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So.... been off here a little while as I had cancer resulting in a mastectomy... how does that sit with people here? Now in remission and starting to feel stronger and sexier again. I am getting my confidence back and looking to start having fun again...
I have even set up a profile on a well known fan subscriber site...
Thinking I can help others going through the same to realise life afterwards can still be sexy and fun!
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You are definitely not alone.
I was diagnosed with 13kg cyst stage one ovarian cancer last year had a big op to have it removed. It has left me with a big scar. I haven't been brave enough to me anyone off here yet. You go girl and blow them away  |
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By *nribanMan
over a year ago
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"So.... been off here a little while as I had cancer resulting in a mastectomy... how does that sit with people here? Now in remission and starting to feel stronger and sexier again. I am getting my confidence back and looking to start having fun again...
I have even set up a profile on a well known fan subscriber site...
Thinking I can help others going through the same to realise life afterwards can still be sexy and fun!
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Well done, you have great strength.
Mastectomy is no issue for me. Saw some profile pics of women in same situation.
All I saw was strong, attractive, confident women.
Very alluring in fact.
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Love this post. Sexy isn’t what the rest of the world thinks, it’s what you feel inside. And all people will see is a strong confident sexy woman standing before them.
Awesome news and hope your post inspires others |
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"You are definitely not alone.
I was diagnosed with 13kg cyst stage one ovarian cancer last year had a big op to have it removed. It has left me with a big scar. I haven't been brave enough to me anyone off here yet. You go girl and blow them away "
It takes a while, but you will get there! The scar is a badge of what you have gone through and no one can take away the strength that you had to display to get to this point. You definitely deserve some fun and I am finding lots of gorgeous guys and girls on here fancy the pants of confident girls  you got this too!!! |
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"So.... been off here a little while as I had cancer resulting in a mastectomy... how does that sit with people here? Now in remission and starting to feel stronger and sexier again. I am getting my confidence back and looking to start having fun again...
I have even set up a profile on a well known fan subscriber site...
Thinking I can help others going through the same to realise life afterwards can still be sexy and fun!
Well done, you have great strength.
Mastectomy is no issue for me. Saw some profile pics of women in same situation.
All I saw was strong, attractive, confident women.
Very alluring in fact.
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Thank you  there is something alluring about a confident woman isn't there! And I am finding I am definitely up for more than I would have been before  |
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"Love this post. Sexy isn’t what the rest of the world thinks, it’s what you feel inside. And all people will see is a strong confident sexy woman standing before them.
Awesome news and hope your post inspires others "
Thank you that's exactly the aim of what I am doing, so thank you for seeing that too
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"I doubt that women in a similar position will subscribe "
Awww I don't know about that... going to post all sorts of things, like the best lube to use, the best lingerie etc, lots of fabulous sexy tips for women like me.
Did you know 1 in 7 women will get breast cancer? It's crazy and I know (from all the wonderful women I met during treatment) that we don't want to write off our sex life once the amazing NHS have done their job. And that doesn't even include the men that get it too. So, I would say there is a need/desire for it |
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U go for my lovely.. it doesn’t matter what u look like.. it’s the person at the end of the day..
I’ve had skin cancer since 2001 & had many treatments.. yes I understand it’s how people may look at you.. but F—K EM..
big love..?? |
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
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Congratulations on getting through it all and I hope your confidence and fab journey continue to get better by the day.Good luck in your other endeavours as well I'm sure it will be a massive success. |
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Have you heard of Kintsugi? It’s a practice of repairing broken bowls using gold but is also a philosophy. They choose not to hide the repairs but to celebrate the beauty of something which once repaired become utterly unique.
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"U go for my lovely.. it doesn’t matter what u look like.. it’s the person at the end of the day..
I’ve had skin cancer since 2001 & had many treatments.. yes I understand it’s how people may look at you.. but F—K EM..
big love..??"
Sending you huge love, I hope you too are back to your sexy confident self. For me it's all about the cheeky grin and a naught glint in the eyes, what about you? |
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"Congratulations on getting through it all and I hope your confidence and fab journey continue to get better by the day.Good luck in your other endeavours as well I'm sure it will be a massive success. "
Thank you gorgeous, sending much love to you x |
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"Have you heard of Kintsugi? It’s a practice of repairing broken bowls using gold but is also a philosophy. They choose not to hide the repairs but to celebrate the beauty of something which once repaired become utterly unique.
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Oh this is beautiful, I just looked it up, I love this, thank you for sharing xxx |
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"I doubt that women in a similar position will subscribe
Awww I don't know about that... going to post all sorts of things, like the best lube to use, the best lingerie etc, lots of fabulous sexy tips for women like me.
Did you know 1 in 7 women will get breast cancer? It's crazy and I know (from all the wonderful women I met during treatment) that we don't want to write off our sex life once the amazing NHS have done their job. And that doesn't even include the men that get it too. So, I would say there is a need/desire for it "
Fantastic post, so good to hear this being talked about and shared. I think you are extremely positive and hope this post helps and inspires others too find their confidence and self belief xx |
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"I doubt that women in a similar position will subscribe
Awww I don't know about that... going to post all sorts of things, like the best lube to use, the best lingerie etc, lots of fabulous sexy tips for women like me.
Did you know 1 in 7 women will get breast cancer? It's crazy and I know (from all the wonderful women I met during treatment) that we don't want to write off our sex life once the amazing NHS have done their job. And that doesn't even include the men that get it too. So, I would say there is a need/desire for it
Fantastic post, so good to hear this being talked about and shared. I think you are extremely positive and hope this post helps and inspires others too find their confidence and self belief xx"
Thank you so much, that means a lot xx |
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"You’re absolutely bloody amazing!!! You go girl!!! Sexiness comes from within! Treat yourself to a sexy number you feel confident and sexy in and enjoy yourself!
Much love xx"
Thank you gorgeous, and I must say, your photos are hot
Sending you much love back |
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"You are definitely not alone.
I was diagnosed with 13kg cyst stage one ovarian cancer last year had a big op to have it removed. It has left me with a big scar. I haven't been brave enough to me anyone off here yet. You go girl and blow them away
It takes a while, but you will get there! The scar is a badge of what you have gone through and no one can take away the strength that you had to display to get to this point. You definitely deserve some fun and I am finding lots of gorgeous guys and girls on here fancy the pants of confident girls you got this too!!! "
Thank you hun xx |
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