might want to think about how you come across to others.

I'm sorry you don't understand what I told you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I'd have thought both The Annex and The MILF Club would be within reasonable travelling distance for you. "

I don't know much about the clubs to be fair always seemed like they were very exclusive. I'm busy most of the time so hard for me to get out of Ipswich and I don't know if there's any guarantee of having a good time

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"My profile literally just says my size and what I'm looking for and that I'll give you a good time. That's not unreasonable at all lol "

Now who's being presumptuous?

You need to stop letting your dick do your thinking for you

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"My profile literally just says my size and what I'm looking for and that I'll give you a good time. That's not unreasonable at all lol

Now who's being presumptuous?

You need to stop letting your dick do your thinking for you"

I'm going to stop replying to you, you seem a bit bitter for whatever reason

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By *aunchy RaccoonsCouple over a year ago

Exeter

"Your profile represents exactly why Swinging is difficult for people as young as you. They really haven't got a clue!

Elaborate please

You come across as absolutely obsessed with your cock when there's a whole lot more to Swinging than that.

It just shows your mindset that Big means better which again shows a lack of maturity and knowledge, but there is nothing wrong with that at your age, we certainly didn't at 20 either!

Also you mentioned that there's no alternative to fab, there absolutely is! It's called going out and doing what ever 20 year olds do!

Again you've missed our point, like we said from our observation (and others on this thread) your profile comes across as somebody obsessed with his dick as if it's what everyone wants.

So many join like yourself thinking "oh I have a big dick, I'll be popular" when in reality it doesn't work out like that as usually having a big dick usually means an even bigger ego!

But your still young so plenty of time to learn and I'm sure you'll understand one day....

My profile literally just says my size and what I'm looking for and that I'll give you a good time. That's not unreasonable at all lol "

To which we pointed out your lack of knowledge of Swinging, but if that's what you think will make you successful on here (so far it obviously isn't!) then crack on with it and don't bother posting for advice.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Your profile represents exactly why Swinging is difficult for people as young as you. They really haven't got a clue!

Elaborate please

You come across as absolutely obsessed with your cock when there's a whole lot more to Swinging than that.

I'm sorry if you believe I or others have an agenda.

A large penis is not the only way to have an enjoyable meet, and some of my absolute worst meets have been with people who believe that their penis is the be all and end all of the meet.

I'm not saying that's you, but you are giving the impression that you believe that your penis is the be all and end all.

Even on a meet where I never see the person again, I need more than a fleshy battering ram. I'm sure I'm not alone.

I already said I enjoy large penises?

My impression of you might be incorrect - but as several people have a similar impression, you might want to think about how you come across to others.

I'm sorry you don't understand what I told you."

What of my profile gives the impression that you're impliying? Please elaborate

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Your profile represents exactly why Swinging is difficult for people as young as you. They really haven't got a clue!

Elaborate please

You come across as absolutely obsessed with your cock when there's a whole lot more to Swinging than that.

It just shows your mindset that Big means better which again shows a lack of maturity and knowledge, but there is nothing wrong with that at your age, we certainly didn't at 20 either!

Also you mentioned that there's no alternative to fab, there absolutely is! It's called going out and doing what ever 20 year olds do!

Again you've missed our point, like we said from our observation (and others on this thread) your profile comes across as somebody obsessed with his dick as if it's what everyone wants.

So many join like yourself thinking "oh I have a big dick, I'll be popular" when in reality it doesn't work out like that as usually having a big dick usually means an even bigger ego!

But your still young so plenty of time to learn and I'm sure you'll understand one day....

My profile literally just says my size and what I'm looking for and that I'll give you a good time. That's not unreasonable at all lol

My profile is relatively successful I'm just asking for what more I can do. Not everyone comes to swinging for the social side but to find sexy people to have sex with, many people don't even care about the conversation and just like to get to business. You're free to see things how you do and be presumptions

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By *sBlueWoman over a year ago

Up North

"I'd have thought both The Annex and The MILF Club would be within reasonable travelling distance for you.

Clubs are not for you

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By *aunchy RaccoonsCouple over a year ago

Exeter

"I'd have thought both The Annex and The MILF Club would be within reasonable travelling distance for you.

Clubs are not for you "

Haha you beat us to it!

He wouldn't last 5 minutes in a club!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I'd have thought both The Annex and The MILF Club would be within reasonable travelling distance for you.

Clubs are not for you "

If you say so. If I were at a club I wouldn't be looking for your type as you clearly have no interst in a man's genitals which is fine by me. I don't think it's hard to understand that people do swinging for other reasons besides the social aspect.

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By *aunchy RaccoonsCouple over a year ago

Exeter

"Your profile represents exactly why Swinging is difficult for people as young as you. They really haven't got a clue!

Elaborate please

You come across as absolutely obsessed with your cock when there's a whole lot more to Swinging than that.

It just shows your mindset that Big means better which again shows a lack of maturity and knowledge, but there is nothing wrong with that at your age, we certainly didn't at 20 either!

Also you mentioned that there's no alternative to fab, there absolutely is! It's called going out and doing what ever 20 year olds do!

Again you've missed our point, like we said from our observation (and others on this thread) your profile comes across as somebody obsessed with his dick as if it's what everyone wants.

So many join like yourself thinking "oh I have a big dick, I'll be popular" when in reality it doesn't work out like that as usually having a big dick usually means an even bigger ego!

But your still young so plenty of time to learn and I'm sure you'll understand one day....

My profile literally just says my size and what I'm looking for and that I'll give you a good time. That's not unreasonable at all lol

I think your verifications would disagree with that....

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By *sBlueWoman over a year ago

Up North

"I'd have thought both The Annex and The MILF Club would be within reasonable travelling distance for you.

Clubs are not for you

That’s why a club isn’t for you. And you have no idea if my interests

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Your profile represents exactly why Swinging is difficult for people as young as you. They really haven't got a clue!

Elaborate please

You come across as absolutely obsessed with your cock when there's a whole lot more to Swinging than that.

It just shows your mindset that Big means better which again shows a lack of maturity and knowledge, but there is nothing wrong with that at your age, we certainly didn't at 20 either!

Also you mentioned that there's no alternative to fab, there absolutely is! It's called going out and doing what ever 20 year olds do!

Again you've missed our point, like we said from our observation (and others on this thread) your profile comes across as somebody obsessed with his dick as if it's what everyone wants.

So many join like yourself thinking "oh I have a big dick, I'll be popular" when in reality it doesn't work out like that as usually having a big dick usually means an even bigger ego!

But your still young so plenty of time to learn and I'm sure you'll understand one day....

My profile literally just says my size and what I'm looking for and that I'll give you a good time. That's not unreasonable at all lol

I think your verifications would disagree with that...."

No? Just because I don't have tons of verifications doesn't mean I have opportunities. Many of the people wanting to meet are far away, the others I weren't intersted. I still do but a year ago or so I used to get tons of messages from cuckold couples but it's not too much of my thing. Again you're being presumptions.

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By *naswingdressWoman over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Your profile represents exactly why Swinging is difficult for people as young as you. They really haven't got a clue!

Elaborate please

You come across as absolutely obsessed with your cock when there's a whole lot more to Swinging than that.

I'm sorry if you believe I or others have an agenda.

A large penis is not the only way to have an enjoyable meet, and some of my absolute worst meets have been with people who believe that their penis is the be all and end all of the meet.

I'm not saying that's you, but you are giving the impression that you believe that your penis is the be all and end all.

Even on a meet where I never see the person again, I need more than a fleshy battering ram. I'm sure I'm not alone.

I already said I enjoy large penises?

My impression of you might be incorrect - but as several people have a similar impression, you might want to think about how you come across to others.

I'm sorry you don't understand what I told you.

What of my profile gives the impression that you're impliying? Please elaborate "

The impression I'm getting comes from the following:

Username including 8 INCH. Maybe it's because I'm ancient compared to you, but to me that implies shouting

Most of your pictures are cock shots, and you have multiple with a tape measure. It comes off as it's the only thing you care about.

"women who can take a big cock" in particular gives me an involuntary recollection of the last time someone tried to pulverise my cervix.

The bragging about your penis in the profile text (statement and bragging are not the same. For example: "I'm pretty intelligent" versus "I'm the real deal, I've got the brains, you won't do better than me, I'm super smart")

I know you say you're laid back, but everyone says they're laid back (I mean, except me, because I'm terrible at lying). As they say in the writing business, "show, don't tell".

Your profile text also comes across, incidentally, as a bit demanding and unfriendly. Even if I'm not looking for a friendship or anything, I want to like the person I'm having sex with. I'd want to know what you have to offer other than your penis.

I'm sure you're not as I paint you here, but that's the impression I have given your profile. If you want that to be better, the advice you've got on this thread (including from those you dismiss) is very helpful.

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By *iss KinkWoman over a year ago

North West

"Your profile represents exactly why Swinging is difficult for people as young as you. They really haven't got a clue!

Elaborate please

You come across as absolutely obsessed with your cock when there's a whole lot more to Swinging than that.

It just shows your mindset that Big means better which again shows a lack of maturity and knowledge, but there is nothing wrong with that at your age, we certainly didn't at 20 either!

Also you mentioned that there's no alternative to fab, there absolutely is! It's called going out and doing what ever 20 year olds do!

Again you've missed our point, like we said from our observation (and others on this thread) your profile comes across as somebody obsessed with his dick as if it's what everyone wants.

So many join like yourself thinking "oh I have a big dick, I'll be popular" when in reality it doesn't work out like that as usually having a big dick usually means an even bigger ego!

But your still young so plenty of time to learn and I'm sure you'll understand one day....

My profile literally just says my size and what I'm looking for and that I'll give you a good time. That's not unreasonable at all lol

I think your verifications would disagree with that....

Your the one asking for advice.

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By *aunchy RaccoonsCouple over a year ago

Exeter

"Your profile represents exactly why Swinging is difficult for people as young as you. They really haven't got a clue!

Elaborate please

You come across as absolutely obsessed with your cock when there's a whole lot more to Swinging than that.

It just shows your mindset that Big means better which again shows a lack of maturity and knowledge, but there is nothing wrong with that at your age, we certainly didn't at 20 either!

Also you mentioned that there's no alternative to fab, there absolutely is! It's called going out and doing what ever 20 year olds do!

Again you've missed our point, like we said from our observation (and others on this thread) your profile comes across as somebody obsessed with his dick as if it's what everyone wants.

So many join like yourself thinking "oh I have a big dick, I'll be popular" when in reality it doesn't work out like that as usually having a big dick usually means an even bigger ego!

But your still young so plenty of time to learn and I'm sure you'll understand one day....

My profile literally just says my size and what I'm looking for and that I'll give you a good time. That's not unreasonable at all lol

I think your verifications would disagree with that....

Again, completely missing our point. People on here can only base you off your profile and how you come across on here.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS over a year ago

Central

Most people are not mutually compatible with most other people.

Thus, it's reasonable to assume that most chats started with die out and come to nothing. You can't overcome people having tastes and preferences, however a profile is presented.

Your profile needs to reflect you. You can use the tips and advice in the many posts but ensure it is 100% the profile of you, rather than what some others think you should be

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By *naswingdressWoman over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"I'd have thought both The Annex and The MILF Club would be within reasonable travelling distance for you.

There's never any "guarantee" of "a good time" anywhere, if by good time you mean sex. Incidentally.

Never, ever, ever.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Your profile represents exactly why Swinging is difficult for people as young as you. They really haven't got a clue!

Elaborate please

You come across as absolutely obsessed with your cock when there's a whole lot more to Swinging than that.

I'm sorry if you believe I or others have an agenda.

A large penis is not the only way to have an enjoyable meet, and some of my absolute worst meets have been with people who believe that their penis is the be all and end all of the meet.

I'm not saying that's you, but you are giving the impression that you believe that your penis is the be all and end all.

Even on a meet where I never see the person again, I need more than a fleshy battering ram. I'm sure I'm not alone.

I already said I enjoy large penises?

My impression of you might be incorrect - but as several people have a similar impression, you might want to think about how you come across to others.

I'm sorry you don't understand what I told you.

What of my profile gives the impression that you're impliying? Please elaborate

The impression I'm getting comes from the following:

Username including 8 INCH. Maybe it's because I'm ancient compared to you, but to me that implies shouting

Most of your pictures are cock shots, and you have multiple with a tape measure. It comes off as it's the only thing you care about.

"women who can take a big cock" in particular gives me an involuntary recollection of the last time someone tried to pulverise my cervix.

I know you say you're laid back, but everyone says they're laid back (I mean, except me, because I'm terrible at lying). As they say in the writing business, "show, don't tell".

That's fine and I can understand. Personally I don't do 'flowery' stuff I'm more to the point about things and don't like expressing myself in those kind of ways. I have a few good friends on here whom I have regular conversation with and some other nice formalities. I have a pretty stoic/laid back personality so that's kind of how I express myself. My name is just for clicks really it's supposed to be in your face and easy to find if you're searching on here for example.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Most people are not mutually compatible with most other people.

Thus, it's reasonable to assume that most chats started with die out and come to nothing. You can't overcome people having tastes and preferences, however a profile is presented.

Your profile needs to reflect you. You can use the tips and advice in the many posts but ensure it is 100% the profile of you, rather than what some others think you should be "

Very genuine and logical response which I appreciate. I'd say 80% of my chats die out to distance, like someone horny messages me and really wants to meet, sometimes we divise a plan that never comes to fruition or just say how much the distance sucks and talk for a while

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By *naswingdressWoman over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Your profile represents exactly why Swinging is difficult for people as young as you. They really haven't got a clue!

Elaborate please

You come across as absolutely obsessed with your cock when there's a whole lot more to Swinging than that.

I'm sorry if you believe I or others have an agenda.

A large penis is not the only way to have an enjoyable meet, and some of my absolute worst meets have been with people who believe that their penis is the be all and end all of the meet.

I'm not saying that's you, but you are giving the impression that you believe that your penis is the be all and end all.

Even on a meet where I never see the person again, I need more than a fleshy battering ram. I'm sure I'm not alone.

I already said I enjoy large penises?

My impression of you might be incorrect - but as several people have a similar impression, you might want to think about how you come across to others.

I'm sorry you don't understand what I told you.

What of my profile gives the impression that you're impliying? Please elaborate

The impression I'm getting comes from the following:

Username including 8 INCH. Maybe it's because I'm ancient compared to you, but to me that implies shouting

Most of your pictures are cock shots, and you have multiple with a tape measure. It comes off as it's the only thing you care about.

"women who can take a big cock" in particular gives me an involuntary recollection of the last time someone tried to pulverise my cervix.

I know you say you're laid back, but everyone says they're laid back (I mean, except me, because I'm terrible at lying). As they say in the writing business, "show, don't tell".

Well, if you think you'll get it what you want, then more power to you. I don't believe it will.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Why ask for advice in the forum's when you have pushed back on most of it.

The majority of forum user's will normally respond truthfully and always try to steer people in the right direction.

Your profile pics come over a little boring and your profile slightly arrogant. There is no human touch to it. You can obviously converse quite well so apply that to your profile and take some less dick pictures.

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By *.T.Man over a year ago

Glasgow

I think the OP has got confused between sex and swinging.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Why ask for advice in the forum's when you have pushed back on most of it.

The majority of forum user's will normally respond truthfully and always try to steer people in the right direction.

I don't see a problem in putting my stats and what I'm looking for in my profile as well as a bit of a joke being a problem. I have pretty good convos with most of the people I actually talk to and we get along fine. My profile is mainly about my size so I don't think there anything wrong with dick pics, I'm looking for women who like VWE men. I don't have any meets under my belt from here so there's no real interesting pictures. I'm also not the type to take pictures in costumes or anything of that sort not for me.

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By *naswingdressWoman over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"I think the OP has got confused between sex and swinging.

I can see casual sex looking something like this, and there's space for it here, but the lack of friendliness in the OP's profile would be among the reasons why I wouldn't reply to a message if he sent me one.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I think the OP has got confused between sex and swinging.

People come on this site for different things. You're bring disingenuous if you disagree.

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By *eroLondonMan over a year ago

Covent Garden

"...I'm not obsessed with my cock but I'm very happy with it. Not to brag but 8 inches is top percentile..."

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Dear OP, your phallic size is actually quite average on here:

https://m.fabswingers.com/profile/big_harold

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"...I'm not obsessed with my cock but I'm very happy with it. Not to brag but 8 inches is top percentile...

•

Dear OP, your phallic size is actually quite average on here:

https://m.fabswingers.com/profile/big_harold"

That's fine. An 8 inch penis is still extremly rare and big for most women. Looks like that guy uses a bit of photoshop as well as his videos and pics don't match up but he's definitely big.

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By *iss KinkWoman over a year ago

North West

"...I'm not obsessed with my cock but I'm very happy with it. Not to brag but 8 inches is top percentile...

•

Dear OP, your phallic size is actually quite average on here:

https://m.fabswingers.com/profile/big_harold

That's fine. An 8 inch penis is still extremly rare and big for most women. Looks like that guy uses a bit of photoshop as well as his videos and pics don't match up but he's definitely big.

Honestly it’s not rare on fab at all

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

8 inch is not rare lol. You came on asking for advice about getting more meets and you've hated all advice so just no point in offering mine , you won't like it

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By *eroLondonMan over a year ago

Covent Garden

"...I'm not obsessed with my cock but I'm very happy with it. Not to brag but 8 inches is top percentile...

•

Dear OP, your phallic size is actually quite average on here:

https://m.fabswingers.com/profile/big_harold

That's fine. An 8 inch penis is still extremly rare and big for most women. Looks like that guy uses a bit of photoshop as well as his videos and pics don't match up but he's definitely big.

•

I think you've been woefully misinformed: 8" is not rare on here.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"8 inch is not rare lol. You came on asking for advice about getting more meets and you've hated all advice so just no point in offering mine , you won't like it "

Yes it is. "1% of men have a penis between 7–8 inches" And you know just because a man says he's x big doesn't mean he's that big? Why are so many of the 'big' men on here phobic when it comes to measuring their penis? Funny story I had sex with a girl once and she said she had been with a guy with a 10 incher. She was thoroughly convinced I must've been bigger. In actuality she's just clueless when it comes to judging penis size like many of the women here

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By *.T.Man over a year ago

Glasgow

"8 inch is not rare lol. You came on asking for advice about getting more meets and you've hated all advice so just no point in offering mine , you won't like it

Cool story bro, needs more dragons and shit.

So just to clarify, women only want big cock but don't know what big cock is?

I feel you are the one who is fixated with the tape measure. Insecure about something and have to have verifiable evidence you have what you assume women want?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"8 inch is not rare lol. You came on asking for advice about getting more meets and you've hated all advice so just no point in offering mine , you won't like it

Cool story bro, needs more dragons and shit.

So just to clarify, women only want big cock but don't know what big cock is?

I feel you are the one who is fixated with the tape measure. Insecure about something and have to have verifiable evidence you have what you assume women want?"

Cope. Many guys exaggerate their penis size and many women don't know any better. Why are so many of the big guys here phobic when it comes to measuring their dongs? Even the big guys in porn are not and not absurd 9/10 inches which funnily enough you don't seem pictures on here, many of them blatantly lie about it. If you wanna educate yourself on it look up /R/ pornstars measured, it's very insightful. I find it funny when guys like you try attack me I think you're envious just because you're small. Anyways done this conversation and disengenous ignorant people

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By *naswingdressWoman over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Well. Good luck with that.

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By *eroLondonMan over a year ago

Covent Garden

Anyway, VWElcome to Fåb.

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