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So Mr is merchant navy and works away for 4 month blocks, we still stay active on here to keep our hand in as Mrs plays alone with women. Though after a couple of weeks the conversations stop and get unfriended etc. Do you fabbers think it’s better to shut down profile for time away ? Or keep at it ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Totally agree your profile lays everything out.
There's a lot of people who are after instant gratification and if you cant jump to thier tune, make things happen quickly then they loose interest. If that happens then they aren't for you.
People have real lives and often couples have children and 2 jobs to plan around so it's not always easy and they can't be available right now because they are horny.
We are looking to chat to single guys at the moment for MMF but sadly the vast majority don't seem to have the patience to wait a few weeks so we can a, get to know them a little and b, plan in a date in advance (due to childcare, employment etc).
You guys do you and you will find the people out thier best suited to you.
KJ |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Fuck em. Your profile is clear on the very first line. If people can't handle that, it's their problem, not yours
Exactly this!!  "
Not many fellow merchant seaman about these days!
The homecoming is always awesome.
Good luck to you both.
Oh and do it your way.
That’s all you can do. |
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"Fuck em. Your profile is clear on the very first line. If people can't handle that, it's their problem, not yours
Exactly this!!
Not many fellow merchant seaman about these days!
The homecoming is always awesome.
Good luck to you both.
Oh and do it your way.
That’s all you can do. "
Fair winds and following seas brother |
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Totally agree your profile lays everything out.
There's a lot of people who are after instant gratification and if you cant jump to thier tune, make things happen quickly then they loose interest. If that happens then they aren't for you.
People have real lives and often couples have children and 2 jobs to plan around so it's not always easy and they can't be available right now because they are horny.
We are looking to chat to single guys at the moment for MMF but sadly the vast majority don't seem to have the patience to wait a few weeks so we can a, get to know them a little and b, plan in a date in advance (due to childcare, employment etc).
You guys do you and you will find the people out thier best suited to you.
KJ"
Essentially yes, 4 people, 4 jobs , 4 sets of responsibilities, all of it must align for a meet , we insist on social first and let the play happen naturally! Why the rush |
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"people should reflect on the realities of this space - it is always an adjunct to the rest of our lives - if not, they an alarm bell rings xx Anne & George "
We expect the odd “let’s fuck now” message from a 26 year old couple but not from guys our age, this isn’t a fast food activity |
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"people should reflect on the realities of this space - it is always an adjunct to the rest of our lives - if not, they an alarm bell rings xx Anne & George
We expect the odd “let’s fuck now” message from a 26 year old couple but not from guys our age, this isn’t a fast food activity "
All the pushy couples we've spoken to have been older than us x |
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"people should reflect on the realities of this space - it is always an adjunct to the rest of our lives - if not, they an alarm bell rings xx Anne & George
We expect the odd “let’s fuck now” message from a 26 year old couple but not from guys our age, this isn’t a fast food activity
All the pushy couples we've spoken to have been older than us x"
Suspect some of the younger couples are just the guy messaging after a few beers |
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"people should reflect on the realities of this space - it is always an adjunct to the rest of our lives - if not, they an alarm bell rings xx Anne & George
We expect the odd “let’s fuck now” message from a 26 year old couple but not from guys our age, this isn’t a fast food activity
All the pushy couples we've spoken to have been older than us x"
My ship was in Portland not long ago, you guys kept popping up as near |
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By *lueFireCouple
over a year ago
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Stay and do it your way! I (Mrs R) work shift work, which means late shifts, early shifts, weekends and bank holidays.....some people struggle to understand that we don't all live Mon-Fri 9-5 and that life can't just be dropped for someone that messages "wanna fuck". Keep going, it just takes a lot of sifting through the mud to find the gold x |
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"people should reflect on the realities of this space - it is always an adjunct to the rest of our lives - if not, they an alarm bell rings xx Anne & George
We expect the odd “let’s fuck now” message from a 26 year old couple but not from guys our age, this isn’t a fast food activity
All the pushy couples we've spoken to have been older than us x
Suspect some of the younger couples are just the guy messaging after a few beers "
This often seems to be the way!! X |
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"people should reflect on the realities of this space - it is always an adjunct to the rest of our lives - if not, they an alarm bell rings xx Anne & George
We expect the odd “let’s fuck now” message from a 26 year old couple but not from guys our age, this isn’t a fast food activity
All the pushy couples we've spoken to have been older than us x
My ship was in Portland not long ago, you guys kept popping up as near "
Haha yes, Xeno lives in Weymouth  |
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"So Mr is merchant navy and works away for 4 month blocks, we still stay active on here to keep our hand in as Mrs plays alone with women. Though after a couple of weeks the conversations stop and get unfriended etc. Do you fabbers think it’s better to shut down profile for time away ? Or keep at it ?"
Keep it, or you'll lose your verifications. |
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I’d say to set up a single profile for the female female play.
Then you can both keep your hand in with couples and Mrs can chat on single profile with solely girls.
Seems easier to separate the accounts if Mr isn’t going to be around for so long at a time |
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By * and BCouple
over a year ago
Durham |
We had the opposite. Chatting with a couple where the male half was just about to go away to work for a month. We chatted while he was away, he also chatted on here to us while he was overseas. We thought it was all going well and we were looking forward to meeting them both on his return. He returned, we chatted for another week as we knew he would want to settle back in as we aren't pushy people. Anyway after a week we asked them when they wanted to meet up, they said they'd let us know and didn't hear from them again. Fab is so much hard work which is why we don't normally put that kind of effort in anymore and just head to clubs where the people who are looking to meet others go   |
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By *lueFireCouple
over a year ago
just somewhere around here |
"We had the opposite. Chatting with a couple where the male half was just about to go away to work for a month. We chatted while he was away, he also chatted on here to us while he was overseas. We thought it was all going well and we were looking forward to meeting them both on his return. He returned, we chatted for another week as we knew he would want to settle back in as we aren't pushy people. Anyway after a week we asked them when they wanted to meet up, they said they'd let us know and didn't hear from them again. Fab is so much hard work which is why we don't normally put that kind of effort in anymore and just head to clubs where the people who are looking to meet others go "
Yes this exactly |
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"So Mr is merchant navy and works away for 4 month blocks, we still stay active on here to keep our hand in as Mrs plays alone with women. Though after a couple of weeks the conversations stop and get unfriended etc. Do you fabbers think it’s better to shut down profile for time away ? Or keep at it ?"
Sometimes if we don’t meet people after a few weeks of messaging we naturally loose interest. If we’ve met and there’s a gap we’ll continue to chat! |
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